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There are so many aspects to BDSM one of which is  “Roleplay” which is what this blog and story is about. I was quite shy at school (yes I know that’s hard to believe) and when it came to certain subjects I would hide at the back of class so didn’t belong to any drama class (how silly) as now it’s something I excel in when asked to get involved in this style of play.  However in the playground I used to chase the boys and catch them with my friends and tie them up to the lamp post  in the school grounds with my skipping rope, on one occasion pulling one boys pants down who had previously caught one of my friends playing “knicker chase” certainly not allowed or tolerated these days!

People come and see me for a variety of reasons, one main example is escapism from their mundane and everyday life or that they have high profile jobs and need to let go.  Visiting a Mistress can be very liberating and with so much choice available such as sensual or alternate massage, total power exchange, fetish fun, CP and in some cases the need to play a part and be someone else and have some fun.

The story part of this blog (soon to follow) is written by my client Northee (he wishes to be known as) so you have permission to pop the kettle on, feet up or get on your knees, read and enjoy 🙂

Part one

How dumb was that bad man in the film Thelma and Louise? Louise had a revolver aimed straight at him, and at such close range she would not miss. All he had to do was apologise – a very light sanction considering he tried to rape Thelma. If he had apologised he would have lived. But he had to be clever and retort with a wisecrack. His wisecrack was his death sentence; he barely got out “suck my cock” when BANG, down he went finished forever. If the pursuing police only knew of the full facts of what happened at that car park, then they may have been pursued with more understanding. The story could have ended in a more satisfactory way than seeing them literally driven over the edge.

Similarly, three men would not have been reduced to chalk outlines on a station platform if they weren’t so dumb with Mrs. Gray as the main bad man in Thelma and Louise. And if the detective that called around to question Mrs Gray kept his mind on the job he was meant to do rather than ogling all over her and especially at her shoes, then he wouldn’t have ended up taken down to the ground in a hammerlock, then left prostrate from four vicious kicks with Mrs Gray’s mary-janes bulleting into his stomach and arm. If he did his job right, he wouldn’t have been lying helpless and winded on the ground watching Mrs. Gray walk away casually making her escape.

It started politely and professionally enough at 11 o’clock when the grey suited detective in a Cambridge blue shirt and Oxford blue tie knocked on Mrs. Gray’s door. Mrs. Gray was bespectacled in black attire, black skirt, stockings and gold and black patterned mary-jane when learning he was detective let him into the house.

The detective having introduced himself explained:

“I’m investigating the deaths of three men at the railway station and before they died they all muttered the name Mrs. Gray”.

“oh how shocking, and unusual that its a woman that done it. And you think it was me?”, Mrs. Gray replied with a seemingly sweet innocence.

The detective in a reassuring tone replied “oh no, I am not jumping straight to that conclusion. As you can appreciate because the name Mrs. Gray was mentioned, we have to investigate all Mrs. Grays in the area. Its just routine, nothing to worry about …”, jokingly adding with a mischievous laugh, “… unless you did it of course”.

Mrs. Gray played along with the little joke with an equally mischievous smile, adding “but I couldn’t really shoot them”.

As soon as she said that, Mrs. Gray realised she had just incriminated herself; the men were dead but there had not been any mention of how they died. She was gripped by a momentary fear of arrest, anxiously studying the detective’s body language for the expected confirmation that she was about to be arrested. Instead what she saw was the shoe-fetishist in him come out; he let his professionalism fall to the floor where his mind was absorbed in study of Mrs. Gray’s feet and shoes.

Mrs. Gray initially felt relief that she knew she was safe from arrest, because she knew where the detective’s mind was. At the same time she felt an anger boiling over with him; he was supposed to be upholding the law, and there he was being as pervy as the men she dealt with at the station. But for the moment she was playing it cool with him, biding out of the time until he went. She used his fascination with her shoes to her advantage; when sitting down, she crossed her legs and kicked the shoes up and down, almost hypnotising the detective like the swinging of a pendulum watch in front of a mesmerized animal. A few occasional crossing and uncrossing of the legs, with a head tilt and sweet smile ensured the detective’s mind was never going to get back to the job in hand.

The detective was asking questions but wasn’t paying attention to any of the answers. Having asked the basic questions of background of what work she did and where, and when she travels by train, to which she gave a calm and collected answer, he then just seemingly asked questions to stall for time – so he can continue observing her feet and shoes. Mrs. Gray knows his game; she is going from a bide her time mode to seeking an exit strategy. She felt same from arrest, but now the detective has become a pest.

“Have you got any id on you, … just to confirm who you are?” the detective asks.

“yes, sure, I have a driving licence in my handbag”, Mrs. Gray replies, sensing this is the opportune moment to immobilise the detective and make her escape.

She draws him over to where her handbag is, and manoeuvres him to the spot where she will fell him. She pretends to be clumsy dropping a few stuff hoping the detective goes down to the floor and then she can kick him and make her escape, but the detective was just so engrossed in admiring her shoes, feet and legs, that he was oblivious to it. He didnt do the gentleman thing and pick it up for her. So she required another plan.

Hand on driving licence in her handbag, she takes one glance at the detective posture and alertness. She will use the surprise and takedown move. She catches him by surprise by whipping out her driving licence and putting nearly under his nose. As the detective adjusts himself to be able to study the licence, Mrs. Gray had secured his wrist and elbow, applied a turn to his wrist that bent his arm, and it was behind his back before he knew it. Mrs. Gray had the detective in a hammerlock, unleashing a verbal tirade at him for being a pervert as bad as all the other men she knew.

Tirade over, she pushes him face down on to the floor, one hand on the back of his neck and the other arm securing his arm in a hammerlock. Almost as soon as she let go of him while he was face down on the floor she launched four rapid and vicious kicks on him. Her mary-janes blasted him twice in the stomach like bullets to knock the wind out of him. Then one bullet kick to deaden his arm and one more bullet kick to deaden his thigh.

The two kicks to the stomach area had knocked the wind totally out of the detective and all he could do was lie on the floor for the next 10 minutes grimacing in pain slowly trying to get his breath back. And when he did finally regain is breath back, he found he found he still couldn’t get up off the floor; the dead arm and leg Mrs Gray gave him left him unable push himself up from the floor. He just has to lay there all on his own, smarting that his male pride had been ripped to shreds by a woman.

Mrs. Gray had all the time in the world to walk away and escape to a hideout.

End of Detective Calls Part One

Pegging, I’ve added to my collection of cocks and I’ve been having lots of fun taking many a cherry over the last few months as well as gently stretching and taking my existing clients in varied positions 😉  Ask me about my superb curved GSpot and another that has balls that jiggle inside.

Spanking, I’ve met some fun players over the last year and made many a bottom very rosy indeed.  My hands, hairbrush and all manner of impact play implements are at My disposal.

CP, always adding to my collection of toys and players so if you are thinking of booking then do get in touch.  I’m always on the look out for anything interesting to add to my collection and gifts are warmly welcomed.

EStim and ElectraStim New toys in my collection and those who haven’t tried it, well you really don’t know what you are missing out on!  The most delicious pulsing waves of pleasure (and pain if I crank up the level as desired)  await you.

General news:

I’m still on occasions working with my super mate Mistress Jane for double domme, this usually takes place in Berkshire at her well equipped premises.  On occasions when she visits me for a social, we do offer one appointment on the evening that she travels down to one of my reliable regulars.  Apply if you wish to be placed on the list to contact, or simply keep an eye on My Twitter feed.  http://mistressjane.co.uk/

I had a trip to Milton Keynes recently to visit my other fab friend Domina Sara aka The Medical Mistress who has the establishment The Practice.  I had the pleasure of a double domme on her subject “M” who was a very good patient into medical roleplay with a circumcision and castration fetish (we did of course leave him intact) so we can all play out this fantasy another day 😉  http://medical-mistress.co.uk/  I had such a fun time and hope to go back again soon.

And finally I got to meet the man behind http://essentiawhips.co.uk/ always great to put a face to the fantastic workmanship in these superb items.  Many a Twitter exchange and good natter on the phone over the years and I met the Murphy too, gorgeous boy 🙂

The FemDom Ball 2016, what a fantastic night that was!  I attended the event with my London Slave Rodda, who ensured I was collected from the station, wined and dined before setting off to the ball.  I met some lovely ladies and caught up with Twitter friends (always great to meet in person) Slave was a gracious host and ensured I was most comfortable up in The Tower overnight and served me very well the next day.  https://twitter.com/FemdomBall

My hair colour, yes it has changed with warmer tones for the Autumn and Winter, I have many wigs too which on occasions I wear in a session.  So those missing the “Blonde Bombshell” look then no problem!

Update on appointments: I do work weekends and it’s best to book a few days ahead at least if this is the only opportunity that you have to come for a session.  If you do not wish to use online banking to pay your deposit then you will need to attend a bank in person to pay the deposit into my account.

Thank you all for a good fun filled few months and long may they continue!

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Anal play hygiene, a guide for how to prepare yourself for a good pegging.

 

I’ve had many a bottom to play with, some come very well prepared and smell fresh as a daisy and others haven’t even bothered to wash let along have a douche out or use an enema system.

You can either purchase your own enema or douching kit.  Google is your best friend, use it to search on various suppliers, here are some links  for you to check out http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/douches-enemas/

 

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If having such an item sent to your home or workplace is going to cause problems then simply pay the extra £20 fee to me and you can have a douche or better still an enema to flush you out before any anal or strap-on play commences. The enema I have here is a low volume of water with natural salts to activate the lower bowel and works within 5 to 7 minutes. I will administer it and then you will be sent to the toilet to expel and clean up.

Here is another link to include a great variety of anal toys, if you are new to anal play and wish to lose your virginity “I really love popping cherries” then if you are able to do some”homework preperation” with a small toy to help you relax and then you will become accustomed to items entering you, it will make pegging easier and not so daunting for your first time  http://www.edgeplay.co.uk/epwp/product-category/sex-toys/anal-toys/

Whilst I am on the topic of hygiene a reminder to either freshen up when you get here or have a shower within one hour of your session starting and wash your bottom and genital region after using the toilet.  98% of you come to sessions smelling delicious and squeaky clean (that I have to refrain from eating you, haha) sadly 2% don’t and I have a nose like a bloodhound and can tell!  And brush those teeth too!!!  I am in close proximity with you in sessions and adore a nice clean sweet smelling or simply clean body with fresh minty breath to play with.  I have mouthwash in my bathroom as well as a selection of gents products so if you need a freshen up or gargle then please ensure you use the bathroom first.  Great personal hygiene is essential to show respect to me your Mistress!  I do understand that some of you may have come straight from work and simply do not have the facilities to use before you visit me.

My future blog will be on sounds, the risks, the fun and what to expect.

Mistress Helen X

 

 

I am new to the BDSM scene and wanted to find someone to lead me into the world. All I can say is WOW. Mistress Helen gave me something to remember and I am already penciled in for a second appointment. Her surroundings are lovely and clean, she is most charming and has a body to die for. She was very accommodating of my needs and reassured me as well as very relaxing, so I am now induced into the world, and like it. Cant wait for my next time, and what a beautiful lady to show me.

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Dear all

News regarding BDSM & Massage appointments:

I will be away from Thursday 18th August lunch time through to Monday 22nd August inclusive and available for sessions from 23rd August.  I have limited availability Tuesday 16th August from 2pm to gents who have seen me before and space on Weds 17th August to anyone new who can pay a deposit in tomorrow.  Best time to reach me tomorrow is 9am to 10am for phone calls as I will be busy in session from 10:30am, or send over an email.

From 23rd August it’s business as usual until my next double domme day with Mistress Jane sometime in late September or early October (date to be announced) This takes place in Berkshire.

I look forward to seeing my regular playmates/slaves again very soon and fresh meat is always welcome.  When you email please ensure you provide some information to include why you wish to session with me, some dates/times/duration and a general list of likes/dislikes/ or willing to try BDSM activities.  I see gents over the age of 25yrs, fit and healthy and under 18 stone in weight (due to excess wear on dungeon equipment)

Best regards

Mistress Helen X

 

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My second visit to Mistress Helen Ryder. For full cross dressing/sissy training this time. Well It couldn’t of been better. She really is good at this. She really try’s her best to help you feel comfortable and enjoy your fantasy. A nice discrete place to visit, Very clean too. I am looking forward to next time.

 Jenny
February 2016

What can I say? Mistress Helen Ryder inspires complete confidence (and total obedience!) Whether you are at the beginning of your journey or already a few steps along, once you have spent time with Mistress Helen, you will find the path to your deepest desires; through honesty and surrender comes liberation. You will always yearn to return, and you will – as will I, as often as I can! Thank you Mistress Helen

 Rick
February 2016

It is some considerable time since I visited a Domme (I have been more into pure CP recently) and even longer since I was feminized. I saw Mistress Helen’s website and immediately felt she would be a good Domme for me to restart my journey.

We exchanged emails so that she knew what I was interested in and on the day, having made me very welcome, she transformed me – despite her best efforts, I still looked far from a pretty lady – and we continued into other BDSM activities, all of which I enjoyed.

I had a 2 hour session which was extremely competitively priced. Next time, I plan a longer session, maybe to explore other BDSM activities, but possibly if we both have the time simultaneously, I would like to spend the day as her maid – which we discussed favourably – which I am sure I am going to find a superb experience.

 Robert

I came searching for a Mistress to indulge my passion for BDSM late in life as I was lucky enough to have been in two long term relationships which more or less fulfilled my desires without being brilliant. After the last ended it has taken me some while to realise that I would get what I wanted much better from a pro domme. After a couple of disastrous meetings with dommes not interested in me other than as a cash cow I broadened my search and came across Mistress Helen. From the very first phone call she instilled trust. Totally at ease from the phone and email contacts and having paid the sensible deposit I arrived at her door certainly apprehensive but not feeling anyway in danger.
Immediately sat down for a soft drink I was put completely relaxed and discussed where were going with the session. It is not easy to state precisely what one wants but luckily as the session developed Mistress Helen managed to instinctively know what I wanted and there was no danger of having to top from the bottom. I got exactly what I wanted from the session and loads more besides.
I am now delighted that I can regularly beat a path to her door. We try new things and excell at the old things. She is an expert with canes and many other orthodox and surprising instruements so if that is what you like you will not be disappointed, but she is multitalented with many other kinks, some I have tried and loved and some are not for me, but nothing ventured.
She has made me a very happy old man.

 Rodda

I’m heading off on a mini break for a couple of days in the sunshine 🙂 I will last look at emails on Weds 22nd June afternoon and then be out of complete contact until Saturday 25th June from around 3pm.  I will not be taking my phone with me I will be leaving behind in the UK and no looking at emails on the beach either.

Being as I am away such a short time I will be making the most of it!

I look forward to speaking with you on my return.

**All photos used with approval of the subject with some edits to prevail identity, fantasy/fact/fiction with no harm to the participant, transient stripes and theatre style roleplay***

It had been a long day dealing with all the miscreants of the finishing school for young ladies and there was just Loretta Cox left to deal with in regards to inappropriate school uniform and her general behaviour.

My name is Helen Ryder and I am the new head mistress at the Burgess Hill academy. I am very keen to implement some new techniques such as aversion therapy, which Loretta would be receiving very shortly!

“Come in Loretta”

“Yes miss”

“Let’s have a good look at your uniform today, do you think you have stuck to school rules Loretta?

“I think so miss”

I lifted up Loretta’s skirt exposing a pair of non-regulation red panties with love hearts on them as well as sheer black lace top stockings.

“These are NOT regulation navy or black knickers Loretta, and wearing black stockings tut tut, you should be wearing long black school socks”

“I thought now I’m a big girl miss I can wear stockings”

“Oh no you can’t young lady, you break school rules and you pay the price, you are going to be spanked”

I grabbed Loretta and pulled her across my knees with head down low and bottom up high I spanked her over her non regulation panties and then to Loretta’s humiliation I pulled them down and spanked her bare bottom!

“Get up Loretta and pull your knickers up”

Loretta’s face was very red and almost as red and glowing as her bottom.

“You are dressed like a tart under your school uniform and as for the length of that skirt, which is very questionable”  “Dress like a tart then be treated like one, that’s my motto”

I  marched Loretta into a class where young ladies were taught the basics of beauty and started applying lots of make-up and red lipstick, it wasn’t long before Loretta was looking like a cheap tart.

“Stand up and look in the mirror”

Loretta stood in surprise at her very slutty appearance “Oh miss I look so grown up” she said smiling and twirling in front of the mirror.

”I was shocked that she had the audacity to look pleased with herself, well you are over 18 Loretta and being as you are so keen to look the part of a slut then you will be treated as such”

Having attended a very forward thinking course recently I had a bag of interesting items for aversion therapy.

I strapped on my black leather harness with a red veiny cock and gave the slut a condom “Loretta I think you can demonstrate how to put this on with just your mouth if rumours are true”

On her knees with her mouth full of cock Loretta certainly seemed to have had some practice and was soon deep throating and gagging on the cock.  Such a shame Mr Baxter the deputy head wasn’t around for Loretta to work on the real thing.

“Get up little slut and over that bench”

I strapped Loretta down to a black leather bench and stood right behind her telling her I was going to make use of her little fuck hole and make her very sore and that it would indeed be punishment and she would be so sore afterwards that she wouldn’t be so quick to bunk off after hours and sneak off to the local barracks and play with the squaddies.

Noticing some unruly public hair I got out a shaving kit I had seen in the beauty room and made her silky smooth.  I applied lots of wet sticky lube to her little fuck hole and finger fucked her first, opening her up and getting her ready for some cock.

I positioned myself behind her thrusting hard in one whole length into her tight fuck hole. Loretta instead of crying out “please stop” she was groaning and asking for more!  I worked her in every position with bigger thicker cocks and the greedy slut was still asking for more until I had her on her back on the gyno bench with her legs right over my shoulders banging her hard and fast.  Only stopping briefly to shave her a little love heart above a very excitable engorged clitty which was very moist.

It was at that moment I thought to myself why bother trying to curb a young ladies sexual appetite and simply encourage her instead, after all I could continue having a lot of fun with Loretta and encourage her to make use of her talents on webcam and getting paid for entertaining the local men as well as encouraging her into a very promising career in porn.

“Get off that bench Loretta and stand over there” I indicated pointing to the other bench ” bend across that spanking bench and stick your bottom right out”

I reached for my very thin cane known as the bastard and told Loretta that as her new head mistress I might well encourage her natural talents but she wasn’t getting off so lightly for her earlier cheek and she would have 12 of the best.

12 strokes later and one very welted red bottom I told her to pick her panties up and dismissed her.

What an end to the day I thought with a smile on my face.

 

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