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Come along and treat yourself to double the fun and double the pain if you enjoy CP sessions, perhaps some spit roasting with two very experienced ladies wielding their Mistress cocks for you to feast upon!

  • BDSM – Double Domination
  • Spit roast
  • Four hands alternate massage
  • Role Play
  • Electrics, Estim & Violet wand
  • and much more, read my activities list for more ideas!

The Date: Monday 29th Feb 2016

Or for something more relaxing, a treat to the sense’s a four hands alternate massage booking.

Bookings already being taken so grab this date and secure it with a deposit ASAP! Deposits paid direct into a bank account either via transfer or on foot at a branch, email for details.

 

Pricing is one hour £180

1.5hours £260
2 hours £320
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What is an alternate massage?

Despite having a tab which explains some of this and stating I offer bespoke sessions based on the open lines of communication after a session is firmly booked I am still asked “what does it entail” So here is some further information to guide you.

Alternate massage can be a one to one or two practitioners for four hands on.  If two ladies then pricing will vary due to it being a one off appointment or a special advertised (on my blog page) as a double day so keep your eyes on my blogs for updates.

Alternate massage is a style of booking which bridges the gap between a full on BDSM style session and a not so vanilla massage.  It is carried out in my special play room on a comfortable massage couch.  The session can consist of light flogging, teasing, using different mediums of touch from feathers, cat claws, satin gloves etc.  Perhaps an introduction of the Violet Wand, some light electrics, prostrate play, vibrating wands/toys and candle play with special soya based candles which massage on http://www.massagecandles.co.uk/ or other candles I use which are a mix of soya and Crayola to make beautiful patterns on you.  I have just stocked up on a full set of these http://www.etsy.com/shop/FetandFun

Being as all my sessions are bespoke we will have discussed what aspects of play appeal and what kind of sensations are enjoyed, what is pleasure and what is pain as everyone varies.  Sensual massage, sensation play and maybe much more.

There will also be aspects of different styles of massage used from long soothing strokes to deeper movements perhaps working out some knots if needed.  My heated Bamboo will also come out to play as a massage aid, don’t worry I will only whack you across the bottoms with the sticks if it’s been discussed and agreed.

If candles sound a little too messy then rest assured I always use Therapy quality massage wax which is simply a balm which melts with the heat of my hands on your skin and won’t leave you feeling all greasy.  If you are at all worried of smelling different to usual or skin being moisturised a hot shower is always offered after all sessions and a cold shower to those who are true masochists 😉 and want one!

Wearing a blindfold will heighten all of the special touches and assist in you feeling total bliss from such a session.  Alternate massage sessions are very popular and some clients simply stick to them and others decide to go on to the more traditional domination sessions when they feel more confident.

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2pm sharp the phone rang “Hello Mistress Helen it’s slave Lenny I’m parked up as instructed”

Mistress Helen looked out across the road and saw the car as described and gave the house number and instructions to come straight across.

“Hello Mistress Helen, it’s great to meet you at last”

“Jolly good to meet you slave now come and follow me up to my special room”

Mistress Helen led the way and slave followed taking in MH’s lush curves, shapely bottom and long legs catching a peek of her stocking tops as she walked up the stairs.

Slave handed over the remainder of the tribute due with nervous excitement.

Mistress Helen walked around slowly instructing slave to strip.

“Mmmmmm slave lenny, you do look rather familiar and we have already met previously I believe”

Standing naked in the room slave gazed down at his erect cock, he was nervous about where Mistress recognised him from and it led to his excitement wondering what would happen next.

“How is Amy? Mistress asked giving slaves erect cock a little slap with her crop.

“Oh fuck!  You won’t tell her I’m here will you?

“Well that depends on how much you entertain me today slave” Mistress grinned mischievously and walked out of the room returning with a large box.

Mistress Helen produced stockings, a very frilly pink and black suspender belt skirt, a bra with false breasts and a tight wiggle dress.

“First of all this clitty cock needs to be kept under My control” a sissy pink gingham ribbon was tied around slaves balls and criss crossed over and around his throbbing cock (it felt rather good) and on went the stockings and very frilly suspender belt, bra and then the dress.

“Look how pathetic you are in that mirror”

Slave walked over and gasped as Mistress laughed at him.

“I have news for you, I used to work with Amy and had many a conversation about how you simply don’t satisfy her with that thing!  I hear you only last about three minutes and as much as she loves her home life and generous income from your joint jobs, she is bored sexually and we have been chatting about cuckolding”

“She hasn’t told you that surely” spluttered slave Lenny

Mistress Helen told SL all about the intimate chats between her and Amy and that being as slaves little 3 minute egg timer would never satisfy her that Helen would be simply helping her friend Amy by training slave up to be a useful entertaining cuckold husband.

Amy worked for an international company and it often involved working away and with her new very good looking boss David who Mistress Helen had recognised from some of the fetish parties she had attended.  She knew David to be a very accomplished dominant and knew him to be into the cuckold lifestyle.  She would encourage her friend to enjoy those trips away whilst lenny kept the house clean and tidy for her arrival home.  He would be hand washing her sticky lingerie on her return.

Mistress Helen strapped into her harness and placed a decent sized cock in it. “Get those cock sucking lips around this slave”

And so began slave lenny’s training as for the next couple of hours he was made to entertain Mistress Helen with stripper style dancing, made to confess his failings as a lover and how he would write a letter to his wife pouring out his failings and how much he loved her and wanted them to have a happy marriage and his wife a fulfilling sex life with David.  He would be waiting on their every need, being fluffer and cleaning up as and when required.

His training consisted off lots of cock sucking, then having his own anal cherry taken over the bench so that he could be a true bitch.  Shoe cleaning and shoe worship progressing on to bare feet which Mistress Helen had deliberately made as sweaty as possible, instructing slave to get his tongue between every toe and lick them clean.  It was only when he was totally exhausted and totally compliant and ready to write the letter to Amy that Mistress Helen made him kneel on the floor and wank his little cock and make him spurt all over the floor.  His face was pushed down into it and he knew what was expected of him.

“That’s right slave from now on you will be on clean up duties, you will be put into chastity in time and only given permission to cum when it suits either me or Amy.  Now get practising and lick that mess off the floor”

Slave licked the floor clean and then had to wash it by hand too, Mistress Helen threw his clothes at him and told him he was dismissed until another time…

Mistress Helen provides training and role plays in person for sissy cuckold husbands with strapon training, sissy make overs and for those not brave enough to attend in person or wanting long distance training there are websites out there such as this one https://www.sissify.com/sissy-training-assignments/  I can not personally vouch for the site so do your homework!

 

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Thank you to all those I have had the pleasure of playing with over the last year, and to those who I haven’t yet had the pleasure…..DON’T be shy take the plunge and write to me with an introduction of what you seek and I’m sure between us some dreams can be fulfilled for 2016.

From light introduction to BDSM with sensual alternate massage, role play to hard CP sessions, Strap-on/pegging, 4 hands massage, double domination, Foot worship, Medical play, sissy make-overs, sissy shopping trips, dinner socials after sessions, Fetish Club trips, extended sessions as well as shorter visits to explore your kink in a safe environment, something for everyone 😉

Happy blessed 2016

Mistress Helen XxX

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Written by R and thank you I really enjoyed myself very much too 😉  This was a superb stop off appointment on my travels to Berkshire for the double domme date with my mate http://mistressjane.co.uk/  I have seen R before and know him rather well now that a session at his place was arranged before settling in with MJ.  I packed a bespoke kit to take along with me and my massage couch as it’s more discreet than trying to fit a bench into my car.  In regards the strap-on play I believe it was Eight different positions!

First of all thank you again for a great time.

Here is my take on the evening.

Helen arrived unloaded her bags of tricks & parked in my garden giving me the opportunity to lay a path of old bed linen in Frances Drake fashion to keep her boots clean.

After a nice cup of tea & a light snack we were off. Commanded to undress & stand before her then to my knees for some delightful stocking clad leg & heel worship with instruction & encouragement & a tantalizing small area of bare thigh offered for my eager lips. Then it was punishment time tied & secured I was gently flogged at first just teasing my back then getting firmer & harder a harbinger of things to come.

Well come they did in the shape of a tawse or flexible paddle  on the buttocks a safe maximum quickly established my bum was brought up to the heat & colour  Helen (& I) desired.
Next began the climax of the session for me starting with me restrained on the massage table I was gently lubed & probed then a but plug was administered then you guessed it a larger one. When Helen was satisfied it was on with the strap-on & off to the bed what followed was a torrid buggering using position after position I (who had only ever had this once briefly & in the traditional manner) was completely blown away by it & I am sure Helen was enjoying herself too. At this point I should point out that throughout the session Helen was encouraging me with great fantasies to fit the scenario which I am sure she would have picked up & run with if I had taken the bait. After a Quick break & a chat It was over her knee for a hand & brush spank on my now tender behind then a final bugger bent over my desk.

A real treat from a great professional who clearly enjoys her work.

R

 

 

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A recent role play that I won’t divulge ALL the details on this occasion, I was in 1950’s style attire with a full circle dress, petticoats and pinny and my “victim” William as the naughty school boy being spanked for his errant ways. His constant complaints of being made to wear shorts instead of trousers like the other boys (Oh the humiliation haha) and his flirtations with the girls. I do love a good role play when the other player is also fully engrossed.

Lots of over the knee spanking, then on to the punishment bench and strapped down for more severe spanking, tawse and then the cane.

One punished and very excitable boy later made a very sticky mess indeed when confessing to his naughty thoughts!

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Mistress Dita is looking forward to 26th AND 27th November (due to popular demand the extra date added) for 4 handed sensual massage and domination, I’m really looking forward to our special day together too!  Ms Dita has written this introduction.  Book Now!

Ms Dita I am a lifestyle BDSM practitioner, it’s something that I live and work in and have done for a very long time. A natural sadist, CP is something I really enjoy I particularly adore the artistry of the whip. It’s not for the faint of heart, but the safety of the submissive is always paramount to me.

To have an unblemished canvass before me is a true joy. To see you quiver as I draw back my whip, to see you jump as it cracks , bare millimetres from your skin, then to observe your reaction as the white Hot burn of the lash, fills your senses. Dare you ask to feel the kiss of my whip? I love all aspects of play, it’s a journey of discovery for Domme and sub. A good scene is dependent on good communication, and I always ensure that I listen to and respect the boundaries of everyone I play with, whilst ensuring their safety, but not overlooking their needs. It is such a privilege to be asked to work with Mistress Helen.   I also enjoy many other aspects of BDSM especially strap-on play.

We have been friends for a very long time and have played together on numerous occasions, you will see the chemistry between us, and may be treated to the sight of us flirting and enjoying each other. It is very important for a four handed massage, that we work in harmony, mirroring each other, giving you the ultimate in sensation, whilst giving the visual stimulation of our playfulness and flirtation. You will be relaxed, stimulated and aroused as our hands sweep warm oils over you. Lay back and enjoy as two very sensual ladies give you all of their attentions. Spoil yourself!

About me I am a busty and curvy, tattooed lady, who enjoys MANY aspects of BDSM play. I have a wicked sense of humour and genuinely enjoy what I do. I firmly believe that pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin, spin the coin and the edges blur together.

I’m back in West Sussex after my great day out to Sexpo yesterday at Kensington Olympia http://www.sexpo.co.uk/  I was net working and lending a hand on my fab mates stall http://www.daisysfloggers.co.uk/  Daisy makes the most beautiful colourful floggers with many of them being one of a kind as well as the usual black and reds that people like.  She also makes bespoke orders and ships abroad, a Mistress in the US will often request a new flogger to match a certain outfit for a fetish event and Daisy always comes up with the perfect flogger to accompany it.  Other items she carries in stock are: Aromatherapy massage candles (I use these in my massage treatments) rope, safety scissors and little torches (very handy) for those that attend clubs and can’t see in the gloom for handling toys in and out of bags etc.  Daisy has made a budget range starting from just £25 especially for #Sexpo so once they are gone, that’s it so go grab a bargain while you can.

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I had a good look around the other stalls, mmmmmmm Jed Phoenix was just around the corner and yes I did buy a few items from her to wear both in sessions and for fetish events.  I bought the Governess skirt and shirt with a tie and have two skirts from her website on order a short one with buckles and a long line one with a special pocket to carry a Riding Crop for CP (one will have the blue twill to match my tie and shrug) The gorgeous shrug didn’t stay in my bag for long and I wore with my dress and corset yesterday (by the way I have broken in my shiny patent leather Dr Martens so I had those on all day. http://www.jedphoenix.com/    I really love Jed Phoenix clothing, hint hint Christmas is coming.

Estim have a stall there and I was chatting with the staff who have been so helpful on the phone when I placed my order not too long ago for all my electrics for work.  I bought a double pin wheel and have short listed some new internal plugs and other bits for future purchases.  They have Spot the EStim dog there and Cassy kindly offered the remote control for his internal plug so of course I had to have a go zapping him at 100%!  http://store.e-stim.co.uk/  I have an affiliate link of the front of my own website.  If you visit the stall this weekend they have a postcard to fill out with the chance to win £500 worth of EStim kit.

I got some cute red nipple tassels so that you lovely sissy sluts can wear them on your nipples and twirl them for me, my own burlesque entertainment! www.nippleicious.co.uk   Also two gorgeous brooches from Steven http://www.omygodjewellery.com/  I first met him many years ago on the fetish circuit at either Club Rub or Submission and he used to be at a shop in Soho, bless him for always recognising me when I see him.

Lastly the NHS have a free STI HIV (the works) testing station situated right next to Daisy’s Floggers and a few people were debating on being tested or not and quite hesitant so I said if I do it then you have to.  Off I popped for a self-swab and I hadn’t locked the little loo properly so in walked a man as I had my dress pulled up and a swab up the side of my knickers, think he was more embarrassed then me and we just laughed over it.  I hate having blood taken as my veins can be very difficult, after all my body wants to keep its blood but thankfully the lovely Nurse took it with no problem.  Results are text over within 10 days and it all took just 5 minutes.  They even give you a canvas bag with glow in the dark sperm key ring, free condoms and willy measure 🙂

Lots and lots of other stalls, entertainment, porn stars to meet and sign photos, Champagne bars, food stands all under one roof so certainly worth a visit this weekend.  Do go and visit my friend Daisy as her floggers are beautiful and you will be very tempted.

I’m not available today (Friday 13th Nov) and out of contact much of the day as I am networking and lending a hand on my friends stall at Sexpo.

In response to several people wanting short notice and same day bookings without having ever seen me before NEW clients MUST pay a deposit 24 hours in advance to secure an appointment.

Due to too many previous no shows/wasted time so I am strict over this and it works.  People that are not prepared to FOLLOW booking procedures are clearly time wasters!

http://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/how-to-book-a-session/

On a more positive note I give thanks to the lovely genuine players out there who follow my procedures and repeat custom, you are appreciated and valued, and fun to session with thank you.

Best regards

Mistress Helen Xx

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I will be one of the House Mistress’s and Dungeon Monitor’s at this event.  Come and say hello.

Saturday, 21 November 2015 at 21:00 Sunday, 22 November 2015 at 02:00 (GMT)

 

FETLIFE MEMBERS: https://fetlife.com/events/394527

£15 in advance, or £17 on the door.Dress code:Fetish wear – no full nudity.Description:

R.A.C.K – presented by ‘BB Chamber’

Welcome all to our new event!

We are very excited to be able to offer a new fetish club night.
Those of you who came to our Barn Party will know what to expect, for those who couldn’t make it… you can expect lots of play, plenty of equipment to use, in a friendly and safe environment.. maybe even some alternative party games!

Please note, this is a different venue as originally planned

We will have a fully stocked bar, a cloakroom, and plenty of space to swing a flogger.

With the majority of the play equipment being supplied by Brighton Twisted Market, and a few extra pieces being supplied by some very lovely friends, we will have no shortage of beautiful dungeon equipment to use. This includes;
Multiple St Andrews Crosses
Multiple spanking benches
Whipping post
Suspension Frame
And much more…

Dungeon monitors will be in place to ensure safe play. Please do not interrupt scenes for any reason, approach the DM’s if you have any questions instead.

Because the venue will be using their own bar staff we ask you to respect the following rules;

No full nudity (ie undercarriage must remain covered)
No sexual intercourse
No pictures – photographers will be at the event but will only photograph you with permission.

R.A.C.K = Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

We are a drug free event, anyone found to be taking drugs will be removed.

New to the area? Ask us about a meet and greet service.

9pm – 2am.
Fetish Wear.
Private parking.

Tickets; https://rack-bb-chamber.eventbrite.co.uk
(Password: Contact me for details)

See you there!