All posts by: Mistress Helen Ryder

About Mistress Helen Ryder

Just four days into the New Year and My diary is filling up nicely 🙂 I had a superb playtime last night and I’m still smiling! Today I am logged into the phone chat lines, no clients booked in for today.  Still keeping myself busy with phone work, blogging, SEO and X posts etc…. Here […]

Another year flying by it seems….. I’ve had lots of fun n frolics this past year, if I had to leave anything behind at all it would just be any negativity from the ones who didn’t cut the mustard, got banned and blacklisted to boot on various forums.  For failing to pay deposits, to cancelling […]

Wishing ALL My subs, slaves, sissies, kinksters & players a wonderful festive time and thanks for a great year of fun n frolics in real time or phone sessions.  It’s been a blast! 🙂 I will pop on phone chat briefly Christmas day in between cooking/eating and I am around tomorrow Christmas Eve and Boxing […]

Happy 20th Birthday to Club Pedestal in London, congratulations to Derek and his team, one of the longer standing Fetish Clubs. TWENTY yrs how time flies!  I’ve been attending Club Pedestal for the last 15yrs! I don’t attend every time it’s on as I often have clients booked in for the day after.  Crawling into […]

DO NOT USE MASSPAY!!!!! They haven’t transferred my money into my account, which was sent from Niteflirt to the MassPay platform at the end of October and I received my payment link 6th November, which I then requested my payment (SEPA).  I have raised a ticket with Niteflirt (still waiting on a reply)  I have […]

Have you been thinking of booking for a session and don’t quite know what style of play you might be into? I often receive emails from new people who have no idea what they wish to experience, where as others have a deep seated fetish going back years.  It’s often the mature gents who are […]

Those who wish to be kept under strict lock and key should do so asap for #Locktober Supply your own chastity, send £250 tribute for the month Bank info on My website Non refundable Then meet to lock up or post a key after payment and arranging via My email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com You will receive some […]

Please be aware that I will NOT play with anyone who asks for me to play without a safe word in place!  I work on body language in sessions so I can 99.9% tell when I am playing with someone that I’m within their safe area of play.  BDSM play is 110% about consent on […]

Wishtender        https://www.wishtender.com/helenryder Good day everyone My birthday is 24th August, I’m popping down some ideas for those who would like to send a gift. Bank transfer or cash in person to go towards some further ink to finish colouring my arm, see above Wishtender link (another way to send funds so I […]