ONLY ever contact Me through the email on My website and only use the official links that I clearly display to send application/call cover fees or deposits.  If you are new I would much prefer that you only send £30 in the first instance via My Revolut, Tipfunder or Amazon GC to the email address helen-ryder@hotmail.com (make sure you type that correctly) If you require a quicker response then simply call Me through My Dommeline phone chat platform when I am logged in.  Call rates/connection fee as per the TOS of Dommeline, read them.

Booking blog for My links https://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/booking-procedures-and-deposit-information/

Scammers are certainly on the rise and I receive notifications from gents across various platforms to let me know they’ve been chatting with someone and they have either parted with money or been about to and then given a Paypal address or some other dodgy payment request.  They have then done some research and found the “real Me” which they could have saved themselves some time and done their research first!  Feeling horny then watch some free porn and contact Me with your big brain in action, chatting to a fake version of Me whilst you are horny then be aware you might be chatting to a bloke or some gang of professional scammers.  A free task is to waste their time as much as possible!

On Twitter/X I am https://x.com/MsHelenRyder

I have been on that account since Jan 2015 and I pay each month (blue tick) although I’m not sure why I bother.

I have had to create an Instgram (arghhh) https://www.instagram.com/therealmistresshelenryder/

Due to having many of My images stolen and used to fraud men into paying money to the fraudster.  I have received a few reports on the fake one, which is https://www.instagram.com/ms_helenryder/

Feel free to chat with the above fraudster and waste their time if you want a free task!

Be aware that you may even come across My images but the name is completely different.  It may even have Me as being in another country.

If you can see for an absolute fact that there is a scam version of Me out on the web then just copy/paste Me the link in an email and I will simply ask you to kindly report them.

For ALL My official links please see https://allmylinks.com/mshelenryder

Kinky regards

Mistress Helen X

Pics of a conversation that took place between someone wanting to book Me who thought they were chatting to Me on Instagram!  The scammer has stolen My wording off a section of My website in regards to sessions aka “playtimes” I know this to be a genuine conversation because I have had this gent contact Me and pay a deposit for a session.  Once he realised it was a scammer he didn’t send a Paypal payment and did some proper research before contacting Me through the proper channels.

I love wearing gorgeous perfumes and many years ago I used to have just three as a signature scent, but these perfume houses keep releasing more and more lovely perfumes that I now have a scent library as do many ladies.  It’s nice to select something depending on my mood and how I want to project.  Some fragrances are very high end and well known, some are made by tiny perfume houses, very niche, vegan and not so expensive and sit close to my skin.

Here are some of my favourites:

Tom Ford: Tobacco Vanille, Lost Cherry, Velvet Orchid & Black Orchid

Creed: Love in White Summer and Love in Black

Penhaligon’s: The Revenge of Lady Blanche and Empressa

Dior: Hypnotic Poison

Jean Paul Gaultier: Madame, Scandal original and Red version

Ghost: Deep Night and Orb of Night

Lush: Death and Decay and Twilight

Haus of Hecate: Witches, Southern Gothic, Etheral, Wooden Doll and Little Bat

There are several more that I have worn over the years that sadly are no longer available, Midnight Poison by Dior is one.  Angel by Thierry Mugler I was once very faithful to (it’s still around) Coco Chanel I once loved but got bored with it

One brand I can not wear is Calvin Klein, whilst everyone used to lust over Obsession, it used to smell like fly spray on me! Disgusting stuff.

I also love to receive a monthly subscription from Lush (£35) if there is a sub out there wanting to send regular scent treats then get in touch to send each month and adopt this bill.

Scent for my home: Cherry Bakewell diffuser by Devon Wick  and any by Haus of Hecate

Scented soy candles from Apollo Ipsum (anything Gourmand is best) and The Cabinet of Curiosities )Dark Honey & Tobacco)  both have online shops

Do you have a favourite scent that you love, especially to smell on a Mistress?

You can send for Me to spend:

1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.