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01Dec 2019

Mistress Helen News

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It’s been a fantastic whirlwind months of sessions, socialising, double domme with My amazing bestie Miss Kitty Bliss, we had such a scream with our boi and gurl toys together and carried out quite a sissy make over on our evening booking, who travelled over from Ireland, landing at Gatwick and getting the train to Burgess Hill (easy journey he says) he is also a repeat visitor.  i have a few chaps who travel from abroad for sessions, yet over the years EVERY enq from Chichester West Sussex has rang asking questions and then states Burgess Hill is too far! Laughing My head off!

Other news: I’ve also been settling in a new kitten (whom has recently broken her leg) will come back to this!

Attending the Femdom Ball 2019 with My collared maid and slave, modelling for the fabulous House of Harlot and finally looking at the pics and saving them to post here for you all to enjoy.  This event is something I greatly look forward to each year, meeting up with Mistress friends and meeting other ladies from afar.

I am very fortunate to have My own fully equipped premises at home, this enables Me to offer sessions at rates the average person can afford.  The ambiance here is amazing and every possible luxury is included, My premises are not a vast giant dungeon space, hence My fees reflect this and it’s not to undercut anyone else  Obviously if I were hiring dungeons then My fees would also reflect hire charges and travel. I can at certain times of the year also put on little offers like any other business.  It doesn’t devalue My status as a Professional Dominatrix and I do it to suit Me.

If all is well I will be away in Yorkshire for a few days from 23rd to 26th December and then back here, this depends on My little lady and the care she will require ongoing until her leg mends.

Back to working from home/kitten, so My eyes were off her for 10 mins and I walked in to find her with her leg at a raised angle and crying, thankful to have Miss Kitty Bliss with Me that day so emergency dash to vets and she was examined, kept in for observation and pain relief.  They wanted to X-ray but had to schedule her for the next day as had other even more serious emergency surgery in.  A very sleepless night and the next morning I took her for X-rays, diagnosed with a broken Femur right near her growth plate that it would require pinning by a specialist orthopaedic surgeon in Hove the very next day.

My little kitty has had her op and will have to have another to remove the pins as otherwise it will effect her growth (poor sweetheart) now thankfully being a responsible pet mummy I have her on the Vets VIP plan as well as insured so a lot of the expense will be reimbursed in a few weeks.  The excess on the policy is about £150 and also 20% of ALL treatment.  I’ve also had to purchase dog crates and others bits and bobs to aid her recovery.  So far it’s totted up to just under £3K with the vets and bits n bobs around £120.  She also has to have physio appointments at £75 a pop in Worthing, so more expense, fuel/travel/time. The excess/fees will still be in the hundreds.

The reason I’m stating the above is that it’s still a massive dent to the pocket, rather than any perfume/Gin/gift presents I would be so appreciative of donations to her surgery and ongoing physiotherapy.   Thank you in advance to those who would love to help support a good cause.  I think it’s far more important than some others wanting silly loub shoes, furs (fur belongs on the animal) jewels, handbags etc  I am often asked how you can support Me and show appreciation for the wonderful play I provide, so this is it.

Also if you have been thinking of booking in for play, don’t wait! I am available for session in real time and phone chats and you can support Me with purchases of mini movie clips and photos from My Adult Work profile too.  If you just wish to donate then please email Me for My bank account info. https://www.adultwork.com/1248241

I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and I’m sure I will be blogging again in a week or two with updates.

Check out My Twitter for all latest updates and news on a daily/weekly basis https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen Ryder

08Nov 2019

October news

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I was going to post a blog back in October when I had been to The Femdom Ball and then got very busy indeed so time for a catch up!

My loyal collared sissy maid came over from Norway and stayed the weekend of the ball and we travelled to London to attend My other very loyal slaves house for drinks/nibbles pre ball and to get ready to go out in style. I wore a gorgeous floor length black fitted dress with ruffles around the top and rhinestones on the waistband, My maid wore a 1950’s black and white maids dress with white gloves and slave wore a black tux and they both had collars/leashes on.

The Femdom Ball is at a secret location so no details other than to say it is a beautiful space and we were all so lucky to attend such an event. I had another outfit to change into at the ball, which was custom made for Me and designed by the amazing Iris of House of Harlot. I had attended the showroom/design studio a couple of weeks back and have a chat about ideas. I was blown away by what she made and it was such a pleasure and honour to model it in the fashion show. I am looking forward to seeing the photos from that night online when they are released. I highly recommend House of Harlot!

Between 9th to 16th I was away being spoilt in Tenerife by My BBF, we had a fantastic time and lots of fun. I even got a bit of a tan, which I’m trying to hold onto with the occasional sunbed and it’s lovely laying there for 6 mins imagining I’m relaxing by the pool or on a beautiful beach.

Apart from some great sessions in October the other fun stuff was filming with Miss Kitty Bliss at a dungeon in Brighton. This was the day after I flew back. The actual filming was fun, location wasn’t very suited to filming due to noise levels etc so we won’t be returning to it. We got some great actions shots, all will be uploaded onto clips4sale in due course (I still need to set this up) both our playmates were great fun, we even went back to mine for a two hour needle session with one of them and then all of us went out to dinner. It was a brilliant day and super evening.

I also had the pleasure of filming at The Hoxton Dungeon with Mistress Clarrisa and Sarah The Invader, with our most delightful hostess Madame Caramel conducting interviews and giving some great direction for our action. Some super slaves and sissies to play with and I’ve just received a load of promo pics today from our cameraman.

Up and coming events are:
Club Sanctum 16th November I would like to attend but unsure at present, as I have a kitten and I can not leave her overnight without a cat carer in place. It has to be one of My dear friends or family who I can 100% trust!

Double Domination days with Miss Kitty Bliss 27th and 28th November in Burgess Hill, there is a blog on this so look for it and have a read.

Possibly attend Club Pedestal on 29th with Miss Kitty Bliss and big Sis Joanna Armstrong.

I have availability throughout November and December up to 23rd, I will be in Yorkshire eve of 23rd through to 26th and travel back to Sussex on 27th December.

A few pics from events mentioned above 😘

22Oct 2019

Double Domination Play Times With Miss Kitty Bliss 27th 28th November 2019

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Roll up roll up and apply for the time of your life!

Our last double domination event until next year!

From CP, Caning party, Solo sessions both days, Medical, Electrics of EStim, ElectraStim, The Zapper and Violet Wand, Bondage, Pegging, Rope work, needle performance art, Venus 2000, hot wax, BDSM Hypnosis (email ahead for deposit/script created by Miss KB) Cross dressing, sissy maid, worship My peachy bottom whilst Miss Kitty Bliss canes or gives you a lovely warm rosy glow with hand spankings and much much more deviant BDSM fun.  Don’t miss out!!!

I am situated in Burgess Hill RH15, this is just 20 mins from Gatwick Airport (yes people fly in for sessions) It is only 20 mins from Brighton without the stress of extortionate parking fees and trying to find a space.

All sessions are bespoke to your interests and limits, email to arrange a time to chat and discuss your double domme dose of deviant delights.

Hypno enqs via Miss Kitty Bliss https://www.misskittybliss.co.uk/

 

20Sep 2019

Double Domination or Assisting Voyeur

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For those who have asked what the difference is between having a double domination with My friend Miss Kitty Bliss and Miss Ruby Vixen.
My friend Miss Kitty Bliss is a lifestyle background established very well renowned Professional Dominatrix, she has her own website and has been in the industry for over 10 years and is fully fledged in many areas of expertise, Shibari needles/medical and hardcore pursuits are a real passion.  MKB excels in hard CP too, she also has a clips website page with many movies to view.  Up until September 2019 MKB was the proprietor of The Barnet Bastille in London.  We have worked together and filmed together for quite some time now, we gel very well together and have a lot of fun double domming.  Your experience will be a fully interactive BDSM kink session with both of us actively pegging you, carrying out intimate examinations and bouncing off each other with ideas, and we both excel in roleplays.  We have events throughout the year together at various locations for filming as well as My base in Burgess Hill West Sussex, so always look out for our blogs.

Two strict Nurses

Miss Kitty Bliss ready for your medical inspection

My other friend Miss Ruby Vixen is new to the world of BDSM and she purely assists Me in session with some spanking, trampling, guided use of electrics and as a voyeur.   She is most happy assisting and flexing her new found dominance alongside Me, she doesn’t switch and doesn’t do anything of  a sexual nature, so do not ask!  I guide and instruct Ruby throughout your session. She doesn’t wish to become a fully fledged full time Dominatrix and enjoys the fun and ease of working as an assistant alongside Me or also helping out on Double Domination events with MKB, two’s company and three’s a party!

Miss Ruby Vixen

26Aug 2019

My Birthday and News

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I’ve just had the most wonderful birthday (which was Saturday) and no it’s never too late to buy Mistress a gift from My Amazon wish list or sending over money so I can spend it on something special! I am good for fragrance at the moment as I received two different Tom Ford fragrances (I love TF perfumes) lucky Me!

I was whisked away Thursday and taken to a beautiful hotel and stayed in a tree house, the most luxurious tree house with a bathroom the size of my sitting room, as well as a private outside hot tub.  We had champagne and delicious food in one of the restaurants.  They delivered a luxury hamper of goodies for breakfast, which was superb and enabled us to have another relaxing time in the hot tub before a walk down to the beach, on such a beautiful day too.

Then on to Portsmouth to visit The Mary Rose exhibition, which was fantastic, I really want to visit HMS Victory next time! We had a delicious meal up in one of the restaurants, a little shopping/browsing and then back to Sussex.

I was out with My BBF, very special close friends and family for a meal on the Saturday in Brighton and Sunday it was to the gym and burn of some of that delicious food, then relaxing in the garden after My BBF mowed the lawn (such a good bitch boyfriend) I am back in the swing of things today and have one of My regs booked in for some foot massage, easing Myself back in gently haha…..

I only see regs or pre booked people on bank holidays.  I do have availability this week, a polite email introduction and include the last three digits of your phone number of in full (I won’t call you) and I will reply with best time to give Me a call and briefly discuss session along with dates/times along with sorting the deposit to commit to a great play time.

Upcoming dates for filming and double domme ALL with Miss Kitty Bliss:

2nd September we return to the farm (in Sussex) for a day of fun/filth filming both inside and out (weather permitting) express your interests ASAP as spaces are filling up fast!

25th September Caning party running from 1:30pm to 4:30pm and double domme available this day up to 10pm

Just imagine standing in line waiting in anticipation to go across My knee or Miss Kitty’s, then over the school desk or strapped down to the bench and hear the swish of a cane before it strikes!  All bois will be thoroughly warmed up with various implements and we will take into account your limits/boundaries.

26th September Double Domme up to 10pm Come and explore all manner of BDSM delights.

17th October Filming at The Brighton Dungeon as well as double domme sessions for those who don’t wish to be filmed. 11am to 6pm.

 

 

05Aug 2019

Filming, Caning Party and Double Domme

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Hello subs, slaves, kinksters, sissies and all that read My blogs

On Monday 2nd September it is back to the farm part two!  We are filming that day from 11am to late afternoon/early eve and the tribute is £100 My own known players can book through Me and all new enquiries then please contact Miss Kitty Bliss misskittybliss.co.uk

25th September we are holding a caning party from 1:30pm to 4:30pm for £150 tribute, we plan to have around 3 to 5 max attendees.  It will be lots of fun, some great banter and you will all be leaving with warm rosey or striped bottoms, depending on the level you like to play.

Also on 25th September after the party is double domination sessions and double domme on 26th September before heading out to Club Pedestal.  Double Domme tribute starts at £220 for one hour.

We will require a driver to pick up from Burgess Hill to Vauxhall, you may attend with us, return us safely back to Burgess Hill, apply via My contact details.  If you are not already known to us then we will of course vet you, take a deposit so that you do not let us down on the night.  On completion of your mission your deposit will be returned but if you cancel then we keep it to pay for our transport.

So many wonderful opportunities to come and play and serve, looking forward to seeing you soon.

25Jun 2019

Double Domination 24th 25th July with Miss Kitty Bliss

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Teaming up with My little sis of deviance Miss Kitty Bliss for all manner of BDSM fun, book your play times ASAP!  We are offering sessions to the nervous newbie as well as experienced players.

Miss Kitty Bliss is available for some hypno sessions 121 and you will need to contact her direct in advance regarding the style of hypno script along with a deposit to her.

Send over an email with an outline of your particular interests and then follow up with a phone call.

23May 2019

Double Domme with Miss Kitty Bliss

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Not long to go until My amazing friend Miss Kitty Bliss is here to team up for all manner of fun on our willing victims, just SIX more sleeps in fact from today! 29th and 30th MAY

We always receive lots of interest and have people book in quite early and then closer to the time sadly not able to commit so space has become available, book now to reserve your wonderful play time, come serve TWO feisty Alpha females!

Although our promo poster is a medical theme, we are offering all styles of sessions and NOT purely medical.  Pegging, sensory deprivation, CP, Spanking, Sissies, maid duties, EStim, Venus 2000, Bondage, Shibari and much more!!

Miss Kitty Bliss is also available for hypnosis sessions solo, you can email Me and I will direct you to contact Mistress Kitty to discuss a hypno session and script.

We are also offering short sharp shock sessions of CP for £100 for 30 minutes!

Foot worship solo £60 for 30 mins or double feet fix at £100 for 30 mins!

We are also considering a maid to assist us for the day, making our refreshments, some tidying up and at our beck and call for either a half day or full day, tribute will be from £150 depending on hours.  Email or call Me to discuss, you will also be starring in some photos and can have the option of your face being omitted or wear a mask.  A maids uniform will be supplied.

Double Domination with Miss Kitty Bliss in May

19Apr 2019

Double Domination with Lady Amber 18th June Kent and Burgess Hill

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UPDATE, PLEASE NOTE NOT 17th  AS I AM FILMING WITH MISS KITTY BLISS THAT DAY!!

Two very strict ladies teaming up for “STRICTLY DISCIPLINE” sessions on 17th June in Kent at Lady Amber’s chambers and then 18th June in Burgess Hill at My premises.

TWO days of very red hot bottoms!  I am looking forward to this immensely

** Note this is CP, Spanking, Caning, Tawse, Flogging, all “Impact Play”

Good boys may be given permission to worship leather respectfully if agreed!

Will there be “Happy Endings” Hmmmm yes when you depart from our wonderful company, take it away with you boys.  Lady Amber is a non sexual Mistress and any relief is on your own time NOT ours.

We find CP enthusiasts are not looking for a H/E and the endorphins released in CP sessions leaves you on a happy high.

**Note to My boys, I will be administering My usual skills with My wonderful gadgets/machinery outside of the above events as I see fit!

Double Domination with Lady Amber

 

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