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If you want more knowledge in your personal life for fun or perhaps you want to set up as a profession Mistress.  I conduct full day and smaller segment workshops available Monday to Saturday, booked in advance.  Each segment will cover the relevant health and safety to the activity you are learning.  It is essential that you attend a first aid training course separate from the workshops I advertise.

Book your 121 Workshop, this is at my Burgess Hill West Sussex location.  This is a small domestic play space, otherwise if you wish to have your workshop conducted at The Brighton or Gatwick dungeon it will incur higher fees with dungeon hire/travel (POA)

Subjects: Anal play, Pegging, Electrics, EStim and Violet Wand. CP/Impact Play, NT/CBT Techniques/Sounding, Needle & Staples, Bondage, Make-Overs & Sissyfication, Sensual Tie & Tease, Simple Breath Play, Foot Fetish, Edging & Release Methods, Social Media & Web Presence, Personal Safety/Forums/Personal Welfare and setting up as Self Employed.

I also include information and details of the finest fetish equipment suppliers, advice on how to set up a play space, how to conduct a session from first contact from a potential client to completion.

Full Day 11am – 5pm consisting of five-six subjects and short refreshment break £450

1.5 hour workshops to concentrate on a couple of subjects £200

Further telephone support or webcam conversation: £150 per hour

I will supply a submissive player for demonstrations and practice.

Email me with potential dates helen-ryder@hotmail.com

All workshops require £100 non refundable deposit by bank transfer.  Workshops can be moved to one new date with 24hours notice, otherwise you will forfeit the deposit.  Wear regular comfy clothing that you can move about easily in, you may wish to bring along a fetish outfit and change if desired.

Book your shared playtime Thursday 6th June 2024! ASAP! Lets have a kinky lil 3sum party!

TWO bois per playtime, bi interaction encouraged, sexuality & limits respected, straight play & taking turns for those who don’t wish to explore their bi side.  I will ensure that you are suitably matched for straight/bi sessions.

12-1:30pm

2:30pm – 4pm

£150 each for 90 mins playtimes in Burgess Hill

Deposit mandatory

 

The Goddess Society, hosted by the utterly amazing Lady Ava Sheridon  @avasheridon

are BACK in Brighton with the much sought after Anti -Valentines Edit. Yes, you heard right: three whole glorious hours of you being naked, serving and entertaining Us in a variety of wickedly delightful ways.

WHEN: Thursday 15th February 2024 5-8pm

WHERE: Central Brighton location. Address will be sent in your confirmation email.

WHO: Goddesses in Attendance:

Your Host: Lady Ava Sheridon, The Goddess Society:

Domina Blaize @DominaBlaize

Domina Joi Bleu @Joi_Bleu

Myself: Mistress Helen Ryder @MsHelenRyder

PRICE: £220 per submissive which is for the entire 3 hour duration of the event! PLACES: LIMITED!!!!!! There are 8 premium places in total. One of them belongs to you. BOOK YOUR PLACE NOW: ladyavadominatrix.com/event-details/

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Taking Bookings now for this Double Domme playdate, book/deposit to have your playtime firmly in your grasp and in Our diaries!

One hour from £250

To book

helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / X (twitter.com)

Any questions or discussion then please call Mistress Helen via her Dommeline when showing available, otherwise just send the deposit first or a call cover fee of £20 for discussion.

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Double Domme 12th July with Miss Kitty Bliss, set at a special lower rate for this occasion, so don’t miss out and snap it up whilst you can!

If you pay your non refundable deposit and can not attend closer to the date then the 50% paid will go towards a new date (within three months) solo or DD but at the new DD rate on Our next event or towards my usual solo rate not this DD special.  Our next event for a full DD day will be £260 for one hour!

Less than 24hrs notice to cancel you will forfeit your deposit and the full balance will be required, thank you.

Sessions in Burgess Hill

Email Me helen-ryder@hotmail,com to apply

One hour £210

90 mins £350

Two hours £420

Well what an exciting few weeks it has been!

Miss Ruby Vixen and Miss Kitty Bliss have both graced the Burgess Hill playrooms to come and play with some of my bois, what fun we’ve had!

Miss Kitty Bliss is a fully fledged Mistress who has been in the business for over ten years, she has her own website, runs her own business and runs Club Sanctum, which is currently having a sabbatical due to availability of London venues at present.  MKB is very experienced in CP & Medical play, strap-on, bondage and much more.

Our next double domme date is 4th May, we do get busy so it’s wise to book in advance and secure the playtime that works for your kinky time.

Miss Ruby Vixen is My assistant, an extra pair of kink friendly hands in a session, more of a playful voyeur & gentle switch, MRV doesn’t take care of bashing in the back doors with a strap-on (that’s Moi & MKB) she does like to have you suck on her lolly cock though 🙂 spanking, clothed face sitting, trample and foot worship.  Hence the rates are advertised accordingly.

Easter is soon upon us, if any chaps out there want to see how many mini eggs I can insert in your slot then do book a session and bring the chocs too!  I do love a sense of slightly warped good fun in My sessions 😁

All sessions are 24 hours notice if you are not known to me

Established regs I require TWO full hours notice from having agreed time that day

ALL sessions require a non refundable deposit (moved to one new date with 24hrs notice)

 

 

 

 

Check out My Twitter feed for all advertised double domination dates and general news, this link is My ONLY Twitter, there have been several fakes recently, stealing My images and creating Twitter accounts to scam people, they have been reported numerous times but still exist!  Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter  The one and only!!!

I’m teaming up with my friend Mistress Amber in Gravesend Kent on Thursday 24th Feb 2022 we will be offering CP/All impact play, bondage, NT, sensory dep & many more BDSM Delights.  Pegging, medical play and HE is not available for this DD date, pop your enq into an email to apply.  StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

Thursday 24th March 2022 My friend Miss Kitty Bliss will be working with Me in Burgess Hill for a full BDSM experience to include pegging, medical play, CP, bondage, sissy make overs and much more!

The sooner you book and pay your deposit the more likely you are to get the time that works well for you, we are taking bookings now.  Sometimes there are places closer to the date so it’s always worth asking.  Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

 

 

Hello readers

Some general news and info on how to book

17th August I am filming with Miss Kitty Bliss, we currently have two spaces left.

Attendance £100 Near Brighton, on location with possible outdoor scenes – weather and circumstances permitting. Applications misskittybliss.co.uk/filming-slaves/  or email Me if you’ve seen Me before.

A reminder on how to book a session with Mistress Helen Ryder

If you are a potential new client or someone I haven’t seen for a very long time then please follow the new client booking procedures with sending an email along with £20 payment by bank transfer preferred or Amazon gift code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com My bank info is on the tribute page.  We can then arrange a nice little chat.

On the very rare occasions I might answer My phone to an unknown or unscheduled call, please be aware I will only direct you to My website and blog in regards payment and email.  I will not answer ANY basic questions already covered on this website or discuss your fetish’s until you have paid for My time.

When you meet Me you will find that I am very personable, with much drive/passion and focus on creating a great session.  The less energy spent in negative pursuits with half hearted email enqs. dodgy phone calls etc leaves more positivity for real time sessions!  Don’t let a small £20 tribute put you off at first contact if you are genuine, it is normal these days to pay something to show you are truly invested in a potential session.  The fact that I then adjust the final tribute keeps it very fair.

Recently I had someone send above fee and we chatted but he wasn’t willing to wear a mask in session because he hadn’t been vaccinated.  This was covered on the blog link I had sent over before he paid the phone fee.  I can lead you to all the information but if you don’t actually read it at all then it’s not My problem!

All Professional Dommes have their own way of conducting their business.  Wise words are read the website and simply follow the lady of your choice instructions.

 

 

 

 

I’m heading up North on 22nd July until Monday 26th July, sessions back in West Sussex from 27th July.

The 25th July is set aside for Our Double Domme event “Sunday Sinners”

I am teaming up with My gorgeous friend Mistress Helena in Huddersfield,  she is just 26 mins train travel from Leeds with a 6 min cab journey or by car from Leeds just over half an hour drive with easy on street parking, sessions are in a beautiful fully equipped dungeon.  Which is scrupulously clean  using hospital grade products, all toys are covered with condoms where possible or sterilised before/after use.  There is plenty of “proper” sterile & insertable lube too!  No cooking fat or motorcycle grease haha.  Two consummate professionals who care about your wellbeing and only use the best equipment.

Two strict blonde alpha females to take control over you, Our fetish interests are immense and we are passionate about what we do, please take a look around Our fetish interests on Our websites to see what makes you salivate and yearn to book a visit for an amazing double domination experience.

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Just a few ideas to wet your appetites

Pegging/Spit roasting

CP Judicial, straight up or Roleplay from moderate to very hard!

Sissy transformations

Medical play

Sensory deprivation with EStim/Wand teasing sensual or take the pain if you are a masochist, your limits/boundaries are always respected

Bondage, leather, straps, encasement, mummification and/or time in the cell

Foot worship, maid or slave duties

Contact Mistress Helena to book in and a 50% deposit is mandatory and non refundable (bank transfer info on My online domination/tribute page) Please provide an outline of your interests and any medical conditions we need to be aware of.  ALL sessions are totally bespoke to your interests,  we do listen to your kinks and create the best unique experience.  We are lifestyle Mistress’s with years of experience and deviant tricks up Our sleeves 😉 so lets get together and enjoy some fetish play, it really doesn’t get better than this!

We look forward to “having you” visit us soon.

Contact Mistress Helena on 07557 516183 call or polite text to book in