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21Dec 2022

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2023

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Dear all

Well we are nearly there, almost another year under our kinky belts and what fun times it’s been 🙂 thank you so much to all the wonderful players who’ve graced My playroom or hired dungeons and had so much fun.

I am away between 23rd to 26th December inclusive and taking sessions from 27th December and up to 4pm on New Years Eve.  Then I am available from 2nd January 2023  I expect EVERYONE  to read My website & send a polite email with brief outline and dates/times in your first contact, lots of very silly messages this week by email with 2 liners and ditto text messaging, ALL of which I have not replied to for obvious reasons!  If your email is along the lines of My own interests and we are compatible I will ask you to send a deposit and follow up with a chat and get you booked in.  Failure to deposit will result in your details going onto the time wasters lists and life time ban.

Going forward for 2023 I very much welcome new clients as well as my wonderful existing base of couples, females and gents to return.  I will on occasions advertise double domme.  With regards to filming: laws constantly changing and the pain of keeping model release forms, Id and such like I have no set plans to start filming with anyone in the near future, watch my website for updates  for any changes.  I have been filming solo POV clips for AdultWork over the last year.

Lots of talk on Twitter about ladies working in the adult industry being booted off, this could potentially happen.  If it does then keep an eye on my blogs for recent pics/info and any links for any other social media.  If anyone spots my photos elsewhere on the net without a direct link to my website, mobile phone number as listed on this site or my Adult Work link then please let me know as my content does get stolen and when I started out I didn’t watermark images, then I started doing so and then not bothered again as it often spoils the look of a photo.  Always make sure the profile really is me!

Thank you for the kind generous players who have treated me through the year, with meals out, birthday and Christmas gifts and the friendships formed even though it is a paid exchange, dynamics grow, friendships form, sometimes it’s just one off sessions for those with a bucket list of Dommes or kink to do, that’s ok but I do prefer the ones who build a great rapport over time.

 

Every day I spend working doing what I love is like a visit to Wonderland, please keep this kinky Alice in wonderland.

Sending love, light and many pleasures your way

Mistress Helen xXx

 

15Nov 2022

Time Waster Tactics

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I’ve been running a successful business for over 14yrs now, during that time I have seen and heard every excuse under the sun to not being able to pay a deposit.

If you write/ring me & follow up with an email and I ask for a deposit and also ask for your next contact to be that you’ve sent it and there is any excuse that it has not been sent, contact will end there.

Not having online banking set up is always/often one excuse, yet your bank will send over money to any account at your request, you can just attend a branch!

Just over the course of the last week gone I have received 12 emails for sessions and out of those 4 were genuine, who paid and committed to coming.

If you have so much time on your hands to waste, then do some charitable work!  Most charities are often looking for volunteers, make yourself useful to society.

Over and out

Mistress Helen

P.S Thank you to the wonderful people who follow My booking procedures and value My time and their own XX

14Sep 2022

General News

Appointments, News

Hi kinksters, subs/slaves, sissies and all

I flew back Monday evening and have been playing catch up on emails yesterday and had my lovely sissy maid Anna over to do some chores to ready the play rooms and house for the bookings ahead.

Some very good boys have sent deposits today, thank you for keeping it simple and giving this Mistress commitment and a busy diary ahead.

Sadly someone contacting me on Adult Work has proved to be a terrible time waster and has got himself on the blocked list! Congratulations and there he shall stay.  The only way to get unblocked is full payment upfront and then send an email to say it’s been paid.

Moving on as I find these silly negatives rather tiresome.

I had a lovely time away, added to my light tan and freckle collection too 🙂 I won’t bore you with holiday pics on here, as I did post lots on Twitter.

I have added sensual massage back to my repertoire of activities for those not wanting any form of BDSM, just looking for a sensual teasing massage with some added stress relief at the end.

Looking forward to the vast array of fun and games I offer to you lucky lot and the fantastic bookings already firmly booked in, thank you.

See you soon

Mistress/Ms Helen  xXx

 

 

26Aug 2022

My holiday dates

News

Hi folks

I’m away from 2nd to 12th September and currently have limited availability up to the 1st so get in quick before I jet off!

Sessions will then resume from 14th September as I will be checking emails/admin on 13th September and may not be looking over my work emails very much whilst away.

My work phone will be left behind in the UK and switched off!  I will not be able to do Dommeline or Adult Work chats whilst abroad.  Spend your money on My Adult Work galleries and mini clips to keep you busy whilst I am away.  Send deposits for sessions for my return.

I will be feeding My Twitter feed as and when able, with snippets of promo, news and pics.

Playtimes available on the following dates before I go are:

Friday 26th August from 2pm to 9pm

Sat 27th August 11am to 8pm

Sunday 28th August 11am to 8pm

Monday 29th August 11am to 9pm

Tuesday 30th Double Domme with Miss Kitty Bliss, a playtime is available from midday to 2pm or at 4:30pm

Weds 31st August 1:30pm to 8pm

 

19Aug 2022

Come Fly with Me

Testimonials

I’m talking endorphins btw!

 

This is a lovely testimonial from one of My recent players, it was a pleasure to have him back and I look forward to further sessions.

 

Good afternoon Mistress Helen.
You were quite right.  Something clicked inside me on Tuesday. You opened the door to a different dimension. A headspace totally different from anything I’ve experienced previously. This both scares and excites me because I know I need to go there again. 
If our first session was play, then on Tuesday, I genuinely felt like a miscreant being punished for wrongdoing. I knew I was in for a tough time when you gagged me. Its just a pity I wasn’t able to keep the ballgag in. I shall try and obtain a gag of my own that doesn’t make me feel like I’m choking.
The caning you gave me was my first time from cold and I never expected it would hurt so much more. Yet despite the burn of each stroke, instead of trying to shy away, I was conscious of pushing my bum up to present it properly for the next one! I was in a place where to get through, all I could focus on was your voice and the pain of each stroke. The connection was electric. When you said enough, I honestly wouldn’t have cared if you’d said I was getting another 12. By accepting the ordeal, I got to a place where the endorphins were giving me wings. And I need to go back there.
First though, I need to let my sore bum heal and process a bit further what happened. Separate play from punishment, consider what’s next. At the moment, I’m thinking that our future sessions (if you’ll have me!) are going to be cold, hard canings. Real punishment. I don’t want to have a safe word because I need to endure the ordeal to get into the headspace I am looking for; but also, because I trust you implicitly to push me, to punish me and when to bring me back down.
Apologies for the length of this e mail but I did want to share my thoughts as no Mistress has ever before taken me where you have in just two sessions. 
Until we meet again, Mistress Helen my thanks.
Kind regards
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02Jul 2022

Double Domme with Miss Kitty Bliss & other news

Double Domme, News

Hello subs/slaves/sissies/Kinksters and all

If you’ve been craving a decadent double domme with two feisty fun strict Alpha females then look no further

Tuesday 30th August is the date to book in! Miss Kitty Bliss is coming to play for the day. We offer just four playtimes so it’s essential that you book and pay deposit to secure your time soon, although sometimes we have the odd cancellation so it’s worth asking a little closer to the date.

Now a message to ALL

Please ensure that you are freshly washed all over wearing clean pants and clothing when you come along for your playtime, most of you are good and do this.  Please pay your deposits within 24hrs (if not before) of arranging a playtime as I will not leave your booking firmly in My diary until I have a deposit against it.  If you wish to pay the final balance the night before you are due that’s great but not leaving tributes in full to the last minute!

I have had a fantastic holiday in the UK, doing a tour of the Jurassic coast Dorset and down t Devon, then back for some amazing playtimes this last week.  I have availability next week so get in touch by email with an outline of what tickles your fancy from My list of kink/BDSM interests listed on this wonderful website. Include some dates/times, we can then briefly chat, pay your deposit and have the most wonderful time.

 

 

 

10May 2022

Dates of availability

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To help some of My regs that book flights to come and visit for their playtimes as well as all other enquiries, I have current availability on these dates: 12th to 17th May at a variety of times, email over your interests and preferred timings, we can arrange a short 5 min chat so we have spoken and have you booked in, then you pay the deposit within *X hours of our chat, enabling you to arrange another chat closer to the date of your playtime if desired.  I require a minimum 24hrs notice for My Burgess Hill play space and 48 to 72 hours plus if you wish a playtime at either The Brighton Dungeon or Gatwick Dungeon.  I only offer same day appointments to trusted regs (deposit still taken) or those with a holding deposit already in place with two hours notice after agreement to see you.

*X hours, I will specify this in Our chat

🎁**Gifting: This is always lovely and appreciated, Tips, gift codes for Amazon/Etsy and My fave perfume at present is Do Son by Dipytique and they have a beautiful scented soap and other items in this gorgeous fragrance I will add their official site link, they also sell in major department stores John Lewis/Fenwicks/Selfridges etc.  My Birthday is 24th August  Do Son Collection (diptyqueparis.com)

I am not available between these dates: 18th to 23rd May

I have availability from 24th May to 17th June

I am not available between 18th June to 27th June

I am available from 28th June to 15th July

Not available 16th to 18th July

Available from 19th July to 5th August

Not available 6th/7th August

Available 8th  to 10th August

Not available 11th to 15th August 

Available 16th to 19th August

Not available 20th to 25th August

Available from 26th August to 1st September I think that will do for now and help you plan your spankings and all sorts of wonderful kink BDSM play over the next few months 👌

 

 

23Apr 2022

Why see a dominatrix?

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I’m often asked why someone would want to see a dominatrix, especially if the person is happily married or in some form of relationship, surely they could get their partner to show an interest??

Lots of people who come to see Me don’t want to rock the boat at home, they’ve had this interest/kink that goes way back and they’ve tried to bring it up, maybe seen a TV programme and the partner has expressed disgust so they think their partner might potentially end the relationship.  Yet this urge/feeling and fantasy exists and simply won’t go away, they can only suppress it for so long.  I have chosen not to appear on TV or in mainstream media so that My own business stays more discreet and that no one knows why you are visiting Me.  I think there are far too many “Salacious” TV docs/shows that do not truthfully reflect real life, the Mistress being interviewed is under pressure to perform/portray herself on mainstream media in a certain way and the media company has their own agenda.

Some people are simply working in a high pressure environment and want to pay someone for an easy transaction with no messy strings, that’s where I come in as I love to take people on a journey to explore their fetish or fantasy, they can come along to a safe welcoming space, to share this small but essential part of them, with trust and mutual discretion.  I’m not here to break up a marriage, I do not provide any sex.  Many of My clients have found a visit keeps their personal relationship healthy.  On occasions a wife or partner have sent their husbands along with a note or we’ve all met up for lunch to discuss playtime or punishments.  Some of these people have become good friends but also respect that this is My business so continue to book occasional play times..

I have also been asked how I would feel if My partner visited a Mistress, well having been cheated on in the past I would have been far happier if My husband had been visiting a Mistress and having CBT or tens tonnes of S**t kicked out of him or other kink, especially if it made him a loyal person to Me otherwise.

Some gents absolutely need CP and their partner doesn’t want o inflict pain of them or some just keep it a secret and time appointments around home events so that marks won’t be seen.  I’m also often asked not to leave marks, just a red rosy glow that will disappear after an hour or two!

Most of My clients would agree that after a session they feel elated and internally as though their clock has been reset!

A reminder to ALL that I do not have any form of sex with My players, do not ask to touch Me in sessions, any form of touch (as foot worship) is invited and the pre session chat covers mutual interests so that you don’t embarrass yourself by asking for something that I do not do.  I’ve always made it clear that this is not sex!  It’s BDSM fantasy play.

**Edit to add

Due to another email asking if I am trust worthy and will the person be recorded, have photos taken etc

If you can’t see for yourself as mentioned within My website and on Twitter, that any pics taken are ONLY with the persons permission, ALL clips that are on clip sites ALL have model release signed as it’s been a filming day/session and pre agreed.

If you are really paranoid and nervous and have to ask then you are not ready to see a Mistress.  I’m not offended by such questions I just find them unnecessary and extremely tiresome.  I loathe spoon feeding people, unless it’s part of your real time session with something “nasty” mwhahaha 🙂

13Apr 2022

Future Events

Double Domme, Events

Well what an exciting few weeks it has been!

Miss Ruby Vixen and Miss Kitty Bliss have both graced the Burgess Hill playrooms to come and play with some of my bois, what fun we’ve had!

Miss Kitty Bliss is a fully fledged Mistress who has been in the business for over ten years, she has her own website, runs her own business and runs Club Sanctum, which is currently having a sabbatical due to availability of London venues at present.  MKB is very experienced in CP & Medical play, strap-on, bondage and much more.

Our next double domme date is 4th May, we do get busy so it’s wise to book in advance and secure the playtime that works for your kinky time.

Miss Ruby Vixen is My assistant, an extra pair of kink friendly hands in a session, more of a playful voyeur & gentle switch, MRV doesn’t take care of bashing in the back doors with a strap-on (that’s Moi & MKB) she does like to have you suck on her lolly cock though 🙂 spanking, clothed face sitting, trample and foot worship.  Hence the rates are advertised accordingly.

Easter is soon upon us, if any chaps out there want to see how many mini eggs I can insert in your slot then do book a session and bring the chocs too!  I do love a sense of slightly warped good fun in My sessions 😁

All sessions are 24 hours notice if you are not known to me

Established regs I require TWO full hours notice from having agreed time that day

ALL sessions require a non refundable deposit (moved to one new date with 24hrs notice)

 

 

 

 

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