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17Jan 2025

I have removed my bank information

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Hi folks

Due to someone using my bank information fraudulently I have closed the account and opened a new one .  However I am only giving the details to existing clients that I know very well.  Everyone else I ask that you use one of the following methods, thank you:

Booking Procedures:

I ask for an initial £30 application/phone fee paid up front (it comes off your final balance, if booking a session within a 6 week period) Deposits in order of preference below:

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

My full booking blog terms and conditions below.  It’s quite sad that I have had to enforce these but the world has changed greatly since I first started out as a Professional Dominatrix, there didn’t used to be the high level of time wasters that exist today.  The strict deposit and booking procedures are becoming the new normal for all ladies that work in this industry.

 

Booking Procedures and Deposit Information

Kinky regards

Mistress Helen

04Jan 2025

Perfume and scent for my home

News

I love wearing gorgeous perfumes and many years ago I used to have just three as a signature scent, but these perfume houses keep releasing more and more lovely perfumes that I now have a scent library as do many ladies.  It’s nice to select something depending on my mood and how I want to project.  Some fragrances are very high end and well known, some are made by tiny perfume houses, very niche, vegan and not so expensive and sit close to my skin.

Here are some of my favourites:

Tom Ford: Tobacco Vanille, Lost Cherry, Velvet Orchid & Black Orchid

Creed: Love in White Summer and Love in Black

Penhaligon’s: The Revenge of Lady Blanche and Empressa

Dior: Hypnotic Poison

Jean Paul Gaultier: Madame, Scandal original and Red version

Ghost: Deep Night and Orb of Night

Lush: Death and Decay and Twilight

Haus of Hecate: Witches, Southern Gothic, Etheral, Wooden Doll and Little Bat

There are several more that I have worn over the years that sadly are no longer available, Midnight Poison by Dior is one.  Angel by Thierry Mugler I was once very faithful to (it’s still around) Coco Chanel I once loved but got bored with it

One brand I can not wear is Calvin Klein, whilst everyone used to lust over Obsession, it used to smell like fly spray on me! Disgusting stuff.

I also love to receive a monthly subscription from Lush (£35) if there is a sub out there wanting to send regular scent treats then get in touch to send each month and adopt this bill.

Scent for my home: Cherry Bakewell diffuser by Devon Wick  and any by Haus of Hecate

Scented soy candles from Apollo Ipsum (anything Gourmand is best) and The Cabinet of Curiosities )Dark Honey & Tobacco)  both have online shops

 

Do you have a favourite scent that you love, especially to smell on a Mistress?

 

You can send for Me to spend:

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

 

 

 

 

04Jan 2025

Happy New Year 2025

Appointments, News

Wishing you all a Happy 2025 and giving you some general news and updates.

I have already got this year off to an amazing kickstart with My wonderful loyal boi slavvarodda (as he is known on X) a super CP session, broken into two parts with lunch at a local pub in the middle.  He wore panties under his trousers, after lunch he received some more CP and then onto My bondage bed for nipple torment and the wand, making him milk himself off as the grand finale 🙂 then a chat/unwind and an expresso to set him up for his journey home to London.

I have made a slight change to My booking procedures,  still too many ungenuine that don’t follow through with paying a deposit.  ALL new contact or people I haven’t seen for over 3 months must send an application fee of £30 one of My methods below (comes off final balance when you attend) if for any reason you do not attend then you can have a phone chat with me if we haven’t spoken.  The only replies to emails without the fee already sent will only be a hyperlink with what I expect and no other discussion until I have received it.  There are no refunds on any payments, blog link below. https://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/booking-procedures-and-deposit-information/

Today I posted up on My LoyalFans I have decided for all of January I will post almost daily or every couple of days the outfit I am wearing to include lingerie etc.  Today is Agent Provocateur lingerie and only available to those who subscribe to Me.  https://t.co/l6pwUwqQ5N

I know it’s brass monkeys outside, rest assured My playroom is well heated for both Our/our pleasures and play and is warmer up there than it currently is downstairs!  You will be eager to strip off in there and I will remove any woolly jumpers over My fetish outfit haha. I’m quite tempted to just hang out upstairs today, whilst logged into the phone chat platforms.

I am often asked if you can bring a gift along, so whilst it is lovely to receive gifts from you.  I do prefer tipping, this enables Me to pop it to one side if its a smaller tip and collate tips into something that I really desire and often need to save up for.  I have enough alcohol than I can possibly consume and I only have one G&T these days on a Friday or Saturday and do not drink in the week.  I love receiving perfume (from My choice) and will write a blog about my favourites.

When I returned from My holiday in Crete I went on a Keto diet and to date I have lost 1.9 St and I now wear a UK12, I’m going to lose a bit more before My upcoming surgery mid/late March 2025 (I will post a blog when I have My surgery date and post on socials too) Tips will go towards new clothing 🙂

Re My surgery: My surgeon said I will be off work for approx three months, however due to losing weight and doing pre-hab I might heal quickly and may be able to return to work sooner, offering sessions that suit My needs and capabilities. So just keep your peepers peeled on My blog news, X posts and LoyalFans.  I’ve been told I will be wearing a brace from ankle to hip to begin with, those with a brace fetish can pay Me for a photo set or video call 🙂

Scammers: Please note I do not have an Instagram or Facebook page of Mistress Helen Ryder, some person with a weird fixation of Me and way too much time on their hands has been a busy scammer, ripping off every image I have not copyright water marked.  Mistress’s never approach subs or ask you to send any money via any other means than the instructions on her official website.  Do your research!!

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

Over and out for now

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

22Dec 2024

My Festive Availability

Availability

I wish all of you a very happy Christmas, even if you are spending it by yourself, make sure you treat yourself.  Thanks and big heart felt thanks to all the wonderful players I have had the pleasure of seeing this year.  You My lovelies keep Me motivated to carry on doing what I love, as well as reinvesting into my play space with some of the best kit there is.

If you haven’t sent a Christmas gift or not sure what to get Me, send some money so I can buy myself something lovely in the sales.  An Amazon gift code is also very useful.  Thank you.

Now the dates and strict part, as I have every time waster in the universe come out the woodwork as soon as I say I am not available on specific dates!

I am not conducting ANY sessions in person from 23rd-27th December inclusive.

I am available from 28th December and I will ONLY be replying to emails that have a 50% of full session fee deposit sent by bank transfer at your point of emailing.  Or simply send Me a £30 GIFT (not towards a session) in order to receive a response from Me during My Christmas holiday, you expect a response from Me whilst I am off then I expect payment.  ALL information and bank details are readily available across My website & blogs.  I will not be spoon feeding, so man up and read!

I may log into phone chat as and when I wish to over Christmas, so if you happen to see Me on line then simply call via Dommeline or Adultwork direct chat system.  Any questions asking if you can call, can we discuss ABC etc will be ignored.  Genuine respectful players simply ring via the chatlines or send Me money direct (in this instance, you need to fit into My timeframe and not yours)

Right that’s all perfectly clear.

So Merry Christmas and SEE you on the flip side for sessions.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen XX

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

Booking Procedures and Deposit Information

 

13Dec 2024

AWAY 13th DECEMBER TILL 16th DECEMBER

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I’m away for a few days visiting the Christmas markets and sights of Berlin for the weekend.

I have limited availability for the following December dates:

Details here

https://x.com/MsHelenRyder/status/1867213321016836575

Book your pre Christmas Me/you time before the festivities commence, and then I am available from 28th December.  Meanwhile go ahead and lavish Me with Christmas treats, send direct to my bank account for cocktails and shopping in Berlin.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen xXx

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

Booking Procedures and Deposit Information

30Nov 2024

New Toys you lucky boys and Gurls

New Equipment

Have I got a treat for you lovely kinksters!

I’ve ordered an F Machine Pro 4, whilst I am damn good at pegging I  have often been asked about buying a sex machine for the greedy bum boys and gurls.

It’s on it’s way and will be here next week, so get your booking and deposit in ASAP!  I have many Vac U Lock dildos to go on it already and no doubt I will be getter a few more in the coming weeks.

You might even like to purchase your own favourite Vac U Lock dildo for your pleasure hole and gift it or bring along to your sessions.

Here is some speel about the new machine:

Boasting even more power than its predecessor, the F-machine Pro 4 can reach up to 280 RPM for pounding that eagerly awaiting fuck hole into submission. Featuring an auto sensing modular power supply, this deviant device is specially designed to handle even the biggest toys on the market!

The  F-Machine Pro 4 will give you the fucking you deserve with a playmate that can finally keep up. The Soft-Start speed controller ensures things start slowly and safely, while the handheld remote control allows you to get into the prime position to increase the speed and experience the pounding of your life!

The F-machine Pro 4  has a fully adjustable height and angle for customised gratification. It also features an adjustable thrust rod length and adjustable thrust depth of 1-6 inches, so you’ll be able to enjoy all of your favourite positions! Head down, arse up etc 😉 In addition, this fabulous fuck machine is whisper quiet, although we can’t promise that you will be!

So, what are you waiting for? Get fucked by a Pro machine today, with a very lovely Lady operating it!  It also gives Me hands free access to other exciting play!

Deposits, application fee or simply send a gift

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

 

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02Nov 2024

Live Deliciously

Appointments, News

Live Deliciously has become My new motto, having watched The Witch (film 2015) again recently and how I live My own life.

  • Spoiler alert if you haven’t seen it

“Wouldst thou like the taste of butter, a pretty dress , wouldst thou like to live deliciously?” This is spoken by Black Philip after being conjured by the eldest daughter at the end of the film

So often on Twitter I receive comments with “I wish it was me” or receive phone chat calls on My Dommeline sighing that if only they had the courage to session in person.  A whole year or more has passed with no booking in site, the desire to session is strong but they don’t take the leap of faith and book/pay the deposit.  Keep putting it off, then another year passes, another year and nothing ….

Suddenly you are several years older and still having regrets for the things you haven’t tried, no one towards end of life ever looks back and thinks “I was too kinky” There is always regret for not trying new things or doing more of what you love (within sensible reason, depending on what that is)

Have the slice of cake (burn it off) wear the pretty dress (sissies)  Explore your kinky side, BOOK your playtime, you will only wish you had done so much sooner!  In fact this is what I do hear from those who finally take the plunge, wishing they had simply booked in much sooner.

The pic below is a photo I took from My hallway of filth (there are lots of fetish framed prints/originals) you may also have noticed that I am watermarking all future photo content as My images keep being stolen and used to set up fake versions on various platforms, it’s essential that you only EVER contact Me via the email address on this website.

So “wouldst thou like to live deliciously?

Well now it’s up to you!

*Want to speed up the booking process, then send an Amazon gift code £30 call cover fee, direct from your Amazon account to My email helen-ryder@hotmail.com or buy one from a retail outlet, rub off the panel and send the code by email.  Please note I NEVER open ANY type of attachments.  As per the booking blog, if you book within six weeks it will come off the final balance of an in person session.  I will give best timings to call Me provided you have sent the call cover fee, otherwise call when able until we connect.

Other payment methods

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

23Oct 2024

Taking Bookings

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Hi Folks

I’m back from a very restful and lovely holiday (10 days of lovely sunshine) lots of good healthy food, a few cocktails too many 😉 hic…

Chania in Crete is such a lovely place to stay and the locals are very welcoming, we made friends with a local couple who kindly took us out to a local naturist beach for the day.

Those who follow Me on My only Twitter account https://x.com/MsHelenRyder  will have seen some of My updates.

I am now back in the swing of work and seeing my fantastic regulars, as well as welcoming new genuine clients.  Simply send an email to Me at helen-ryder@hotmail.com with just a very brief list of your interests, include how long you wish to play for and dates/times with at least 48 hours notice on those so that there is time to arrange a chat (after you have sent the call cover) which will come off your final balance if you session with Me in person.

Here is My booking blog with T/Cs and payment information https://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/booking-procedures-and-deposit-information/

I look forward to sorting out all you kinky and naughty boys soon 😉

Whose booking in for any of the following fun n games

Spanking, CP, Pegging, CFNM, Cross Dressing, Bondage, Sensual Massage, Alternate Massage, EStim/Electrics, Hot/Cold Play

I am also back on the paid phone lines of Dommeline and Adult Work around bookings etc

I also had My hair cut prior to going away, at least 6 to 7 inches off into a shoulder length bob, I love it!

Mistress Helen xx

03Sep 2024

October time off dates

News

I won’t be taking sessions or working the phone chat platforms from 7th October to 17th October inclusive.  I will only be checking emails on occasions during these dates.

I have availability from now 3rd September and up to 6th October and then from 19th October.  All polite email requests in that time that appear genuine will be replied to with my 72 hour window, unless you’ve sent with a tribute and these will take priority!

Best kink & swishes

Mistress Helen

Details to send application fee, call cover or gifts

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

 

31Aug 2024

Discretion is a TWO way process!

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Here I am writing an obvious blog instruction some 14 years later that I honestly didn’t expect I would have to write.

I am often asked if it’s discreet, absolutely! My premise’s on appearance to the outside world are perfectly normal, no floggers/canes on display to the naked eye.  No flaming torches with “Dungeon/Discipline/Spanking/BDSM” pointing a big red sign/arrow. I don’t dress in latex or fetish outfits and flaunt it all outside.  Visiting traffic is pretty low key and I ensure visitors park away from where I am and walk a short distance.

I don’t call your mobile or send messages outside of arranged sessions, only in any event of an emergency and then I would be prudent in speech.

If in public we spot each other, a polite ignore is best.

Don’t call Me Mistress on the doorstep, I won’t greet you at the door calling you slave/sub etc, ditto from you please until you have entered and the front door is closed.  I also use the same level of discretion when working from both the Brighton Dungeon and Gatwick Dungeon.

I expect you to never reveal my location to ANYONE else!  This includes not printing out emails with postcode and instructions on.  Thankfully I have the common sense to not give out my full address in messages for bloody good reason!  An idiot just printed out an email to save himself some time logging in (he says) and his wife saw it.  So no session happened.  What an absolute plonker!  Whilst I had a deposit, I then had to take a loss on my self employed earnings due to his stupidity.  To date he hasn’t been a decent gentleman by sending the balance over as a decent person would do.  I had planned his session, put the background work in and turned away another booking.  Shows zero respect for My time and as a person.  Shame on him.

Be mindful of your actions please.

Mistress Helen

Send application fee. call cover of gifts via the following methods:

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

 

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