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Slave C had experienced a very CP based session previously and was keen to see Mistress Helen again but having been away up north and visiting another Dominatrix who had left some very visible bruises and welts that he asked for a much softer option of an alternate massage to include some teasing and nipple tweaking.  Yes a sensual massage was exactly what he needed today!

He arrived and was welcomed up to the room all set out with the massage couch set up and candles flickering, feeling hot and sticky from his journey he first had a shower and then went back into the room and saw Mistress Helen dressed in a skimpy chemise, stockings and high heels.

He was instructed to get up onto the couch and then lay face down, he felt a series of pressures along his back and instructions to breathe in deeply and to exhale again and then be aware of each breath taking him into a state of relaxation.

Warm oiled hands gliding over his skin and then working out the knots and tension he relaxed onto the couch and started to feel the benefits of a very sexy dominant therapist.  Chatting occasionally about what he had been up to and then simply relaxing further and further into the treatment becoming aware of warmed bamboo canes (which Mistress Helen had mentioned) the feeling of heat working deep into his muscles felt so good and then hands again on his skin soothing and stroking and gliding.  The touches becoming very teasing in his upper thighs and gently kneading his bruised buttocks.

Time to turn over and the request of some nipple tweaking produced a shiny pair of clover clamps fastened onto his nipples and tied to a ribbon inserted into his mouth.  “Pull on those slave whilst I work on your arms” His arms being expertly massaged and Mistress Helen placing them in such ways that he occasionally swept over her exquisite breasts.   The ribbon was then removed from his mouth and a soft red satin ribbon tied around his cock and balls and then attached to the nipples with just the right amount of tension.  A blindfold was placed over his eyes so now he wouldn’t see his beautiful Mistress and simply enjoy the sensations.

Mistress Helen massaged his arms, legs, torso and chest with having placed a blind fold on him he couldn’t see what was being lowered onto his face.  “Guess the body part slave and get the answer correct, well there might be a prize” Smelling Mistress’s perfume and being the most obvious of choices he guessed breasts.  “Correct answer slave” feeling the weight coming away from his face and drawing a breath and just in time Mistress Helen eased a hand under his head and smothered him once more counting down from 10.  Excitement taking over he ached to be touched and teased and it’s as if Mistress had read his mind, feeling her hands stroking and gliding all down the length of his torso…………….

Well sorry to leave you in suspense but you will have to guess the rest of the session, maybe try such a session out for yourself.

Slave C left refreshed, relaxed and also invigorated.

Alternate massages are great for beginner sessions and can incorporate some very gentle flogging, prostrate massage, melted wax candle massage oil and as much and little as you wish outside of a regular massage if you are starting to step your toes into the world of BDSM or simply fancy something a little more relaxing.

 

Duo Domination with Berkshire’s Mistress Jane & Sussex’s own, Mistress Helen Ryder…

I’m teaming up with my dynamic Mistress mate so don’t miss out, off on my tour to Berksire soon!

Not ONE but TWO powerful and demanding Dominatrix’s will be joining forces for two days of Duo Domination on Monday 26th and Tuesday 27th of October.

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This will be our 10th get together and as a special celebratory offer sessions on the Tuesday will be £160 for the hour instead of the usual tribute of £200.

Come and enjoy an hour or more of your favourite BDSM activities with not only one but two Mistresses. Your punishment will be our pleasure…Spoil yourself and be indulgent, we intend to!

Novices & Newbies are welcome so don’t be scared off by the thought of two Mistresses, sessions are tailored to your specific needs and requirements. Sensual teasing or taking you strap-on cherry…we promise to be gentle! its twice the pleasure!  With BOTH Mistress’s being qualified in massage we also offer a 4 hands erotic massage to incorporate any light BDSM activities.

Bi….Mistress Janes pet slut T-Girl Gigi may be in the area on Monday 26th so if you’d like her to assist during your session let Mistress Jane know in advance.

Note: We will keep a few spaces available on both days for ‘Same day’ bookings for those of you who are unable to pre book for our Duo Domination event.

BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN for Duo Domination event.

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Dear Mistress Helen

Hi. This is Pansy Penny. I have just enjoyed reading your blog about our session last week. Thank you very much for posting it. You made it sound very exciting and lots of fun, which of course is exactly what it was.
It was lovely to meet you; and I really appreciated you dressing up. You looked gorgeous. I was nervous about the start (I did it mainly so you would be more severe with me), but loved the play-acting and the spanking more than I expected. I also loved the way you humiliated and teased me and got me into more and more trouble.
MJ is awesome, and you two together were great. I hope we’ll be able to do a similar session before too long.
By the way, I didn’t spill any water because I braced the tray against the cupboard. At least I got away with something!
Thank you again.
best wishes
Pansy Penny

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I’ve had several of My recent bookings state I am too cheap! (you are always welcome to tip or bring a gift) Smiling at that comment and I have reassured them that they really mean very reasonable compared to many other professional Mistress’s.  I have set my rates for the reason that I know many of you NEED and DESIRE sessions on a more regular basis and setting my rates as they are makes it achievable for you to fulfil those urges and build a better rapport with Me your Mistress over time.

I invest in My equipment and have spent many thousands on high quality toys/furniture/website/photos/clothing/advertising as well as the usual sundries of good quality lube, gloves, enemas, medical grade cleaners etc.  I care about my clients and there well being.  If I were running my sessions from another location I would of course have to increase my fee to cover renting industrial premises or buy another property.  I work from my own establishment legally.

I have turned over one dedicated room for play and feel this reflects in my tribute fairly.

I do not see more than 2 clients max on any one day and being as I sometimes get booked for longer sessions of 2 to 3 hours this also would not be possible.  Some days I do not see anyone so it is not high volume traffic at my premises and is very discreet.

I offer affordable quality/experienced domination sessions with a lifestyle background going back to 1996 when I first starting attending fetish events.  I have  also worked alongside several other Mistress’s who have the same ethos of BDSM being available for the average gentleman and not just those with deep pockets.  Reasonable rates does not indicate a poor quality Mistress and it is down to the individual to charge what she likes and feels happy charging based on her establishment/session interests after setting aside her tax/outgoings that the individual is still making a wage.

I can be available to session at the Gatwick Dungeon location in Horley but again keeping my rates REAL it will be a higher tribute then what I ask for staying at my base due to hire charges and travel costs/time.

So what does the average week bring me in my world I am often asked, looking back over the last week it has been #FootWorship #Pegging #StrapOn #Humiliation #UrethalSounds #RolePlay #Hogtie and #Bondage #MedicalPlay #Nettles #CBT #CP #Electrics not ALL in one session as some people may only have one particular activity that they enjoy and it’s perfectly fine to have as many activities as you like or as little with time permitting of course.

The more complex the session the more time is required, otherwise the session is too rushed and if it’s a very intense session you may need time to unwind at the end. A hot shower, cuppa and a biscuit a little unwinding is sometimes what’s needed after an intense experience.

See you soon

Mistress Helen X

Domination starts right here, please read/accept and follow the instructions provided:

Booking Procedures:

I ask for an initial £20 phone fee paid up front (it comes off your final balance, if booking a session within a 6 week period) Sent direct to my bank account (Sort 20-92-54 Account:70468665 Name Mrs S Rogers Ref: Consult/your initials) or an Amazon GC to my email helen-ryder@hotmail.com

ALL SESSIONS REQUIRE PHYSICAL AND MENTAL PREPERATION AND PLANNING IN ORDER FOR YOU TO GET THE VERY BEST FROM YOUR SESSION

NEW CLIENTS: 48HRS AHEAD MINIMUM NOTICE

EXISTING CLIENTS: 24HRS NOTICE or 3hours same day with deposit sent within 20 mins of communication/agreement

Please email as first contact to introduce yourself and the style of session which interests you (a brief outline/list of activities) include between 3 to 6 dates/times  that you are looking to book and can commit to.  I will then  require a call cover fee or 50% non refundable deposit PAID PROMPTLY

DEPOSITS in order of preference:

Bank transfer

NOTE: If after receiving My bank info you then come back with more questions & haven’t send the minimum call cover fee then I will ignore ANY further messages.  Your contact details will be noted as a time waster.

online voucher from https://www.highstreetvouchers.com/

Amazon gift code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com, sent directly from your Amazon account (never send any form of attachments, PDF etc) I NEVER open attachments.

Once I have the payment we will arrange a phone call to me (it’s essential I speak with you)  On the day of your session we can chat in more detail on arrival or you may wish to call me for a longer explicit chat on either Adult Work or DOMMELINE when I am logged in before the day of your session.  Both these links are within My website and linked on Twitter.  I also sell my own direct phone chat packages (see online domination tab)

I INSIST that ALL My new clients pay a deposit 48 hours in advance minimum

  • The more complex the session the more time is required to book, think about what you wish to experience.
  • Cash drop offs are possible but will incur an extra *£50 as a PRE PAY meet/greet fee paid 48hrs in advance Amazon GC only
  • Deposits are a vetting & security process and demonstrate that you are making a committed booking as a submissive or kinkster and respect Me and My time!
  • If you don’t like paying a deposit then please don’t contact Me.
  • Provided 24 hrs hours notice given to reschedule your session, the deposit will be moved on one occasion only within a 2 month period.  If you cancel on the day/less than 24hrs notice  you forfeit your deposit and a gentleman would pay the agreed full fee.  If you fail to do this, you forfeit the deposit and will be expected to pay in full in advance of any new session. I am a self employed tax payer and will not replace your appointment at short notice!  I will have also potentially turned other clients away.  If you do not send the balance you will be black listed and details circulated on the time waster forums for other Dommes to check.
  • Amazon vouchers can be purchased online and also from some retailers/super markets.  I require the code off the card a full 48 hours+ before you are due for your session.  The code is revealed when you scratch off the panel.
  • If you send multiple emails asking further questions (especially being vague & asking for My diary contents/availability) and haven’t sent a deposit, be aware this is a time waster tactic so I will ignore you until you send over a 50% deposit or min £20 call cover fee to answer any questions

The location will only be given after the booking/deposit is all confirmed. There is free parking close by, come and go discreetly and quietly.  I do not have an open door or revolving door policy here.

On the day of your session please ensure you call at the time of your appointment (do not be early or late)

Having spent thousands on fetish furniture/ equipment, clothing, My website and advertising etc I won’t be skipping town with your “deposit” I also hold a high regard for My reputation in this industry.

I look forward to speaking with you and meeting you soon.

Mistress Helen

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Hello all

27th and 28th August I will be heading off to Berkshire to spend some time with my fab friend Mistress Jane, we met quite a few years ago on the Fetish scene and stayed in touch over the years so we often reminisce on the good ole days as well as going out for nice country walks and our love of veggy food, red wine and vintage fashion.

There will be limited space so it’s best to book soon, priority given to those we have double dommed with previously, as well as existing clients previously seen with either of us on a 121 booking, new bookings are welcome and a deposit may be asked for in advance due to the limited availability depending on time and duration of an appointment. You are most welcome to get in touch with either me or Mistress Jane.

Due to the warm spell we have been enjoying I have been buying some new latex, consisting of short tight form fitting bodies, knickers and bras and corselettes as well as some What Katie did and Kiss Me Deadly vintage style lingerie to show off my ample curves to tease you in sessions so I will be packing a selection for my Berkshire visit.

Fancy being spit roasted, electrics, strap-on, humiliation, role plays, sissy wear, TV/Cross Dressing, make-overs, Corporal Punishment, Edge play, Medical play, foot worship, Fetish Nurse, 4 hands massage with 2 dominant therapists! Alternative massage and much more…….

See you soon!

Mistress Helen X

 

 

How time flies, it was only last week that I was visiting my friend Mistress Jane to catch up on all the news and go out for a nice walk in the area and in between help assist with some very errant boys!

I always have great fun lending a helping hand and received this email from Mr Groper afterwards:

Dear Head Teacher and School Inspector

Thank you both for an enjoyable session Saturday am. For limp-wristed females, you certainly made your mark. I was not scared of you to begin with, but soon learnt my lesson.
Until the next time.
Mr Groper

You can read all about it here at http://mistressjane.co.uk/category/my-blog/sessions/

Watch this space for more of my own news and stories very soon and I’m in West Sussex for all your spanking desires, bondage, alternative massage, CBT, Role play, Corporal Punishment, Strap-on play, Electrics, Violet Wand, Estim, Anal inspections, Foot worship, foot fetish fun etc

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

 

 

 

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Duo Domination day in Berkshire with Mistress Jane

I am off to visit my friend Mistress Jane to catch up on all the news, take in some country walks, some good wine etc and gang up together on you naughty boys whilst I am there.

Duo Domination is £200 for the hour.

You can email your date/time of preference and outline of previous experience and the style of session that interests you.

Deposits being taken now for ALL new first timers, refunds are not offered if you cancel but will be held for another date.  If for any reason myself or Mistress Jane have to reschedule then you would be offered a refund of the deposit or offered an alternate date (which ever you prefer) contact me for details.

If you have seen either myself or Mistress Jane before then a deposit may not be necessary.

Duo Domination for double the fun and great scope for all sorts of role plays!

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Always so gratifying to receive a thank you message after a session and know that the sub/slave enjoyed his caning as much as I did, thank you dd……….any time 😉
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Wonderful Mistress Helen,
A big thank you for our time together this afternoon. You really are a very clever lady. I am looking forward to continuing my training in the near future.
As you instructed I bought Lady Julia some flowers on the way home. She say they are very nice but I shouldn’t have needed to be told to get them. She says that next time I see you I must beg for twelve nice stingers with the cane for not doing it off my own bat.
I can see I am going to need lots of training and more caning before I reach an acceptable standard.
Your eager and adoring novice
dd
Well I certainly enjoy giving a good caning to all your naughty boys, are you ready to bend over my bench to receive the cane?

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I work within a domestic setting with all manner of instruments and equipment for various scenarios.

I am an experienced Mistress from being a pure hobbyist for many years before embarking on offering professional sessions.  I am friendly caring and approachable but do not wrongly assume this makes me any less “Dominant” ALL scenes are “Safe Sane and Consensual” and also “Risk Aware Consensual Kink”

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