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Duo Domination with Berkshire’s Mistress Jane & Sussex’s own, Mistress Helen Ryder…

I’m teaming up with my dynamic Mistress mate so don’t miss out, off on my tour to Berksire soon!

Not ONE but TWO powerful and demanding Dominatrix’s will be joining forces for two days of Duo Domination on Monday 26th and Tuesday 27th of October.

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This will be our 10th get together and as a special celebratory offer sessions on the Tuesday will be £160 for the hour instead of the usual tribute of £200.

Come and enjoy an hour or more of your favourite BDSM activities with not only one but two Mistresses. Your punishment will be our pleasure…Spoil yourself and be indulgent, we intend to!

Novices & Newbies are welcome so don’t be scared off by the thought of two Mistresses, sessions are tailored to your specific needs and requirements. Sensual teasing or taking you strap-on cherry…we promise to be gentle! its twice the pleasure!  With BOTH Mistress’s being qualified in massage we also offer a 4 hands erotic massage to incorporate any light BDSM activities.

Bi….Mistress Janes pet slut T-Girl Gigi may be in the area on Monday 26th so if you’d like her to assist during your session let Mistress Jane know in advance.

Note: We will keep a few spaces available on both days for ‘Same day’ bookings for those of you who are unable to pre book for our Duo Domination event.

BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN for Duo Domination event.

Haha bless 🙂 I think some one is in trouble re next session!

Dear Mistress Helen

Hi. This is Pansy Penny. I have just enjoyed reading your blog about our session last week. Thank you very much for posting it. You made it sound very exciting and lots of fun, which of course is exactly what it was.
It was lovely to meet you; and I really appreciated you dressing up. You looked gorgeous. I was nervous about the start (I did it mainly so you would be more severe with me), but loved the play-acting and the spanking more than I expected. I also loved the way you humiliated and teased me and got me into more and more trouble.
MJ is awesome, and you two together were great. I hope we’ll be able to do a similar session before too long.
By the way, I didn’t spill any water because I braced the tray against the cupboard. At least I got away with something!
Thank you again.
best wishes
Pansy Penny

I was bent over dusting busily away in Madams bedroom and thinking that I had a very busy day ahead of and thank god that pervert handyman has left me alone for a while!  I was suddenly aware of breath on the back of my neck and oh heck guess who!

“Hello Helen, having a fine morning I see dusting away & bending over showing off those lovely legs of yours”

“Huh, you shouldn’t be looking!  What are you doing in madams room, haven’t you any of your own work to be getting on with?”

“I’m only being friendly Helen”

“A bit too friendly for my liking with perving up my skirts when I’m bending down and trying to brush past me rubbing yourself over me as you do, you’re just a pervert!”

“Now now Helen I think you need to do as your told, you’ve got me into trouble enough times with that bitch and if you don’t do as I say I’m going to get you into trouble”

The handy man raised his voice “Get over against that wall and hands on your head”

I had heard madam’s car coming back on the drive and thought yes play long as hopefully madam would overhear whatever was going on and I wondered what the perv had in mind.

I gasped as I felt my maids uniform being pulled up at the back and my panties (small silky black pair) and my stockings and suspender belt were all on show, then suddenly whack down came the handy mans hand on my bottom spanking me again and again.

“Take that you little trouble maker, telling tales on me and running to madam every 5 mins just because I’m being friendly”  “Anyway all you are good for is a lowly housemaid, women’s work & women belong in the kitchen”

I scoffed at that remark and it was the wrong thing to do as he spanked me more and more!

“I got caned the other day because of you and then had my night ruined because that bitch put me in chastity!  She ruined my evening as I had a date and knew I would be getting into her knickers”

I laughed and then received another wallop “No way!  Madam wouldn’t do that”

“Oh yes she does all the time, it’s alright for you, you haven’t been working here long and she seems to like you Helen.  Jane the Cane they call her”

Just as I was being spanked some more Madam appeared in the doorway (haha that old goat would be in a lot of trouble now) I thought with madam seeing me pressed up against the wall and my knickers all exposed and I’m sure she saw the last spanking.

“What’s going on here?”

The handyman started spluttering pathetic excuses for why he was spanking me and I spoke up “madam he has been calling you a right bitch and complaining about me running to you and telling tales and he said all I’m good for is housework”

“So you think being a housemaid is a lowly position, you best come downstairs and you too Helen”

I wondered what madam was going to do and followed her down to the parlour

“How would you like the day off Helen and have the handyman do all your chores and serve tea and cake to us both?”

Wow I couldn’t believe it and thought haha serves that old goat for being such a pervert and trying to put me down.  “I would love that madam”

“Right better had you dress the part, c’mon get those clothes off”

He stripped off looking down rather ashamed and embarrassed and I relished in his uncomfortable predicament and had a big smile on my face, especially when I saw he was wearing a chastity device on his little cock.  Haha I wasn’t in any real danger then from what I could see and obviously madam kept a very tight rein on him (what an unusual household and not like my previous employers) I could see working here could me a real eye opener.

Madam produced a maid’s outfit with stockings, a girdle that was crotchless, frilly panties and little pinny and hat and even a wig and asked me to help dress the handyman.  She then gave me some nipple clamps and told me to pin them onto PP’s niplles over the dress. I had the giggles at first but then felt very powerful and superior watching him squirm and his humiliation of being turned into a maid.

Madam then linked up chains to ankle and wrist cuffs and stuffed a pair of panties in his mouth with some sort of head harness to hold it in place.  I couldn’t stop laughing and poked my tongue out when madam wasn’t looking and whispering “haha just look at you now Mr pervert”

Madam instructed PP to get down on the floor and polish her very shiny skirt, madam always dressed in very sexy clothing like corsets and leather too, no Laura Ashley like my last household!

“Now stay on your knees and kneel up facing me” Madam had a sign and camera in her hand.

Madam stuffed the sign in his hands and it read: Pansy Penny frilly panted pervert please punish me severely.  She told me to stand next to him and to call him Pansy Penny for the rest of the day and that the photos were to ensure he didn’t try to put a complaint in about his employment so madam would have them to blackmail him with for the future.

“Get over here and bend over” Madam had a cane in her hand and she started caning PP’s bottom and I couldn’t help but grin.  “Watch me closely Helen as it’s your turn next, want to get your own back on your spanking earlier”

“Hell yes I do madam” I was given the cane and I started hitting PP’s bottom ignoring the cries of pain and laughing as I did it.

Madam looked at the clock and announced it was afternoon tea time and that PP should do my tea errands and not forget to curtsey.

PP did a half curtsey in my direction and madam made him do it again I laughed and poked my tongue out doing a proper curtsey back and taking the mickey.

“Go and sit down Helen and put your feet up”

Well I didn’t need to be told that twice, laying back on madams comfy sofa and flashing my stockings at PP poking my tongue out again.  “PP hissed just you wait you little bitch it will be pay back at some point”

“What did you mutter” asked madam

“PP called you a bitch madam” Madam pulled him by the chains into the kitchen and fastened a tea tray with two slices of fresh cream Victoria sponge (the very cake that the handyman was going to take around to his new fancy piece later) haha that spoilt those plans!

“I’m just popping upstairs Helen so keep an eye on Pansy Penny and make sure she makes tea to your liking”

“Yes madam”

PP carried on making the tea and I thought to myself right time to get him/her into more trouble!

“I liked what you did earlier, that spanking made me a bit horny, want to do it again?”

I bent over the kitchen sink and raised my satin uniform and even pulled my panties up some more so my bottom was exposed.  Well PP was over like a flash and started spanking me again and I was encouraging more spanking with telling PP to spank me more in the middle right over both cheeks.

Madam walked back into the kitchen “I leave you alone for a few minutes and this happens, what’s going on?”

“As soon as you went upstairs PP pushed me against the sink and lifted my dress up madam and said I need punishing for getting him into trouble”

“Pansy Penny you are to continue making tea and afterwards it’s time for the cane, Helen go and sit down and have your tea and cake with me”

Mmmm I bit into the slice of cake looking right at PP with a cheeky glint in my eye as I suggestively licked the cream off my fingers and lips and drank my tea.

After we had finished and PP had to curtsy lots and made to stand in the corner whilst madam and I were chatting about my new role working for her household (I don’t think I could be happier elsewhere) she said if PP was muttering that I had to count them and that would be how many he would get……….well I might have miscounted and made a few up!   Madam  announced it was time to cane PP.

I had to choose two different canes and to pose with them so that PP could be blackmailed by me to do anything I asked of him in the future!  But I couldn’t believe it that when madam told me to crush his head between my thighs whilst she caned him he only started trying to feel my legs up.

“The dirty pervert is feeling my legs up”

Madam made PP get up and go to the kitchen, she stood a full to the brim glass of water on the tea tray. “If you spill one single drop then we start from the very beginning”

Madam caned PP and then it was my turn, I was a tad disappointed that Pansy Penny hadn’t spilt any water and had received all the 70 strokes of the cane.

“A lesson learnt I think and time to go and do Helens chores off you go” PP was dismissed giving me a withering stare as he/she departed.  Rubbing a very sore welted red bottom.

What would tomorrow bring in this unusual household I thought to myself as I skipped off to go and have a nosey around madams potting shed, I had heard some strange noises coming from there the other day and wondered what might be inside……………………….

 

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I’ve had several of My recent bookings state I am too cheap! (you are always welcome to tip or bring a gift) Smiling at that comment and I have reassured them that they really mean very reasonable compared to many other professional Mistress’s.  I have set my rates for the reason that I know many of you NEED and DESIRE sessions on a more regular basis and setting my rates as they are makes it achievable for you to fulfil those urges and build a better rapport with Me your Mistress over time.

I invest in My equipment and have spent many thousands on high quality toys/furniture/website/photos/clothing/advertising as well as the usual sundries of good quality lube, gloves, enemas, medical grade cleaners etc.  I care about my clients and there well being.  If I were running my sessions from another location I would of course have to increase my fee to cover renting industrial premises or buy another property.  I work from my own establishment legally.

I have turned over one dedicated room for play and feel this reflects in my tribute fairly.

I do not see more than 2 clients max on any one day and being as I sometimes get booked for longer sessions of 2 to 3 hours this also would not be possible.  Some days I do not see anyone so it is not high volume traffic at my premises and is very discreet.

I offer affordable quality/experienced domination sessions with a lifestyle background going back to 1996 when I first starting attending fetish events.  I have  also worked alongside several other Mistress’s who have the same ethos of BDSM being available for the average gentleman and not just those with deep pockets.  Reasonable rates does not indicate a poor quality Mistress and it is down to the individual to charge what she likes and feels happy charging based on her establishment/session interests after setting aside her tax/outgoings that the individual is still making a wage.

I can be available to session at the Gatwick Dungeon location in Horley but again keeping my rates REAL it will be a higher tribute then what I ask for staying at my base due to hire charges and travel costs/time.

So what does the average week bring me in my world I am often asked, looking back over the last week it has been #FootWorship #Pegging #StrapOn #Humiliation #UrethalSounds #RolePlay #Hogtie and #Bondage #MedicalPlay #Nettles #CBT #CP #Electrics not ALL in one session as some people may only have one particular activity that they enjoy and it’s perfectly fine to have as many activities as you like or as little with time permitting of course.

The more complex the session the more time is required, otherwise the session is too rushed and if it’s a very intense session you may need time to unwind at the end. A hot shower, cuppa and a biscuit a little unwinding is sometimes what’s needed after an intense experience.

See you soon

Mistress Helen X

I recently had a lovely couple approach me for a session where I was invited to take the females strap-on cherry, after several phone calls to become at ease with each other we arranged the date and it was really a very special occasion which I will treasure in my memory 🙂 and certainly would love to explore more with this amazing lovely couple.  The session was to be about sensation and the senses a very sensual experience before leading on to more carnal pleasures of the flesh!

The lady wrote up a beautiful piece of erotic lit which I have approval to share with you the reader, please enjoy 🙂

I am surrounded by thick, velvety blackness.
The mask blocks my vision in totality, not even the slightest silver of light penetrates the dark.
I am lightly restrained. Just enough to keep me in place. It is enough.
I hear voices, muted discussions. The sound of toys being moved, arranged. I pay surprisingly little heed to the distractions. In the words of Doris Day, what will be, will be. I am under no illusion, but wait with nervous anticipation nonetheless.

My senses are drawn to my back, as hands move lightly over my skin, swiftly joined by another pair.
My skin is caressed, explored like never before. No part of me is sacred, nor would I wish it to be.

The light touches give way to gentle scratching. I hear the unmistakable sound of my twin blades being drawn against each other and shiver with pleasure.
Cold hard steel against my skin is something that can thrust me into subspace surprisingly quickly.

Claws and knives. My senses are aflame, my arousal growing with every passing moment.
Fingers graze my inner thighs, taunting me with the promise of more.
I squirm, wanting the fingers to touch me far more intimately. I am teased for what seems like hours. My frustration and my arousal increasing to epic proportions.
My mind knows no logic. I am caught entirely in the moment, a moment of promise that the pleasures to follow will be of levels never previously experienced.

I feel a sudden coldness on my clit, as a lubricant is liberally applied. Fingers explore me, teasing, bringing me to the edge, over and over. Each time I reach the edge of the precipice, I am cruelly denied.
I beg, plead, just allow me this release.
But Master knows me too well. One would be a drop in the ocean of my capacity and desire, and to allow it too soon , would curtail a significantly bigger orgasm.

They toyed with me for what felt an age. My body wracked with desire. Shaking with need. I slip deep into my head to try to gain some focus, some control, but even this escape is denied when my torment takes the forming of a wand.

When the orgasm finally breaks from me, all control is gone. My body bucks against the restraints, and a tsunami erupts from me.
This is the start of many hours of play.

I am on a wave of pleasure.
Hands constantly touching, stroking, probing, pinching, spanking, caressing.
My senses in joyful confusion as they become overloaded with input.

My Master and my beautiful tormentor take it in turns to use me then they both use me together, simultaneously entering me. I am there to be used and enjoyed, yet i know my enjoyment is also paramount.
I strain to see their faces, gauge their expressions, but alas this is impossible when they are behind me.
My joy is to see Masters face during play. It allows me to read his desires and to see his pleasure.
I take reassurance that the sounds I hear are those of pleasure.

By the time I reach my final, massive, orgasm. I have been fucked by fingers and hands, cocks and dildos. I have soaked the floor more times than I could possibly remember. I have been swept away on a tidal wave of emotion and sensation.
The experience surpassing my wildest imagination.
My gratitude to Master and Mistress for something that has completely changed my perspective.

 

Credits to D a very special lady and her Master who gave me the privilege to share her and this wonderful experience.

 

Domination starts right here, please read/accept and follow the instructions provided:

Booking Procedures:

I ask for an initial £30 application/phone fee paid up front (it comes off your final balance, if booking a session within a 6 week period) Deposits in order of preference below:

  1. via My Revolut @mhrtherapy https://www.revolut.com/
  2.  https://www.tipfunder.com/MsHelenRyder
  3. Amazon Gift Code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com (bought online or from supermarkets, I require the code off the scratch off panel)

Do not ask Me for any other form of payment.

ALL SESSIONS REQUIRE PHYSICAL AND MENTAL PREPERATION AND PLANNING IN ORDER FOR YOU TO GET THE VERY BEST FROM YOUR SESSION

NEW CLIENTS: 48HRS AHEAD MINIMUM NOTICE

EXISTING CLIENTS ONLY: 24HRS NOTICE preferred or 3hours same day with deposit sent within 20 mins of communication/agreement

Please email after paying the £30 application fee as first contact to introduce yourself and the style of session which interests you (a brief outline/list of activities) include between 3 to 6 dates/times  that you are looking to book and can commit to.  We will then arrange time for you to call me and book you in.  I will then require a 50% non refundable deposit PAID PROMPTLY

Once I have the payment we will arrange a phone call to me (it’s essential I speak with you)  On the day of your session we can chat in more detail on arrival or you may wish to call me for a longer explicit chat on either Adult Work or DOMMELINE when I am logged in before the day of your session.  Both these links are within My website and linked on Twitter.  I also sell my own direct phone chat packages (see online domination tab) and you need to be flexi on timings that you can speak.

I INSIST that ALL My new clients pay a deposit 48 hours in advance minimum

  • The more complex the session the more time is required to book, think about what you wish to experience.
  • Cash drop offs are possible but will incur an EXTRA*£80 as a PRE PAY meet/greet fee paid 48hrs in advance Amazon GC only (send voucher and then email)
  • Deposits are a vetting & security process and demonstrate that you are making a committed booking as a submissive or kinkster and respect Me and My time!
  • If you don’t like paying a deposit then please don’t contact Me.
  • Provided 48 hrs hours notice given to reschedule your session, the deposit will be moved on one occasion only within a 3 month period.  If you cancel on the day/less than 48hrs notice  you forfeit your deposit and a gentleman would pay the agreed full fee.  If you fail to do this, you forfeit the deposit and will be expected to pay in full in advance of any new session. I am a self employed tax payer and will not replace your appointment at short notice!  I will have also potentially turned other clients away.  If you do not send the balance you will be black listed and details circulated on the time waster forums for other Dommes to check.  If I have your full payment I may consider at My discretion allowing you to reschedule to one new date only if there are extenuating circumstances.  If you then cancel that date then you will forfeit all payment and pay a new deposit.
  • If you send multiple emails asking further questions (especially being vague & asking for My diary contents/availability) and haven’t sent a payment, be aware this is a time waster tactic so I will ignore you until you send over a 50% deposit or min £30 application/call cover fee to answer any questions
  • Do not write to Me offering other methods of payment.  My bank information was just fraudulently previously so I no longer give it out.

The location will only be given after the booking/deposit is all confirmed. There is free parking close by, come and go discreetly and quietly.  I do not have an open door or revolving door policy here.

On the day of your session please ensure you call at the time of your appointment (do not be early or late) I expect a phone call if you are stuck in traffic etc

Having spent thousands on fetish furniture/ equipment, clothing, My website and advertising etc I won’t be skipping town with your “deposit” I also hold a high regard for My reputation in this industry.

I look forward to speaking with you and meeting you soon.

Mistress Helen

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** I do not use Paypal as it’s a breach of their terms**

Hello all

27th and 28th August I will be heading off to Berkshire to spend some time with my fab friend Mistress Jane, we met quite a few years ago on the Fetish scene and stayed in touch over the years so we often reminisce on the good ole days as well as going out for nice country walks and our love of veggy food, red wine and vintage fashion.

There will be limited space so it’s best to book soon, priority given to those we have double dommed with previously, as well as existing clients previously seen with either of us on a 121 booking, new bookings are welcome and a deposit may be asked for in advance due to the limited availability depending on time and duration of an appointment. You are most welcome to get in touch with either me or Mistress Jane.

Due to the warm spell we have been enjoying I have been buying some new latex, consisting of short tight form fitting bodies, knickers and bras and corselettes as well as some What Katie did and Kiss Me Deadly vintage style lingerie to show off my ample curves to tease you in sessions so I will be packing a selection for my Berkshire visit.

Fancy being spit roasted, electrics, strap-on, humiliation, role plays, sissy wear, TV/Cross Dressing, make-overs, Corporal Punishment, Edge play, Medical play, foot worship, Fetish Nurse, 4 hands massage with 2 dominant therapists! Alternative massage and much more…….

See you soon!

Mistress Helen X

 

 

How time flies, it was only last week that I was visiting my friend Mistress Jane to catch up on all the news and go out for a nice walk in the area and in between help assist with some very errant boys!

I always have great fun lending a helping hand and received this email from Mr Groper afterwards:

Dear Head Teacher and School Inspector

Thank you both for an enjoyable session Saturday am. For limp-wristed females, you certainly made your mark. I was not scared of you to begin with, but soon learnt my lesson.
Until the next time.
Mr Groper

You can read all about it here at http://mistressjane.co.uk/category/my-blog/sessions/

Watch this space for more of my own news and stories very soon and I’m in West Sussex for all your spanking desires, bondage, alternative massage, CBT, Role play, Corporal Punishment, Strap-on play, Electrics, Violet Wand, Estim, Anal inspections, Foot worship, foot fetish fun etc

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

 

 

 

Jane 

 

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Duo Domination day in Berkshire with Mistress Jane

I am off to visit my friend Mistress Jane to catch up on all the news, take in some country walks, some good wine etc and gang up together on you naughty boys whilst I am there.

Duo Domination is £200 for the hour.

You can email your date/time of preference and outline of previous experience and the style of session that interests you.

Deposits being taken now for ALL new first timers, refunds are not offered if you cancel but will be held for another date.  If for any reason myself or Mistress Jane have to reschedule then you would be offered a refund of the deposit or offered an alternate date (which ever you prefer) contact me for details.

If you have seen either myself or Mistress Jane before then a deposit may not be necessary.

Duo Domination for double the fun and great scope for all sorts of role plays!

Caning By Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder
Always so gratifying to receive a thank you message after a session and know that the sub/slave enjoyed his caning as much as I did, thank you dd……….any time 😉
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Wonderful Mistress Helen,
A big thank you for our time together this afternoon. You really are a very clever lady. I am looking forward to continuing my training in the near future.
As you instructed I bought Lady Julia some flowers on the way home. She say they are very nice but I shouldn’t have needed to be told to get them. She says that next time I see you I must beg for twelve nice stingers with the cane for not doing it off my own bat.
I can see I am going to need lots of training and more caning before I reach an acceptable standard.
Your eager and adoring novice
dd
Well I certainly enjoy giving a good caning to all your naughty boys, are you ready to bend over my bench to receive the cane?