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15Feb 2022

Miss Ruby Vixen is back

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Miss Ruby Vixen is back to have some fun in sessions as My assistant, she will be happy to be a voyeur for those who love being watched and she is also into giving spanking. crops/paddles, spit roast strap-on on you, trample, clothed bottom worship and spanking!

If you’ve been yearning to watch me have a younger lady over my knee or over yours under my supervision then Miss Ruby can be booked to come in on sessions.  She will only be working with me and not available on her own.

Miss Ruby will be available Fridays between 9am – 3pm Weekdays 3pm – 5pm and some scope outside of that by special arrangement.

Her rates will be:

Assistant 1st hour £60, then  £50 each additional hour

Spankee/Switch rates £100 1st hour, then £80 each additional hour

ALL bookings are non sexual!  If you’ve enquired about the slubb/wand or venus200 on you within the play time,  then of course that’s what you will get!

Miss Ruby has a new Twitter id of RubyVixen (@MissRubyVixen) / Twitter   she may answer respectful Twitter DM’s if you wish to chat with her in detail she will charge for her time.  I’ve suggested £20 for 10 mins phone chat, book direct/pay her.  This is non refundable.  Miss Ruby is available with notice on Fridays ONLY between 10am to 2:30pm finish.

I will be taking bookings for Us both so get in touch via My email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com

09Feb 2022

Double Domme Dates

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Check out My Twitter feed for all advertised double domination dates and general news, this link is My ONLY Twitter, there have been several fakes recently, stealing My images and creating Twitter accounts to scam people, they have been reported numerous times but still exist!  Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter  The one and only!!!

I’m teaming up with my friend Mistress Amber in Gravesend Kent on Thursday 24th Feb 2022 we will be offering CP/All impact play, bondage, NT, sensory dep & many more BDSM Delights.  Pegging, medical play and HE is not available for this DD date, pop your enq into an email to apply.  StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

Thursday 24th March 2022 My friend Miss Kitty Bliss will be working with Me in Burgess Hill for a full BDSM experience to include pegging, medical play, CP, bondage, sissy make overs and much more!

The sooner you book and pay your deposit the more likely you are to get the time that works well for you, we are taking bookings now.  Sometimes there are places closer to the date so it’s always worth asking.  Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

 

 

10Jan 2022

Items for sale

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I have several items that I rarely use in sessions these days so I am selling them.  It will be collection only.  Bank transfer or cash on collection.

I have rejigged the clinic so that there is better access to the bondage chair next to all the medical kit and Venus2000, being as I have gyno stirrups in the main bondage room and the bed is very comfy I can still carry out all medical procedures in there.

I have bought a metal raised platform single bed base & moved the mattress from the main room into the clinic so there is a single bed for treatments/guests staying.  This means I won’t have to move a heavy sprung/memory topped mattress on a regular basis! Hooray 🙂

I am selling the Bristol Maid 4 section hospital screen £170 (new is £323.99) it folds into smaller sections for different looks and to fit in your space  Bristol Maid Four Section Curtain Screen | Health and Care

Drip stand £50 (new is from £100) as seen in photo, items not incl

Gyno chair £370  (cost £550 new MIV furniture) seen here in the medical gallery, it has 3 positions, flat, semi recline  chair & fully upright, Myself and Miss Kitty do not come with it 🙂  West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder (mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk)

 

 

31Dec 2021

Happy New Year

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Wishing ALL My wonderful players who have supported Me in 2021 with sessions/servitude and tributes.  There has been lots of laughs, fun and games and I welcome you back in 2022 for many more great times!

My new years resolutions are simply to do more art projects and crafts.  *Bore alert! I picked up a crochet hook after at least a 35yr break and I’ve little arty projects involving those, at least it will make Me easier to gift with yarn etc from relations and friends 😉

2022 I will continue to reinvest in My business with new items of kit, if there is something in particular you would enjoy that fits My remit then play items gifts are very much welcomed.

I also welcome new clients, just read the website in full and make sure you’ve done your research that I am the right Mistress for you and then follow the booking blog.  I have many fetish interests such as spanking, domestic discipline, many BDSM pursuits to include pegging so check out My vast list.

Don’t forget to like My Tweets and especially retweet ALL My promo tweets, it’s always appreciated X

Have a great NYE what ever you are up to and see you on the flip side

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen xXx

08Dec 2021

Pre Christmas availbility

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Sending Christmas holiday wishes to all my wonderful players and followers

I’ve received a couple of emails asking for a session before Christmas, which I have replied to and can see it’s in my sent items so please ensure you check your spam folder!

I have limited availability from 14th December up to 6pm finish on 21st December inclusive.  Get your booking/deposit in quickly.  I do on occasions receive cancellations so it’s worth asking.

I have just come to the very last day of isolation (officially) but I am taking a couple of extra days to get back into the swing of going out and doing a mega deep clean of every surface as well as spray down and air out the atmosphere before anyone attends.  Yes I succumbed to getting Covid.  I went to Pedestal on 25th November and 5 days later I tested positive for Covid after feeling rough, the PCR drive in confirmed my thoughts and the isolation date started from that positive PCR date to 10th Dec.  So I am well out of any risk of infecting anyone else when I leave the house for the first time this coming weekend!  It’s been like heavy flu and total loss of smell/taste from day 3 and still something that’s not returned.  I’ve been told it may just come back or could take ages.  I am double vaxxed and was due a booked booster on 20th Dec, which will now have to be done in January.  I had a flu vaccination just a day before attending Pedestal so wonder if this lowered my bodies immunity to the dreaded C19.  Who knows…

If you wish to wear a mask in sessions again that’s fine by Me, also LF testing on the day and temperature check.  My temperature only raised to 36.6 during My Covid sweats!  I normally run at 36.2

I won’t be taking sessions from 22nd December to 26th December inclusive.

I will be available again from 27th December and up to 30th December

Unavailable 31st Dec to 2nd Jan 2022

Open for business 3rd January 2022

I may log into the phone chat platforms as and when able to so keep your eyes peeled.

Thanks to all the wonderful players who came to visit over this last year, wishing you all the very best in the lead up to Christmas and the New Year.

Mistress Helen xXx

10Nov 2021

Double Domme 15th November and 25th November

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Monday 15th November I have Mistress Lola Noir coming to visit for the day, we recently did a great medical workshop and sharing of Our skills.  I will be helping Mistress Lola with WordPress and we have set time aside to offer the rare opportunity for a double domme or two that day between 4pm to 7pm.  Mistress Lola Noir 💋 ⛓🧨 (@MissLolaNoir) / Twitter

Mistress Lola is lots of fun, is very petite in statue with size 3 feet and very small hands, great for My fisting subs!  One hour double domme is £250 two hours £500 with 50% deposit.

On 25th November My bestie Mistress Kitty Bliss will be here for double domme and then we are heading off out to Pedestal that night, we have been double domming for a few years now so really gel very well in Our play!

We have from 12 midday available up to 6pm finish, we only take two sessions on double domme so book asap   Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

This is My Twitter for all current updates/pics Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter

Send your application for the above events to helen-ryder@hotmail.com following the booking procedures blog.

 

27Oct 2021

Reminder on how to book a session

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In the first instance please write an email to Me, keep it to 2/3 paragraphs max, include the following, your age, any medical conditions, any allergies or past trauma that might affect a session.  Include a very brief synopsis of the type of play.  Any emails that are overtly rude/crude/the size of a Shakespearian play are deleted.

Include the dates/times you can commit within My timings on My website.  Include your mobile number in full or last four digits and I will reply with suggested times to call for a brief chat and ask you to send £20 phone call payment, which comes off the final tribute balance if/when you attend.

Once we have spoken/agreed a session please pay the bank transfer deposit or Amazon gift code if I have agreed this in our conversation.

Note: I usually only answer My phone when expecting a call, if I answer without your intro email in place I will not be answering questions and will ask you to email with the requested information above.

ALL New clients to book 24 hours ahead, NO exceptions!  In My area today, you knew this yesterday or further back!  Plan your kink and respect My time.

Existing clients may book a same day play time, with minimum of TWO hours notices from having spoken/agreed, bear in mind that this isn’t always possible as if I am not already pre booked I may be busy elsewhere.

I do ask that clients are double vaxxed or Lateral Flow testing on the day of the booking,  If you wish to take a LF on arrival and wait to one side before we engage that’s fine too.

Example email

Dear Mistress Helen  NOT helen, babe, goddess etc

I’m looking to book a session later this week and from 4pm would be best on the following days…..

I’m fit & well, no allergies double jabbed OR I have asthma, allergic to…

I’m new/experienced and I’m interested in the following: CP light/Moderate/Hard can/can’t be marked, pegging/anal play, medical fetish etc…

Best wishes

Name you wish to use

………………………………………………………………………………

I look forward to quality respectful subs/kinksters

Mistress Helen

19Oct 2021

Double Domme with Lady Amber in Kent

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I’m teaming up again with My friend Lady Amber in Gravesend Kent on Tuesday 2nd November from midday to 9pm

Weds 3rd from 10am to 1pm finish

If you are known to me then get in touch to book or contact Lady Amber via her website and Twitter StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

50% Deposits are mandatory

We are available for CP Spankings ALL impact play

Strict Bondage sessions, rope, leather, chains, pallet wrap, taping etc

Tickle torment

Breath play

Foot worship & trample

Please note these particular DD events do not include any pegging, anal, medical play or happy endings.  We cater to the old school fetish folk.  If in doubt send a polite email to check on style/aspects of play.

 

 

 

12Oct 2021

Medfet Appointments in Sussex and Stratford

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I had an absolute blast yesterday teaming up for some extra medical practice with the lovely Mistress Lola Noir and a very game lab rat aka client!  Mistress Lola Noir 💋Berlin 24th-31st Oct ⛓🧨 (@MissLolaNoir) / Twitter

I now feel more proficient in catheters’ that I am adding this to the medical play (if desired by you) as well as offering double medical fetish with Mistress Lola both here in Sussex or over in Stratford.  We will require a minimum of 48 hours notice with deposit in place for Mondays and Fridays only.

These duo medical sessions will be starting at 90 mins for £400 fully inclusive tribute.

We can also be available for the more gentle side of BDSM and alternative massage and sensual domination

21Sep 2021

Short Notice Appointments

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Just to clarify that short notice appointments are ONLY available to established regulars and I do require TWO full hours minimum notice from having spoken/emailed between us and I will still require the bank transfer deposit or payment in full within 10 minutes of that agreement.  This ONLY applies to bookings in Burgess Hill, I require 48 hours min notice for The Gatwick Dungeon or The Brighton Dungeon.

 

If you just happen to be passing through Burgess Hill (having never seen Me before) do NOT contact Me!  This is the oldest time waster tactic in history.  It shows a lack of any respect for My booking procedures, security and vetting.

 

  • If you do not have any access to email Me do NOT contact Me.
  • If you are not willing to send a 50% bank transfer deposit do NOT contact Me.  My only interest is that you commit and turn up to play.
  • Plan ahead, book, pay your deposit in the time frame I state.  Like all the good bois/bitches that do.

I’m here for mutual fun, doing a job I actually really love!  Lets keep it that way 🙂

 

 

 

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