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01Jun 2018

Holiday Dates Reminder

Availability, News

I am away between 6th to 16th June inclusive

Book now for sessions available before I go and right up to/on 5th June

and then from Monday 18th June for BDSM sessions, book your play time ASAP I will periodically check My emails whilst away BUT I am leaving the work phone back in the UK.

From domestic discipline sessions for all levels of CP to medical play and everything in between that I have listed on My website!

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19May 2018

Leeds double domination day with Mistress Firefly

Double Domme, News

UPDATE I WILL NEVER WORK WITH THIS PERSON AGAIN.

 

I’m making the most of a weekend visit to Leeds next bank holiday and holding double domination sessions with Mistress Firefly in her private  playroom in Leeds on Sunday 27th during the day.

Contact Mistress Firefly to book, play times are limited so ensure you book now!

One hour double domme is £200 for the pleasure of TWO feisty blonde Mistress’s lucky you!

http://www.mistressfirefly.com

 

 

05May 2018

One session available today 5th May and sessions from 14th May

News, Touring, Uncategorized

Good morning everyone

A reminder that I am fully booked tomorrow on Sunday 6th May as per My tweets on Twitter!

I have ONE space available TODAY Sat 5th May from 2:00pm

I am travelling to West Yorkshire on Monday 7th and travelling back on Sunday 13th May, sessions in West Sussex are from 14th May.

Thank you to some amazing chaps who visited this week and especially to Rodda Slava a cherished slave who came to Me for sessions over 3 years ago now.  Making regular visits for professional services as well as being a fab friend and errand boi.  He had two sessions this week, one being collecting Me from Sussex and driving Me to the Hoxton Dungeon Suite for a multi Mistress party.  Returning Me to Sussex, staying over in the bondage room and heading off for Mistress and personal errands the next day and then returning to Me for a double domme session with Miss Kitty Bliss and then taking us both out to dinner.  He went on his merry way with a multitude of stripes, welts and all manner of colourful badges on his bottom, thighs and some very sore nipples.  I’m not known as the smiling sadist for nothing!  Note: newbs and lightweights I do take limits into consideration so rest assured it’s SSC here.

If I don’t see you then have a great “bonk holiday weekend all”

Mistress Helen XX

16Apr 2018

News and forth coming events

Double Domme, Events, News

How time flies, it’s already a week today since I returned from My fantastic time “Up North” where I was a guest Mistress along with the luscious Madame Caramel at The Sissy Retreat.  Lots of fun frolics and sorting out cheeky sissy gurls!  I am very pleased to announce that Mistress Firefly and Miss Joanne Armstrong have asked Me to join the team on a more permanent basis.  Keep your eyes peeled on http://sissyretreat.co.uk/   for all the future event dates.  It’s the perfect privately owned place to explore your sissy side, come and be made expertly up, fully dressed, socialise, play fun games, have a delicious high tea and enjoy some play time in the well equipped play room.

On Monday 30th April I will be joining My London Mistress friends  in Hoxton.  Details as per Twitter:  Get booking for a bucket load of bum fun. Strapon, fisting, forced bi. 30th April. 3-6 and 7-10pm at Hoxton Dungeon Suite. Limited places available. Me and £150 per party or £270 for both. Email serveladyscarlett@gmail.com  There will also be CP and foot worship sessions amongst other BDSM activities!

Then 1st  May and 2nd May I have the lovely Miss Kitty Bliss coming to West Sussex to play in My play space for all manner of kink, come and explore this dynamic domination duo, bookings through Me, so email or call to arrange your double domination fun.

9th May I’m back at The Sissy Retreat, click on the link as per first paragraph for more details and to book your place.

Amongst ALL the above dates I will be available for sessions in MY private fully equipped & owned by Me play rooms, one white medical room for gender reassignment/make over role plays and medical play.  Also I have My mini dungeon room with bondage bed, spanking bench and ALL manner of kit at My disposal for our mutual enjoyment!

Some of you have had the pleasure of meeting My assistant Miss Katie Wynters, I am keeping her details on My website but please note she is less readily available due to moving away from Burgess Hill and now working full time.  We are going to see how bookings work out with her travel and other commitments.

 

 

28Mar 2018

Double Domination Leeds and The Sissy Retreat

Double Domme, Events, Uncategorized

UPDATE I WILL NEVER WORK AT THIS EVENT AGAIN!

 

Hello slaves/subs/kinksters

I wish you all a super Easter weekend and a reminder that I am not in West Sussex from 2nd to 9th April inclusive.  Sessions are available in Sussex from 10th April.

I am a guest Mistress on 4th April at The Sissy Retreat alongside another guest Mistress the amazing Madame Caramel!

On 5th/6th/7th/8th I am available to double domme with the super Mistress Firefly and one hour sessions in Leeds are £200.  All bookings and messages to go direct to http://www.mistressfirefly.com  We make a very formidable dynamic team, so don’t miss out and book your play time in very soon!

I’m very excited to be playing alongside some of the best in the business and meeting super new playthings, yes that’s you boys and girls or how ever you identify.

13Mar 2018

How NOT to get in My bad books and Stay off The List!

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It’s time to tell you a fact or two, especially to those who have Not respected My time recently

Many of you seek “adult services” and without Myself and the wonderful ladies out there offering such exquisite safe outlets for you to fulfill a fantasy, for you to experience a form of well being and release, some say it’s like having an internal clock reset in your head so that you can carry on day to day, what would you do without us?!   …………

Our time is precious, and if you have been granted an audience with us then ensure you respect it. This entails ALL communication around booking a session.  If a Mistress has requested XYZ of you then do it.  If she has a set of booking procedures sent to you previously and you can’t remember them or find the email then read the ladies website in FULL.

Now let Me share a little secret, I am DOMINANT! This means I’m an Alpha Female in charge of My business and run it My way.  Whilst there is a degree of customer service, it does NOT entail being a puppet on a string or a dress up doll following a set of commands from you.  You sought out a Dominatrix because you felt the need to submit.

I love My chosen profession and I love meeting new slaves and having fun.  When I have a booking secured in My diary I plot and plan all the wonderful activities that we will engage in as I want the very best play in that session.

Potential new clients who mess Me about, promise to pay a deposit and then back peddle out of it after engaging My time via emails and phone call are not treated lightly.  Dommes, Mistress’s and Sex workers talk to each other!  We share details of those who mess us around and blatantly waste our time.  We do not relish in adding people to this list and it is not taken lightly, stay off that list by being the best you can be.  Be polite, be reliable, pay the deposit in a timely fashion as instructed and keep communication to the guidelines given.

Here is a guide to stay off that list and be one of the valued clients that will curry favor and make you memorable in a positive light, both with Me and the other ladies out there. Surely you want to be remembered for being that “fun plaything” for Mistress rather than a thorn in her side!

Do……….

  • Be polite, clean and punctual.
  • Use the title Mistress or name in your communication. It’s respectful and babe and such like will result in your email being ignored.
  • Be clear in your communication, especially if asked for additional information.  Be honest and declare ANY medical conditions!  ANY allergies, If you have a funny turn she will know why.  Plus sessions can be adapted around your specific needs.
  • Prepare to bring a gift (most Mistress’s have a list on their site)  or a tip/thank you note.
  • After the session send a thank you email, an item from her wishlist, or leave a review.  The clients that stand out as a good memory are the ones who make some effort, and we all have our favorites………………….

Don’t………..

  • Don’t send appointment requests if you do not intend to book, repeatedly cancel appointments you have booked, or book an appointment and not show up.  If the session is NOT your number one priority due to circumstances going on elsewhere then DON’T book until you can make it a priority.  If you have messed her about then send some money over to compensate her time along with an apology, this may entail you if genuine sorry to have a second chance and make amends.
  • Don’t try and avoid any screening/security methods.  It says that you do NOT respect them.
  • Don’t contact her by other means that she clearly states are not accepted, such as texting.  This will result in being blocked.
  • Don’t be vulgar or too graphic in your communication.  A pre session chat when you have paid the deposit and the booking is secured will always be available.  Emails that list activities in a vulgar explicit manner do NOT impress Me!  you wouldn’t approach a stranger on the street in this manner.  Manners maketh the man!
  • Don’t overstep ANY boundaries that are clear and concise on her website, this will result in you being blocked.  Poor behavior in your approach and communication does not bode well for a session.  How can you be trusted in a session?!
  • Don’t ask questions of a personal nature, if over time she wants to share any detail then be honored that she trusts any personal details with you.  Discretion is a TWO way exchange!
  • Don’t try and friend her outside of sessions on her private social media, that will be for her friends and family if it’s her private account so ensure you respect that.

Stay on the right path and you could be having lots of fun with a great skilled Mistress that will bring out the best in you.

 

04Mar 2018

Mistress Helen Ryder Double Domme news and The Sissy Retreat

Double Domme, Events, Uncategorized

The double domination event which was due to take place on 28th March with Miss Kitty Bliss has been postponed to Wednesday 21st March, this was due to the snow as some of you were struggling to get here, please book now to avoid disappointment as limited sessions are offered.

Other news is that I am the guest Mistress at The Sissy Retreat on 4th April 2018 http://sissyretreat.co.uk/

UPDATE I WILL NEVER WORK AT THIS EVENT AGAIN!

 

 

 

21Feb 2018

The Five F’s written by anon

Sessions

A fantastic fun roleplay scenario I enjoyed delivering a good while back, My good bitch has just typed up the notes for you all to read, hope you like it!

These are My vows to you – the Five ‘F’s’ of how our marriage will be as dominant and submissive cuckold.

At the end I will ask you to accept them.  If you answer yes, we will proceed with the training.  If you answer no, you will leave here and never see Me again.  Is that understood?

Okay, first ‘F’ – Façade…..

……while you and I will present a perfect marriage in public, behind closed doors nothing could be further from the truth.

I will train you to become subservient in all aspects of life.

Physically you will earn money, do housework, prepare meals, run baths and all other duties that I require of you.

Mentally I will create situations that direct your mind to obsess over Me until thoughts about how to please Me become as natural to you as your own thirst.

Emotionally, you will learn to rise above your feelings and put My desires before yours.  You will show no jealousy when I bring lovers home, nor petulance when what little sexual pleasure you might derive is withheld from you.

Sexually, I will place you in chastity and expect you to go for long periods without relief.  I will revel in your discomfort as I humiliate you with my strap-on and emasculate you emotionally, sexually and physically.  In time, you will come to enjoy it and even yearn for Me to take my lover so that your cravings can be met.

Second ‘F’ – Fidelity…..

…..while you will remain chaste to Me, I will take on as many lovers as I want.  Indeed, I will enjoy the mental angst it causes you when I seduce your brother and best friends….and delight in the knowledge that you are gagged and tied in the bedroom next door, listening in on every moan and orgasm through the night.

In time, I may adapt our marital bed so that you can be bound and gagged in a concealed compartment beneath it so that you can be continually frustrated and helpless as I fuck my lovers above you.  Maybe I’ll incorporate a release mechanism so that you come to associate your ejaculation in terms of Mine and my lover’s orgasm, thus reinforcing your position in the relationship and my dominance over you.

Third ‘F’ – Funding

Away from the bedroom, you will fund My lifestyle completely.  You will sell your property, the remaining shares and all other funds then give them to Me.  That way you will be truly dependent and reliant on Me and there can be no change of mind.  Likewise, I will take photos of you in compromising positions as security that there will be no departure or absenting yourself without consequence.

Fourth ‘F’ – Fantasy

My promise is that I will endeavour to fulfil all of the submissive fantasies you shared with Me.  It’s how we arrived at this situation with Me dominant and you bowed before Me.

However, what we are about to engage in is a life together so it would be remiss of Me not to give you fair warning of what you are getting into.

I vow not to give you what you want but rather what you need – that being, a confident dominant woman who knows what she wants and is fully alive in her sexuality.

Question: Do you want Me to be that woman?

(Yes Mistress)

Good, let’s consider the fifth and final ‘F’ – Fetish….

My promise to you is that I will discover what makes you tick – the thing you crave and which I can manipulate to make you solely determined and dedicated to Me.

…….perhaps dressing up in leather, or latex, or PVC, or suspenders and stockings, or thigh length boots, or stilletoes, or opera gloves or whatever.

You will lay yourself bare to Me.  You will tell Me all your deepest, darkest secrets.

……and once only I know what they are, I will utilise that knowledge to train you to become truly useful to Me.

In time, your role and function will change to that of a slave who lives to serve only Me.

Yes, you will still be my husband but it will be something more amenable and useful to Me.

Now, decision time……Do you agree to submit to Me?

(Yes Mistress, I submit to you)

Good answer!  Let your training begin.

Now put this condom on and rub your cock against my soft leather boot and fill it up with hot creamy spunk!

I laugh as he wanks furiously

Once done, I put on my strap-on and invert the condom over it,  now suck My cock,  taste your semen and swallow it bitch.

……Now you know what semen smells and tastes like for when I return home from My lovers and require you to clean up.

18Jan 2018

Dozy Doris humbled and taught respect

Cross Dressing, Double Domme
 Dozy Doris humbled and taught respect.
I knocked on Mistress Helen’s door nervously. I didn’t know why she had summoned me but she had sounded cross.  “Get in, and take your shoes off, you worm!” she ordered. Once inside, she told me to stand up straight. “Do you know why I sent for you? she asked sternly. “No madam” I replied innocently.
“Well, I’ll tell you. Not only are you a useless dodgy bodger of a pervy handyman, but when you saw my maid this morning you upset her so much I’ve had to give her the day off!”
“Well, I did say she’s got a nice juicy pair, but I was talking about the fruit bowl. She must have taken it the wrong way” I said. “Don’t be stupid”, she said, slapping my face. “We all know what you meant”. I tried a different approach. “I was only joking,  trying to be friendly. It was just a bit of harmless banter”. Mistress glared at me. “Anyway” I continued “I thought she’d be flattered, and grateful for the attention”. It turns out she wasn’t! When in a hole, stop digging!
“You’ll be punished for your disrespect” she said sternly. “You will also be my maid for the afternoon, and serve me and my guest, Miss Wynters to you!”. “Maybe you’ll appreciate how hard maids work”. I noticed a lovely young woman behind mistress Helen, looking at me severely. “I can hardly believe his cheek!” she said. “He needs to be taken down several pegs. We could start by making him do a striptease”. “Good idea” said Mistress.
They sat down to watch and laugh at my clumsy attempts at Burlesque. “Don’t give up the day job” they advised. “Not that you’re any good at that either. Handyman? You’re not very handy, and certainly not much of a man, are you?” they laughed, pointing at the tiny todger between my legs. “Lets get it covered up. We can take him to the adult shop later, in his maid dress of course, and make him buy himself a chastity device, an extra small one of course!”.
They made me put on a pair of white ladies knickers, followed by the most ridiculously frilly pair of pink satin panties I’ve ever seen. A black satin maid dress followed, complete with frilly white apron, blond wig and lacy maid’s cap. “What a sissy!” they joked. “He looks rather frumpy”, said Mistress Helen. “Let’s give him a frumpy name”. After considering a few options, they settled on ‘Dozy Doris’ as being suitably humiliating.
My first chore was to skip and mince up and down the room, much to their amusement, to tidy my clothes, and curtsey to both when I had finished.
“Every sissy needs a collar and gag” said Mistress Helen. She put a pink ‘slut’ collar on me, and then stuffed a pair of black panties in my mouth, followed by a wooden penis gag to keep it all in place. “I love that gag” said Miss Wynter “We hear so much nonsense from male chauvinistic pigs like him that it’s a relief to be able to shut one of them up. Let’s keep him like that all the time”. “Way ahead of you” said Mistress as she clamped my nipples and attached the connecting chain to my gag to keep my head bowed. The clamps were fitted with little budgie bells so I tinkled as I moved, which they found highly amusing.
I was put over their knees and they both gave me a good hand spanking. “That’s just a warm-up” I was told. “There’s plenty more where that came from, so you’d better buck your ideas up and behave. Now get in the kitchen and put the kettle on!” I turned to obey, but was called back. “Rule 1; Curtsy to us both EVERY time we speak to you”. she warned.
I served them both a cup of tea, and a chocolate éclair. While they enjoyed their refreshment, I had to massage Miss Wynters’ feet. I hope she liked it as much as I did. Once they had finished, I had to tidy their plates away, before being told to stand in the corner with my hands on my head. As Miss Wynters spanked my sissy backside, she told me how good it felt to put a worthless male in his place, and that I had better get used to it. Meanwhile Mistress Helen fetched some rope. What more indignities are they planning for me?
First of all I had to sweep up the mess that Mistress’s pussy (Cat) had made. Then they decided I should polish Miss Wynters’ shoes, while she was still wearing them. The wooden penis gag was replaced with a harness panel gag. This had another pair of panties tucked into the strap, with which I did the polishing. Mistress Helen stood behind me with a wooden spanking implement, to make sure I was giving the task my full attention. Eventually they gave their grudging approval to my efforts.
“He could do with some down time” said Mistress Helen. “Let’s tie him up. We can discuss how we might be able to make some money out of him”. Still gagged, I had to lay on the floor as Mistress  Helen secured my wrists behind my back and Miss Wynters bound my ankles. The ankle and wrist ropes were then tied together to put me in a hogtie. “That’s  sorted him out; but we don’t want to look at his ugly mug, do we?” said Mistress as she put a pink satin hood over my head.
I had to lay there, ignored, while they talked about their various ideas to hire me out to neighbours as a cleaner, or have me trained and restrained as a ‘male pleaser’ and spanking target at their BDSM parties. Alarmed at this, I grunted some involuntary protests. Mistress hit me and told me to be quiet. “If I want your opinion, which I don’t, I’ll remove your gag. Until then, keep quiet!” she said. They told me to struggle to get myself free. I did my best, but I was clearly going nowhere until they untied me. Yet another reason to mock!
Eventually they did release me, only to bend me over the sofa for another good spanking. They hit me in unison on each butt cheek with leather straps. “That’ll teach you to try and speak with your mouth full!” said Mistress Helen. “Speaking of mouthfuls, let’s see how you get on with a bit of dildo worship.”
They each had a massive (compared to my puny penis) dildo. After my gag was released, I had to put condoms on using only my mouth, before giving them each a good oral servicing. “He’s not up to much, but I suppose he does make a passable gobbling teasemaid” said Miss Wynters with a laugh. I took that as a compliment; the only one I was likely to get.
“Go back to your corner and keep still while we think about what to do with you”. I obeyed, but unfortunately I fidgeted 3 times, which earned me a further 3 dozen strokes on my bare, already sore, red backside; 18 from each lady. I had to count them out. Mistress Helen went first with a hair brush and a wooden spoon, and Miss Wynters followed with more of the same. I managed to avoid her attempts to trick me into miscounting, so Mistress finally gave me a few extra ones anyway, “for luck”.
My lesson was nearly over. I had to curtsy to each of them in turn, thank them for their correction, and promise to be more respectful to women in general, and maids in particular. With a final slap on the face I was dismissed. “Get dressed and get out of our sight!”

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