In 2019 I will hold My multi slave events as well as attending Malaga with THREE slaves in tow for fun in the sun. I have THREE slaves/subs attending now. It will be 3 nights away with board/food/all beverages included in your booking for the villa and you are responsible for booking your flights, pick up from the airport can be arranged. Serious enquiry’s are welcomed and we need to have met and played together a couple of times before the Malaga mini fetish holiday. There will be a set daily rate for Moi divided up equally between the THREE slaves. POA with 50% deposit at time of booking and balance in full 48 hours before we depart.
This blog was updated 12th March 2019 to reflect the 3 attending, another trip to BDSM Villa will be arranged in the near future.
The multi slave event will take place on Monday 4th March from 11:30am to 2:30pm with time set aside afterwards to wind down, have some light food and refreshments. £230 with 50% deposit taken at time of booking, balance on the day.
The nature of play will include some small periods of confinement, sensory dep, interaction with other slaves if desired. Spanking, CP, EStim, Venus2000 and much more! All boundaries and interests discussed in advance.
I won’t be available 2-12th Jan as I will be having essential eye sight saving surgery, book now if you’ve been thinking of coming to see Me! I should be all seeing again & ready and raring to kick arse from 12th Jan and the double domination date of 31st Jan and 1st Feb with Miss Kitty Bliss is 100% happening in regards My eyes! In fact if things are still blurry by then Miss KB will be My eyes and it will be a bit like pin the tail on the donkey! Mwhahahahaha just joking 🤣 🤣 🤣 I will honestly be fine and available again from 12th Jan if not before!
It may well be the end of any prescription specs, I will have some plain glass ones for specs fetish.
One of My chaps was asking what/why so an edit here and further edit for the FULL story:
I have the early stages of a slightly more rare type of cataract in My right eye (caused by trauma) and with a high prescription for long distance and now reading I need a multifocial lens and both eyes having lens replacement cost £6,836.00 and that is with 10% discount given, Ouch………………………
Rather than join the NHS waiting list and (possibly go blind in one eye whilst waiting) and not get the full treatment required for My eyes I have booked this private.
The NHS will only do My right eye and then only cut My eye open, remove My lens and replace with a monofocial lens. Which will not 100% correct My vision and then I will still need reading specs for close work. Going private also covers any top up laser treatment. The NHS won’t do this. My left eye is also a very high prescription of -7 so it’s not feasible to wear lop sided specs with one heavy prescription and a plain lens with reading varifocial one side or wearing only one contact lens. The level of My prescription and other complications is making it more complex. At the end of the day I am having MY eye cut open and lens taken out and replaced so I want it done once only and have the best treatment possible!
Whilst I’m a real time Dominatrix rather than online Findom, kind donations would be greatly appreciated with the high cost of this operation. Please email if you would like to contribute to My eyes and help Me pay back the finance loan and deposit which are hitting My pockets extremely hard! Especially with the loss of income whilst I am unable to work. Another 1K hit to My self employment!
It is after all something very essential to living/My wellbeing and not some daft high end pair of shoes or handbag!
New eyes for 2019 All the better for seeing you with! 😘😘
Mistress Helen xXx
The Lowdown of the person behind it, updated 2020!
I am not usually one to air laundry in public but there are still little rumour’s floating about so here goes.
The woman who caused it was an utter idiot and got confused in a basic exercise at the gym threw a weighted ball in my face instead of simply passing it. I had been in a laying down position to sitting up so didn’t stand a chance! My nose was split open on the upper right hand side bridge and I have a scar! My specs which were only a few months old and cost over £600 were badly damaged. The eyesight test I had at the time of new specs showed my eyes to be healthy and normal, 6 months after the gym accident showed the damage that had been done. I carried on working on occasions with said person but later on I broke away due to the gaslighting and other weirdness such as ignoring my visits to Yorkshire on social media, doing nothing to promote my visits. Putting up spiteful posts on Twitter aimed at me stating things like boring and high protocol can play elsewhere. High protocol because I queried the basic provision of lube or any sterile lube in her premises, she used cooking fat (Trex for sounding) both irresponsible and dangerous.
She even suggested I wait to get my eyes done on the NHS having rang my partner on return from the clinic the very day of just returning from an assessment! No offer of chipping in at all as she caused it! My partner was still paying some of her bills at that time as that’s what she does! Only interested in him for his money.
I tried to be the bigger person and forgive simply for my partners sake as he had been friends with her for many years (she had manipulated him well) but after much shit stirring, general two faced bitching to a friend I introduced her to. Then waiting outside the loo for me to come out on a group night out to have a word, my patience by then was pretty thin! She stated my partner thought the air needed to be cleared (this was in fact a lie) as I asked him afterwards.
Another time I’ve had her slag off someone I had admired for her style and hard work in this industry and hoped to maybe work with one day. In front of other slaves at a BBQ how the Mistress’s photos were all photo shopped and bathroom tiles are not that size. I’ve now worked with this amazing lady and she is stunning and her tiles are the size in the pics in real life. Imagine being so jealous bitter and twisted that you have to make stuff up about others…..
Back to bonkers she has no real respect for me or my personal relationship. Earlier on she had been very friendly and I saw a really nice side of her, but not for long! She then went on to involve my partner in keeping secrets about something very trivial and told the rest of the word her business. The other Mistress I was friends with knew it all and slipped up by spilling the beans at an event the other one wasn’t attending. She even sent my partner text messages whilst we were away on holiday being really off to him and disrespectful to me regarding the info being passed on to me.
I had my friend Jo visiting and bonkers rang to have a go at us because we were doing a photo shoot involving dress’s that actually belong to my friend and trying to tell me how to run my business! I stood up to her, so did my friend and then she throws a fake wobbly.
Attending a Femdom event, which bonkers came along to just a couple of weeks after surgery and blanked me at first, then chatted briefly. Was downright rude to one of my friends for something naughty one of her slaves did. We were all involved in writing up punishments (all in good humour and jest) and she wasn’t having any of it. Ruined the group photo by acting like a fool. She was really off towards me, to the point of actually giving me some sort of odd Paddington Bear stare across the room, later admitting she had done so because she thought I was giving her funny looks and this other Mistress pointing out I had just recently had eye surgery. Even at this point I was being polite for my partners sake and knew any friendship was over. Seriously you can’t make this utterly childish rubbish up!
The other Mistress I was friends with seems to be passing back n forth info so earlier this year Jan 2020 whilst out at a Femdom event in London. I told her in reply to her offer of visiting her new place that I wouldn’t be able to maintain a friendship built on any foundation of trust. That the two of them could stick with each other and leave me out of their drama and bitching. I was sick to death of the interference and negativity and don’t want people like that in my life.
The funny thing is they have both lied about what each other have said to me, the lady in London felt so bad on her return from a visit there and stated she had joined in on the laughing over Me and had seen a really nasty side to bonkers! That she wasn’t sure if she wanted to go back again (but has) so that proves she is flaky and untrustworthy. The London lady felt the need to meet with me for lunch and apologise and clear the air. We did meet and discussed various things that had gone on after that second visit but I was on my guard after that. I was told how they were all in a group with a slave included laughing about me behind my back, with him admitting I was the brunt of the toxicity at present and it would be someone else’s turn next! Hmmmmmm well good luck with that friendship as I’m well out of it!
I’ve seen bonkers tear a slave a new arsehole for something she should have taken responsibility for herself. Having profiled people in the police in a civilian role I am normally very good at being able to see right through people/her where others are taken in. Suckers!
They do say keep your friends close and enemies closer but I prefer to keep people I can’t trust well away, many miles away and there they can stay!
Book your play time now! I have my fab friend Miss Kitty Bliss teaming up with me on the above dates. When we are not in sessions we sometimes nip onto webcam to dominate all you shy slaves not quite ready to take the plunge, visit My Adult Work page for info.
I am available 10th to 22nd December for sessions in My well equipped private play spaces in Burgess Hill, as well as travel to other dungeons if booked ahead.
Due to another spate of text messages received both from newbs and also the occasional person who has seen Me, be aware I never use texting for arranging sessions or to answer questions.
Anyone can hide behind texting (if you were a parent would you be happy your child was texting a Dominatrix)
Texting costs ME, having other contract phones for My personal and other business I use a PAYG for this
I loathe text ping pong with short pointless messages!
Please call for a brief chat
OR
Email
Send a clear polite, concise email to include a minimum of THREE dates/times YOU can commit, it’s not for ME to give you the timing/dates as I can guarantee you will reply with not being able to do that due to A B C………………………
Emails without dates are NOT helpful.
I look forward to receiving your communications through the correct channels soon and having a superb time playing in My fantastic well equipped play spaces!
Before dinner Mistress ordered me to strip, i was then dressed in a very skimpy, bright pink apron, pink frilly knickers, stockings, suspenders and high heels. A heavy metal collar was placed around my neck and locked into place, before a leash was attached. i was now appropriately dressed as Mistress’s slave and felt very privileged.
Now we were ready for dinner. Mistress, dressed in a fantastic smoky grey latex dress which emphasised Her beauty, power and superiority, led me out to the dinner table which was outside, under the stars. We joined other Mistresses with their slaves and enjoyed fabulous food served by the house maid April, and wonderful company with new friends.
After dinner i was dragged through to the dungeon in the Atrium of the house and my wrists and ankles attached to the St Andrews cross. my back and bottom were exposed and the skimpy apron and frilly knickers would afford no protection once Mistress got to work with Her implements of choice. Before she got started a gag was placed in my mouth, after all the other guests would not want to hear the screams of a pathetic little bitch.
Then Mistress selected Her first weapon of choice, a rubber tawse. Starting gently to warm me up (Mistress cares for the welfare of Her slaves) Mistress gradually increased the force and tempo of Her strikes as She warmed to her task. She upped the ante, selecting a variety of whips and paddles before working up to the cane. The sting of this felt amazing, excruciating and exhilarating all at the same time, the sensations made all the more extreme by Mistress gently running Her nails all over my skin causing a tickling sensation and fits of uncontrollable laughter.
Eventually i was released from the cross and secured on my back to a bondage bed in the middle of the room. My wrists and ankles were secured but this time I was also blindfolded and left to contemplate my fate. my sense of hearing was heightened by the loss of sight, and i was able to take in the sounds of the dungeon with other Mistresses playing with their slaves and having fun at their expense. Then, unexpectedly, i became aware of my cock being sucked by another slave at the instruction of my Mistress, this amazing sensation was tempered by the voice of my Mistress in my ear warning that if i dared to have an accident i would be punished most severely. Although i have complete trust in my Mistress, and She is a wonderful, caring, human being, i knew this was no idle threat.
After what seemed like an eternity i was released from the bondage bed and led, still blindfolded, to another piece of apparatus in the dungeon. Again i was secured on my back with my wrists and ankles in restraints, but this time i was being stretched, almost as if i was on a medieval torture rack. Clamps were attached to my nipples with a chain between, and then this chain was pulled upwards and secured to a fixing so that any movement at all pulled severely. Then my arms were stretched again, by this time any movement was impossible and my whole body was rigid. i was fearful and excited.
The dungeon seemed to have gone eerily quiet and it became clear the other Mistresses had had their fun for now and were watching my Mistress and how She wanted to use Her slave. Mistress was boasting of what She was going to do with Her bitch which made me immensely proud to serve my beautiful Mistress. This went on for what seemed like ages, Mistress chatting away happily and plotting Her next move, me excitedly apprehensive and wondering what was coming next.
I feel the gentle nails, of my Mistress, slide over my silk bloomers, feeling for my hard clitty. I feel her sweet breath on the back of my neck as Mistress pinches my nipples through my blue, satin frock.
Mistress then straps me over her whipping stool. My bloomers slide down my thighs and my bottom is spanked….cropped and caned ( Mistress likes to see the cane stripes when she sinks her strap-on into me ).
Mistress puts a rubber into my mouth and I have to glide it up her strap-on. I must now suck it to show what a “Sissy Whore” I really am.
I’m released and told to worship the feet of Mistress. I suck her toes for ages and she seems very pleased. Then she offers her bottom for me to kiss all over.
I’m ordered to lay on my back, on the bed. My ankles are strapped high and wide exposing my sissy hole for a long, energetic fucking.
Your devoted Sissy Slut R
An extract written by Sissy Slut R on a recent visit to The Burgess Hill Academy for Sissies
Come and explore your inner “Gurl” come and be feminised, which can include removal of body hair and be expertly made up. Imagine the soft caress and feel of nylons as they slide up your legs then attached to a pretty suspender belt, some cute little panties and then dressed as My willing maid or other (slutty or demure) attire before stepping into a pair of high heels and then………………………………….
Well to find out what could happen next you best get in touch hadn’t you! Book a session today don’t delay your fun at The Burgess Hill Academy for Sissies ….
Some of what you may experience here subject to a discussion to where your BDSM interest’s and limits lie are:
Spanking
CP
Full make over with wig and clothing provided
Feminised
Maid training
EStim
Violet wand
Venus2000
Pegging just a few ideas to wet your appetite and there is a fully comprehensive list on My main website
Every month I will be holding one hour specials at £100 in Burgess Hill in My own well equipped premises owned by Me.
The type of play will be:
Spanking & all impact play
Caning
Pegging
Foot Worship
Massage with vibration wand as a finale
Maid duties to clean my home, some spankings.
What isn’t included in the above is everything else on My website, all other sessions with electrics such as EStim/Violet Wand, confinement, leather straight jacket or sleep sack, Venus 2000, medical play etc. Sessions which include more complex activities, sterilisation of equipment and wear and tear on very expensive items are at the usual rate of £130 an hour.
* This also does not include filming, audio recording or taking photos on your own phone for your top up wanking fodder at home (should be charging extra for this) AND you should be a generous plaything, either bringing Me bottles of Tom Ford perfume or tipping Me a min of £30 extra) to show your appreciation of this so please be aware.
Teaming up with My friend Miss Kitty Bliss, two fully equipped rooms and all manner of exciting kit to play with, we just want your mind and your flesh to play with! Bookings being taken now. 22nd and 23rd October
I am off on a jolly jaunt up North and offering limited sessions whilst I am there, get in touch with an outline of your kinks, look forward to chatting with you soon 😉
