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04Jan 2025

Happy New Year 2025

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Wishing you all a Happy 2025 and giving you some general news and updates.

I have already got this year off to an amazing kickstart with My wonderful loyal boi slavvarodda (as he is known on X) a super CP session, broken into two parts with lunch at a local pub in the middle.  He wore panties under his trousers, after lunch he received some more CP and then onto My bondage bed for nipple torment and the wand, making him milk himself off as the grand finale 🙂 then a chat/unwind and an expresso to set him up for his journey home to London.

I have made a slight change to My booking procedures,  still too many ungenuine that don’t follow through with paying a deposit.  ALL new contact or people I haven’t seen for over 3 months must send an application fee of £30 by bank transfer (comes off final balance when you attend) if for any reason you do not attend then you can have a phone chat with me if we haven’t spoken.  The only replies to emails without the fee already sent will only be a hyperlink with what I expect and no other discussion until I have received it.  There are no refunds on any payments, bank information is available on the blog link. https://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/booking-procedures-and-deposit-information/

Today I posted up on My LoyalFans I have decided for all of January I will post almost daily or every couple of days the outfit I am wearing to include lingerie etc.  Today is Agent Provocateur lingerie and only available to those who subscribe to Me.  https://t.co/l6pwUwqQ5N

I know it’s brass monkeys outside, rest assured My playroom is well heated for both Our/our pleasures and play and is warmer up there than it currently is downstairs!  You will be eager to strip off in there and I will remove any woolly jumpers over My fetish outfit haha. I’m quite tempted to just hang out upstairs today, whilst logged into the phone chat platforms.

I am often asked if you can bring a gift along, so whilst it is lovely to receive gifts from you.  I do prefer tipping, this enables Me to pop it to one side if its a smaller tip and collate tips into something that I really desire and often need to save up for.  I have enough alcohol than I can possibly consume and I only have one G&T these days on a Friday or Saturday and do not drink in the week.  I love receiving perfume (from My choice) and will write a blog about my favourites.

When I returned from My holiday in Crete I went on a Keto diet and to date I have lost 1.9 St and I now wear a UK12, I’m going to lose a bit more before My upcoming surgery mid/late March 2025 (I will post a blog when I have My surgery date and post on socials too) Tips will go towards new clothing 🙂

Re My surgery: My surgeon said I will be off work for approx three months, however due to losing weight and doing pre-hab I might heal quickly and may be able to return to work sooner, offering sessions that suit My needs and capabilities. So just keep your peepers peeled on My blog news, X posts and LoyalFans.  I’ve been told I will be wearing a brace from ankle to hip to begin with, those with a brace fetish can pay Me for a photo set or video call 🙂

Scammers: Please note I do not have an Instagram or Facebook page of Mistress Helen Ryder, some person with a weird fixation of Me and way too much time on their hands has been a busy scammer, ripping off every image I have not copyright water marked.  Mistress’s never approach subs or ask you to send any money via any other means than the instructions on her official website.  Do your research!!

Over and out for now

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

02Nov 2024

Live Deliciously

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Live Deliciously has become My new motto, having watched The Witch (film 2015) again recently and how I live My own life.

  • Spoiler alert if you haven’t seen it

“Wouldst thou like the taste of butter, a pretty dress , wouldst thou like to live deliciously?” This is spoken by Black Philip after being conjured by the eldest daughter at the end of the film

So often on Twitter I receive comments with “I wish it was me” or receive phone chat calls on My Dommeline sighing that if only they had the courage to session in person.  A whole year or more has passed with no booking in site, the desire to session is strong but they don’t take the leap of faith and book/pay the deposit.  Keep putting it off, then another year passes, another year and nothing ….

Suddenly you are several years older and still having regrets for the things you haven’t tried, no one towards end of life ever looks back and thinks “I was too kinky” There is always regret for not trying new things or doing more of what you love (within sensible reason, depending on what that is)

Have the slice of cake (burn it off) wear the pretty dress (sissies)  Explore your kinky side, BOOK your playtime, you will only wish you had done so much sooner!  In fact this is what I do hear from those who finally take the plunge, wishing they had simply booked in much sooner.

The pic below is a photo I took from My hallway of filth (there are lots of fetish framed prints/originals) you may also have noticed that I am watermarking all future photo content as My images keep being stolen and used to set up fake versions on various platforms, it’s essential that you only EVER contact Me via the email address on this website.

So “wouldst thou like to live deliciously?

Well now it’s up to you!

*Want to speed up the booking process, then send an Amazon gift code £20 call cover fee, direct from your Amazon account to My email helen-ryder@hotmail.com or buy one from a retail outlet, rub off the panel and send the code by email.  Please note I NEVER open ANY type of attachments.  As per the booking blog, if you book within six weeks it will come off the final balance of an in person session.  I will give best timings to call Me provided you have sent the call cover fee, otherwise call when able until we connect.

08Aug 2023

Same day appointments available with some notice

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On occasions I can take a same day appointment and will require a minimum 90 mins notice from the point of calling/email and the deposit being paid within 5 mins of contact/agreement.

My preference is a non refundable bank transfer deposit or an Amazon GC if agreed, let me know when you contact me which one.

If you have a live Adult Work profile with immaculate good feedback from current working ladies then contact me via AW so I can view you and may accept a booking form.

I know many of you get the urge and have limited availability to come out to play.

I will be dressed in an outfit suitable for the playtime, no specific complex outfit requests thank you.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen

If you have lots of questions then please ONLY call Me via any of the following platforms, please read/accept call rates first:

 

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01Aug 2023

Double Domme Date With Miss Kitty Bliss 6th September 2023

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Taking Bookings now for this Double Domme playdate, book/deposit to have your playtime firmly in your grasp and in Our diaries!

One hour from £250

To book

helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / X (twitter.com)

Any questions or discussion then please call Mistress Helen via her Dommeline when showing available, otherwise just send the deposit first or a call cover fee of £20 for discussion.

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West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder (mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk)

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Keep it kinky

Mistress Helen XX

 

20Mar 2023

Time to catch up

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Blog updated

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Hello peeps, well it has been rather a long time since I have blogged, naughty Mistress Helen Ryder!  I will spank my own bottom thank you 🙂

Rest assured I am well, working, still taking sessions and thoroughly enjoying them.  To be perfectly honest I lost my mojo writing blogs for a while, keep putting it off.  Many an evening whilst logged into phone chat I have had every intention of writing something but having a big fluffy blanket on my lap and a big warm cat on top isn’t really conducive to having a laptop on my lap and typing!  But the kitty is keeping me warm!

The stupid cost of living is hitting us all, how I would love to get the big boss’s of the energy suppliers over my bench and give them a darn good thrashing and make them pay £410 to me to cover my monthly gas/leccy outgoings!!  So on that note I have put a very small increase of £10/£20 on tributes and I was due a raise anyway.

I haven’t added to my clips4sale for a very long time, the law and clip sites keep moving the goal posts with what content is allowed to be posted.  Some Mistress’s seem to get away with posting quite extreme play and then others get shot down in flames.  I’m of the opinion that much of what happens in sessions can stay behind closed doors and I am not prepared to put myself way out there to then potentially bite myself on the derriere.

I do still upload some mini clips to my Adult Work private clip store so that you all have something to wet your appetites and see that I’m still VERY active and playing.

If you haven’t been to see me for a very long time then do book a session as just receiving a hello email isn’t really related or conductive in running this amazing business I’ve chosen to do.  I am answering emails to those who are actively seeking to book in for a brilliant play time.   CP Impact Play, Pegging, Bondage, EStim, Sissy Maids, Cross Dressers, Tie and Tease, Medical Role Play being just some of the interests that I have.  Do check the very comprehensive information within my website.

Over and out for now

Mistress Helen Ryder, West Sussex Dominatrix, Disciplinarian and Fetish Kinkster

Looking forward to seeing my regular players and newbies are most welcome to get in touch, a deposit will always be required within a TWO email exchange.

Keep your peepers peeled for an incoming blog later this week about one of the amazing sessions I’ve recently had the pleasure of 😉

 

 

14Sep 2022

General News

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Hi kinksters, subs/slaves, sissies and all

I flew back Monday evening and have been playing catch up on emails yesterday and had my lovely sissy maid Anna over to do some chores to ready the play rooms and house for the bookings ahead.

Some very good boys have sent deposits today, thank you for keeping it simple and giving this Mistress commitment and a busy diary ahead.

Sadly someone contacting me on Adult Work has proved to be a terrible time waster and has got himself on the blocked list! Congratulations and there he shall stay.  The only way to get unblocked is full payment upfront and then send an email to say it’s been paid.

Moving on as I find these silly negatives rather tiresome.

I had a lovely time away, added to my light tan and freckle collection too 🙂 I won’t bore you with holiday pics on here, as I did post lots on Twitter.

I have added sensual massage back to my repertoire of activities for those not wanting any form of BDSM, just looking for a sensual teasing massage with some added stress relief at the end.

Looking forward to the vast array of fun and games I offer to you lucky lot and the fantastic bookings already firmly booked in, thank you.

See you soon

Mistress/Ms Helen  xXx

 

 

09Feb 2022

Double Domme Dates

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Check out My Twitter feed for all advertised double domination dates and general news, this link is My ONLY Twitter, there have been several fakes recently, stealing My images and creating Twitter accounts to scam people, they have been reported numerous times but still exist!  Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter  The one and only!!!

I’m teaming up with my friend Mistress Amber in Gravesend Kent on Thursday 24th Feb 2022 we will be offering CP/All impact play, bondage, NT, sensory dep & many more BDSM Delights.  Pegging, medical play and HE is not available for this DD date, pop your enq into an email to apply.  StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

Thursday 24th March 2022 My friend Miss Kitty Bliss will be working with Me in Burgess Hill for a full BDSM experience to include pegging, medical play, CP, bondage, sissy make overs and much more!

The sooner you book and pay your deposit the more likely you are to get the time that works well for you, we are taking bookings now.  Sometimes there are places closer to the date so it’s always worth asking.  Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

 

 

10Aug 2021

New toys and more

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I’m always adding to My ever growing collection of kink and thought the grid wall was looking a bit cluttered and it was becoming hard to see where I had hung ALL My wonderful things up.  My lovely friend Joanna Armstrong came to stay Saturday night and whilst I was cooking a Sunday roast Jo was putting up hanging rails for Me and repositioning a mirror, everyone’s a winner 🙂

See pics, this is how the room looks when I’m not conducting a play session, as you can see it also doubles as a guest room for when one of My kink friendly mates visit or if a slave books an overnight and doesn’t want to be in the cage!  All the bedding/mattress comes off for sessions, leaving a wipeable leatherette surface to lie on.  All the atmospheric lighting goes on, curtains closed to keep the outside world away and help you get into subspace.  This is just one room I use for sessions, there is also a medical white room with lots more goodies and the parlour for domestic discipline.

New items are many to include impact play, shibari rope and enfettered aroma play and much more.  Best book a session!

A reminder as usual re new bookings, please send £20 cover charge for a call and email, this is adjusted off the final tribute.  If you’ve been before then send an email as I’m not often answering My phone since Covid came along (it increased TW’s tenfold) I’m only answering to arranged calls, thank you (for My sanity) I also conduct sessions from either Brighton Dungeon or Gatwick dungeon for those looking at a slightly larger commercial play space.  I do require 2 yo 3 days notice to book elsewhere, otherwise it’s 24hrs notice for new people to visit My own play space.

19Oct 2020

New Toy The Slubb

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One of My long serving subs has bought a fantastic new toy!

It’s called the Slubb, it has very powerful vibrations, how long can you handle it?!  Book a session and find out!

Who doesn’t love a power tool!

Please note I am seeing both established regulars and new clients for play times with a risk assessment in a phone call and PPE in place. keeping Us safe whilst still having a lot of fun here.

I am a highly skilled multifaceted Domme with a wealth of experience, your boundaries are taken into consideration.  My Fetish interests are vast and listed on this site.  I excel in domestic discipline, EStim play, Pegging and much more.  I also love a good roleplay when it’s called for and certainly do not require or want a script.

I wish I could include photos of the beautiful needle art I did yesterday on the boi who bought this new toy.  I can show you when you attend.

Stay safe n kinky peeps, see some of you soon 😉

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

01Aug 2020

I am taking bookings

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I have availability for the coming week Snap up a wonderful play time Medical roleplays CP from tappity tap to full on whack

EStim/Electrics Bondage/Restraints Sissy service & Maid Training and much more……

Send an email/arrange a chat helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Deposit mandatory

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