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Check out My Twitter feed for all advertised double domination dates and general news, this link is My ONLY Twitter, there have been several fakes recently, stealing My images and creating Twitter accounts to scam people, they have been reported numerous times but still exist!  Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter  The one and only!!!

I’m teaming up with my friend Mistress Amber in Gravesend Kent on Thursday 24th Feb 2022 we will be offering CP/All impact play, bondage, NT, sensory dep & many more BDSM Delights.  Pegging, medical play and HE is not available for this DD date, pop your enq into an email to apply.  StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

Thursday 24th March 2022 My friend Miss Kitty Bliss will be working with Me in Burgess Hill for a full BDSM experience to include pegging, medical play, CP, bondage, sissy make overs and much more!

The sooner you book and pay your deposit the more likely you are to get the time that works well for you, we are taking bookings now.  Sometimes there are places closer to the date so it’s always worth asking.  Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

 

 

Double Domination Sessions in Kent with Lady Amber

Our next dates advertised for double domination sessions in Kent is 20th/21st April, we can also work together in Kent on other dates subject to 48hrs notice with a deposit to secure.

(4) LadyAmber (@LadyAmber2017) / Twitter

We will be working together for impact play, heavy CP sessions

Bondage sessions and extended bondage special sessions

Breath Play with or without intox

Tickle sessions (on you of course) we DO NOT receive!

Leather sessions, leather cross dressing available

Sensory Deprivation

Boot/Shoe and Foot Worship

Some wrestle holds NOT wrestling

Please note there will be NO sexual play in sessions, these sessions are for serious fetish players, your excitement can be contained and taken away with you for later reflection and relief.

Please book via ladyamber2017@hotmail.com Mobile Calls NOT texting to 07775 276054

Thank you to the wonderful subs/kinksters who have shown their support over the last year, which has been tough for many and still is!

Although I do phone chats on various platforms (and excel at this) I have just started out really in My clip store from March 2020.  I have over 500 feedbacks in phone chat, My phone topics are very diverse, I will happily roleplay  and have had many a gent get all hot n flustered and have a VERY happy time. We can also just chat normally about your kinks if you prefer.

I am more of a real time session Dominatrix and Disciplinarian.  I get quite tetchy if I do not have a bottom to spank or peg (depending on what floats your boat)

At least the paid phone chats have given Me some sort of outlet with sharing your fantasies, discussing future real time sessions and giving commands over the phone, which have entertained Me.  Plus keep a roof over My head.

I would love to accept limited real time solo sessions with Covid precautions in place.

Please read Mistress Helen Ryder of West Sussex (mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk)

Send to helen-ryder@hotmail.com Amazon Logo Squid – Amazon.co.uk eGift Voucher: Amazon.co.uk: Gift Cards & Top Up

I am on two platforms for chats, Adult Work and Dommeline if you prefer to call Me through a third party app.  My phone icon is green when logged in on those.  Direct chats with Me is send payment first as per blog and then email when money has been sent across.  ANY questions you have can then be addressed.

Can’t wait to be spanking bottoms again and many of the other shenanigans that happen here 😉 sadly some of you can’t find an excuse to come out to play.  Try harder!

I am looking forward to teaming up again with My wonderful domme sisters in kink when able to, Mistress Leather Amber, Miss Kitty Bliss Kent and Burgess Hill

Mistress Helena  Mistress V Huddersfield

Goddess Salvia Burgess Hill and Brighton

TGirl Joanna Armstrong Burgess Hill

Looking forward to chatting with some of you very soon, lets make the very best of 2021!!

I hope everyone’s keeping well and if you have got into mischief then do book your self in for some corrective therapy ASAP!  My area is in tier two, this means personal care places, retail etc are allowed to be open.

Come out to play safely again with Covid precautions in place.

I am taking solo sessions in My own premises as well as the double domination sessions mentioned below!

We have a treat in store for you! Double domination sessions with the amazing Lady Amber in Gravesend Kent & Burgess Hill West Sussex (just 20 mins from Gatwick)
The type off sessions are ALL impact play, bondage, extended bondage, leather worship, breath play, boot worship & foot worship, leather cross dressing. For anything not mentioned please include a polite request, pegging & venus2000/relief won’t be included in the doubles & we will be offering the style of play listed in Leather Lady Ambers site, so plenty of BDSM & kinky fun to enjoy.
Due to travel double domme dates will be advertised and pre bookings taken with deposits as well as possible booking being available on the day.
With a long booking enquiry and deposit security we can be available together with 48 hours notice.
Read and follow each of our booking procedures to apply, mine are hyper linked in sessions and tribute pages as well as on blog page.

Well here we are again!

My existing clients that wish to enquire about booking in, may email Me to sort out your future sessions.

I wish to say with heartfelt thanks  how much I have really appreciated the very special loyal clients that have continued supporting Me throughout this very tough year, it was great to see some of you when last lockdown was lifted.  Those who haven’t been able to fly over have sent tributes and we have shared stories throughout these strange times.  I am very generous with those who are loyal and that support Me.

ALL new enquiries will only have their emails replied to with either a £20 bank transfer payment or Amazon Gift code sent in the very first instance to My email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com  NOT to My phone, thank you.  If you send any attachments over at all without payment first and permission, you will be blocked!

This is simply to deter the high volume of time wasters that came along last lockdown.  The payment will cover a 10 min chat on the phone and when you do visit in the future I will take that payment off your tribute when you attend.

If however you have really enjoyed chatting and want to chat more then you will need to pay across for more calls or emails to cover My time.

Unless payment is sent then new emails will be ignored!

 

Bank info, is

sort 20-92-54

Account: 70468665

Name: Ms Rogers

Ref: consultation followed by your initials.  Then email AFTER sending

Meanwhile you can feast away on My mini clips through Adult Work or longer ones on Clips4Sale.

I will ONLY answer My work phone if you have pre paid for a chat or I am logged in to one of the phone chat platforms and you are calling Me through them.

So far since March 2020 SEVEN very flaky unreliable people have got themselves on the TW list and I will NOT be seeing them again.

I wish for My business and success to grow in a positive manner and one of My lovely chaps I refer to as Uncle Stewie said recently, not all business is good business, very wise words indeed!

Stay safe n kinky

 

Get in touch to book/pay any of the aforementioned.

 

Mistress Helen xXx

 

With the weather being so sublime right now I have decided to offer the Vanilla massage full body treatment of one hour at £65!

This will be in the garden on the patio area, which is a nice shaded secluded spot.  You will be wearing underpants.

Please come freshly showered as there will be no showering/no access into the premises at this offer price (only a downstairs toilet visit) if required.

I will use an unscented liquiwax massage balm which glides beautifully and will not leave your skin at all oily.  You will be able to dress after without any residue going onto your clothes.

Note this is VANILLA massage only! You will leave feeling relaxed, happy and refreshed with any special “happy ending” happening in your own home.

No fetish chit chat as it’s not appropriate outside.

It’s great to be slowly getting back into play times with PPE in place for us both, so far the couple of gents I have seen haven’t found it to have impacted their time in any negative way.  A quick temperature check, up for a nice refreshing relaxing shower (it’s an Aqualisa so a lovely shower time) a fresh medical mask and then into the play rooms for some kinky fun.

Whilst there are a few things off the menu as per My back to work plans blog, there is still plenty of fun to be had!

No two sessions are the same here, from pallet wrapping and roping one of my play things onto the cross and teasing and tormenting with electrics and plenty of nipple torture to my next play time that was all about the sensual side of BDSM with soft leather floggers, silk, warm massage oil and more…

I really don’t think the precautions of turning up presenting well on the day, a nice hot shower and wearing mask in your time here has much impact on the pleasure gained from a visit.  Rest assured you do not have to see the preparation and background work that goes on before/after your playtime to keep the environment and all the toys etc clean and sterile.  I have not increased My tribute at all despite the extra costs involved for Moi.

The feedback I have received is that they felt safer coming here than going to the local super market so I think that says a lot.

Send over an email to book as I am only answering my phone if I am expecting a call from you!

Stay safe n kinky

Mistress Helen xXx

P.S Enjoy some pics from recent times

My fab friend in Huddersfield Mistress Helena

My lovely friends Miss Kitty Bliss and Ms Joanna Armstrong at Pedestal

My collared maid Laura & fave boi Slavva Rodda

Moi & Miss Kitty planning some mischief

Just a temperature check, no need to bend over! Well not yet 😉

A wonderful little script written by B for Our delicious phone chat, booked in advance privately

Enjoy!  Perhaps you might like Me to read it to you, email to book and pay for a call.

Hello darling,
Let me just find the light switch. There! That’s better.
Did you have a nice time this evening? I had a lovely time with Steve.
Look at you –  four hours later and you’re still as erect as when I left you to go on my date  – Not that you were able to do much about it, were you?  Locked and gagged in the sensory deprivation chamber you made for me.
So kind of you to spend four months clearing out the cellar and converting it from a wasted space into something useful to both our needs.
Though mainly my needs wouldn’t you agree?
 I’m sure when we first started you saw the arrangement as mutually exclussive BUT here we are ten years later with you now a cuckold and all of your accounts and property signed over to me.
My! I am a naughty minx, aren’t I?
…but its what you wanted…and now you delight in being subjugated to my power and decision-making. Lucky me….and lucky cuck!
Of course, it was inevitable that sooner or later your submissive desires would overrun you.
Not that you ever had much choice in the matter – what with me systematically denying and engaging your multiple fetishes and introducing you to a few of my own –
until the act of pleasing me became as natural to you as breathing itself.
Let me say here and now, I have no regrets in taking control of you. Our marriage was going nowhere, what with you out every night with your mates.
All those years when you returned home too late to read a bedtime story to Rebecca or help with her homework Not just that but your sheer uselessness at doing your share of the housework and unable to manage anything in bed.
Compare that with now. The house is spotless with you doing all the cleaning and meals. Rebecca is at Uni and I have the large bed all to myself while you sleep in the small bedroom…unless I have need of you.
What could be more perfect then a man offering that sort of freedom and support for a woman who is now exploring her liberation…
…and all because I happened across those images on your computer that time.
Who would have known?
I must  say, i was really surrprised when I saw all those imges of women dominating men. And on your hard drive!
It was only as I started to research it – moreso  to understand what was going on in your head – that I discovered you were a closet submissive in need of a dominant woman to take control of you.
Not that this information was of any use to me until I went on a few forums and discovered the benefits of being Dominant -and that is when our relationship turned a corner!
I remember the evening I challenged you over the photos. Your denial and lies. Then the complete change in you when I left the room and returned in black leather with a crop in my hand.
That was the moment you were truely hoisted by your own petard for my pleasure –  I knew then that things would never be the same again.
Strangely,  I was reflecting on it just this evening as you kneeled before me in My bedroom with head bowed as I was getting ready to meet Steve.
How I smiled as you eagerly ran downstairs to the sensory deprivation room to hold yourself in position against the frame as you awaited my arrival to lock you in – which was deliberately delayed as I made myself ready for Steve but also to tease you.
See how far we’ve come. My old husband would never have done that.
But then – as we both know – that man is gone. I no longer have a husband in that sense of the word any more. I have a cuckold. A submissive. A slave…and do you know what darling: I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Actually, as I was inserting the butt plug and locking you into the frame before heading out tonight, i loved the fact that as I brushed against you, you shivered with delight.
What woman wouldn’t want the man she’s locking up for the night to be so devoted to her that she can go out and enjoy herself with another man, knowing he’ll be waiting for her at home, eager for her return.
See how things have changed between us these last ten years. And for the better. Yes, that’s right! it’s our anniversary! Ten years ago today, you knelt before me and told me your desires
That is the day our marriage ended and our new life began.
And to mark it, I’ve bought you a present. Actually, its a present for both of us seeing as we’ll each get enjoyment from it – even if mine is rather shadenfruede  It’s rather large isn’t it. Don’t worry: I’ll unwrap it for you seeing as you are handcuffed to the frame.
Do you like it? It’s the next strapon size up from what you normally take.
Now, Steve has left you a something that will require your tongue to lick it out later on
…but right now, I’ll just click the strapon into place on the harness  – oh my! It is very big.
This is going to be so much fun darling. Deep breath and Happy Anniversary!
Well what happens next will be very graphic so DO book a call…………………………………..