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There are so many lovely things I would love for My birthday on Monday 24th August.

Either send some money via bank transfer

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Account: 70468665

Ref: Birthday

Name: Rogers

Only send an email after it is sent so I can thank you if you would like a response.

Or Amazon gift code to My email address of helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

With the weather being so sublime right now I have decided to offer the Vanilla massage full body treatment of one hour at £65!

This will be in the garden on the patio area, which is a nice shaded secluded spot.  You will be wearing underpants.

Please come freshly showered as there will be no showering/no access into the premises at this offer price (only a downstairs toilet visit) if required.

I will use an unscented liquiwax massage balm which glides beautifully and will not leave your skin at all oily.  You will be able to dress after without any residue going onto your clothes.

Note this is VANILLA massage only! You will leave feeling relaxed, happy and refreshed with any special “happy ending” happening in your own home.

No fetish chit chat as it’s not appropriate outside.

Do you strive to serve your Mistress better and learn a new skill?

I used to run work shops at Club Artemis on their Sunday gatherings with massage, pedicures and manicures and it was very popular.   The bois loved learning how to carry out a treatment for their dominant to a high standard and derived pleasure from doing so.

I will be running 121 work shops from my premises from Monday 10th August 2020 with PPE in place to keep us all safe.

If you wish to bring along your dominant then you are welcome to do so if not I will need some notice to arrange a model for you to carry out the treatment/procedures under my direct instructions after watching a demonstration and will provide guidance all the way.

Workshops are £125 with guidance notes emailed to you for future reference, each workshop will  consist of around two hours and if you require more guidance/extra tuition I will tailor the workshop price to your requirements.

I provide all the information you will need for purchases of good quality products, equipment and suppliers.

You will have the skills to carry out your chosen procedure to a professional level with confidence and not have to constantly pester your Mistress with questions (disturbing her pampering and relaxation)

By giving your best attention to detail you will be in your Mistress’s good books and might be lucky to receive some reward or at least some recognition for your efforts!

If you require a re-fresher work shop within 3 months of attending your first chosen subject a £10 reduction will be given.

Come and learn as new skill and serve your dominant well!

Mistress Helen

 

 

In the first instance please write an email to Me, keep it to 2/3 paragraphs max, include the following, your age, any medical conditions, any allergies or past trauma that might affect a session.  Include a very brief synopsis of the type of play.  Any emails that are overtly rude/crude/multiple paragraphs are deleted.

Include the dates/times you can commit within My timings on My website.  Include your mobile number in full or last four digits and I will reply with suggested times to call for a brief chat.  Please also send £20 phone call payment, which comes off the final tribute balance if/when you attend.

Ensure you have read the blog Back to Work Plans regarding Covid19 and about paying a deposit, which is linked on the tribute page.

Pay either the bank transfer deposit (preferred) or Amazon gift code sent to My Mistress email (once I’ve agreed this and the amount)

When you have your play time booked in and deposit securing it we can then chat at greater length if desired and look forward to the time set aside in My diary of deviant delights.

Note: I usually only answer My phone when expecting a call, if I answer without your intro email in place I will not be answering questions and will ask you to email with the requested information above.

ALL New clients to book 24 hours ahead, NO exceptions!  In My area today, you knew this yesterday or further back!  Plan your kink and respect My time.

Existing clients may book a same day play time, with minimum of TWO hours notices from having spoken/agreed.

Example email

Dear Mistress Helen  NOT helen, babe, goddess etc

I’m looking to book a session later this week and from 4pm would be best on the following days…..

I’m fit & well, no allergies double jabbed OR I have asthma, allergic to…

I’m new/experienced and I’m interested in the following: CP light/Moderate/Hard can/can’t be marked, pegging/anal play, medical fetish etc…

Best wishes

Name you wish to use

 

 

 

I have availability for the coming week Snap up a wonderful play time Medical roleplays CP from tappity tap to full on whack

EStim/Electrics Bondage/Restraints Sissy service & Maid Training and much more……

Send an email/arrange a chat helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Deposit mandatory

Zany face

 

It’s great to be slowly getting back into play times with PPE in place for us both, so far the couple of gents I have seen haven’t found it to have impacted their time in any negative way.  A quick temperature check, up for a nice refreshing relaxing shower (it’s an Aqualisa so a lovely shower time) a fresh medical mask and then into the play rooms for some kinky fun.

Whilst there are a few things off the menu as per My back to work plans blog, there is still plenty of fun to be had!

No two sessions are the same here, from pallet wrapping and roping one of my play things onto the cross and teasing and tormenting with electrics and plenty of nipple torture to my next play time that was all about the sensual side of BDSM with soft leather floggers, silk, warm massage oil and more…

I really don’t think the precautions of turning up presenting well on the day, a nice hot shower and wearing mask in your time here has much impact on the pleasure gained from a visit.  Rest assured you do not have to see the preparation and background work that goes on before/after your playtime to keep the environment and all the toys etc clean and sterile.  I have not increased My tribute at all despite the extra costs involved for Moi.

The feedback I have received is that they felt safer coming here than going to the local super market so I think that says a lot.

Send over an email to book as I am only answering my phone if I am expecting a call from you!

Stay safe n kinky

Mistress Helen xXx

P.S Enjoy some pics from recent times

My fab friend in Huddersfield Mistress Helena

My lovely friends Miss Kitty Bliss and Ms Joanna Armstrong at Pedestal

My collared maid Laura & fave boi Slavva Rodda

Moi & Miss Kitty planning some mischief

Just a temperature check, no need to bend over! Well not yet 😉

A wonderful little script written by B for Our delicious phone chat, booked in advance privately

Enjoy!  Perhaps you might like Me to read it to you, email to book and pay for a call.

Hello darling,
Let me just find the light switch. There! That’s better.
Did you have a nice time this evening? I had a lovely time with Steve.
Look at you –  four hours later and you’re still as erect as when I left you to go on my date  – Not that you were able to do much about it, were you?  Locked and gagged in the sensory deprivation chamber you made for me.
So kind of you to spend four months clearing out the cellar and converting it from a wasted space into something useful to both our needs.
Though mainly my needs wouldn’t you agree?
 I’m sure when we first started you saw the arrangement as mutually exclussive BUT here we are ten years later with you now a cuckold and all of your accounts and property signed over to me.
My! I am a naughty minx, aren’t I?
…but its what you wanted…and now you delight in being subjugated to my power and decision-making. Lucky me….and lucky cuck!
Of course, it was inevitable that sooner or later your submissive desires would overrun you.
Not that you ever had much choice in the matter – what with me systematically denying and engaging your multiple fetishes and introducing you to a few of my own –
until the act of pleasing me became as natural to you as breathing itself.
Let me say here and now, I have no regrets in taking control of you. Our marriage was going nowhere, what with you out every night with your mates.
All those years when you returned home too late to read a bedtime story to Rebecca or help with her homework Not just that but your sheer uselessness at doing your share of the housework and unable to manage anything in bed.
Compare that with now. The house is spotless with you doing all the cleaning and meals. Rebecca is at Uni and I have the large bed all to myself while you sleep in the small bedroom…unless I have need of you.
What could be more perfect then a man offering that sort of freedom and support for a woman who is now exploring her liberation…
…and all because I happened across those images on your computer that time.
Who would have known?
I must  say, i was really surrprised when I saw all those imges of women dominating men. And on your hard drive!
It was only as I started to research it – moreso  to understand what was going on in your head – that I discovered you were a closet submissive in need of a dominant woman to take control of you.
Not that this information was of any use to me until I went on a few forums and discovered the benefits of being Dominant -and that is when our relationship turned a corner!
I remember the evening I challenged you over the photos. Your denial and lies. Then the complete change in you when I left the room and returned in black leather with a crop in my hand.
That was the moment you were truely hoisted by your own petard for my pleasure –  I knew then that things would never be the same again.
Strangely,  I was reflecting on it just this evening as you kneeled before me in My bedroom with head bowed as I was getting ready to meet Steve.
How I smiled as you eagerly ran downstairs to the sensory deprivation room to hold yourself in position against the frame as you awaited my arrival to lock you in – which was deliberately delayed as I made myself ready for Steve but also to tease you.
See how far we’ve come. My old husband would never have done that.
But then – as we both know – that man is gone. I no longer have a husband in that sense of the word any more. I have a cuckold. A submissive. A slave…and do you know what darling: I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Actually, as I was inserting the butt plug and locking you into the frame before heading out tonight, i loved the fact that as I brushed against you, you shivered with delight.
What woman wouldn’t want the man she’s locking up for the night to be so devoted to her that she can go out and enjoy herself with another man, knowing he’ll be waiting for her at home, eager for her return.
See how things have changed between us these last ten years. And for the better. Yes, that’s right! it’s our anniversary! Ten years ago today, you knelt before me and told me your desires
That is the day our marriage ended and our new life began.
And to mark it, I’ve bought you a present. Actually, its a present for both of us seeing as we’ll each get enjoyment from it – even if mine is rather shadenfruede  It’s rather large isn’t it. Don’t worry: I’ll unwrap it for you seeing as you are handcuffed to the frame.
Do you like it? It’s the next strapon size up from what you normally take.
Now, Steve has left you a something that will require your tongue to lick it out later on
…but right now, I’ll just click the strapon into place on the harness  – oh my! It is very big.
This is going to be so much fun darling. Deep breath and Happy Anniversary!
Well what happens next will be very graphic so DO book a call…………………………………..

 

I have just had the most delightful hour and a bit with a super new spankee who will be coming for play times when we can get back to the hands on really fun side of the business.

Social rates for a cuppa and a good chat in My garden are available from today as per guidelines https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do

It’s a great way to stay in touch, share stories and plot and plan the near future sessions and filming slaves.  Also a super way to continue to support Me as well as spending time together.

The fee is £80 and provided you book for a real time session within 3 months £20 will come off your session tribute.

Looking forward to seeing you soon

Mistress Helen xXx

 

I am planning to see selected clients from Monday 29th June.  Please contact Me via email in the first instance to discuss a date to session.

There will be a few restricted activities (see rest of blog) however with my vast repertoire of interests there will still be plenty of fun and excitement to be enjoyed.  I have an air purifier in My play space too!

 

  •  I will only be conducting SOLO sessions in My OWN premises.  I will only offer 2 sessions per day to allow for cleaning and airing of premises.  I expect to actually only have ONE visitor a day to start with so may be a bit more flexi on timings.

 

  • The appointment time will be from 10am, this ensures I have the morning to sanitise ALL areas before you visit and am set up to receive you.

 

  • We both need to be presenting as fit and healthy on the day, your payment paid 24 hours ahead by bank transfer and cash ONLY in exceptional circumstances!  I do not give refunds.  If you need to cancel at really short notice with a genuine reason then we simply reschedule for ONE  new date/time.  Money will only be rolled to one new date.

 

  • On arrival, you will either be wearing your own mask (clean/fresh/new) I will give you a thermo scan contactless temp check and offer you a fresh mask if required.
  • Certain activities will be unavailable, such as: Spitting, full face sissy make-up application other activities omitted are: face sitting, birdy feeding.   Think and be sensible about what interests we include in your play times.  There isn’t a way to administer poppers with Us wearing masks!  Some have asked for poppers to be dabbed on the mask but this is not possible as will prevent mask from doing it’s job AND I will be exposed to them. 
  • Vanilla massages will only be offered at one hour £120 to cover extra PPE/Cleaning

At the end of your session, you can have a few moments to adjust with a glass of water or socially distant cuppa.

  • I will carry out a very deep clean after washing everything down with hot soapy water with hospital grade cleaners such as Selgiene Ultra & Varsen, Barbicide and the like.  Towels will be washed in Dettol laundry care and detergent on a high temperature.  Everything from light switches, taps, hand rails as well as kit used in the session will all be completely sanitised.  Lower footfall here and less risk than attending the pub/supermarket etc.

These rules above are not for breaking I will only be seeing those who respect this, thank you.

Stay safe n kinky
Mistress Helen xXx